intj-and-enfp-blog

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

Hehehe wouldn’t mine being thrown into Tartarus this isn’t really an ask but I’m a female ENFP with lovely friends although, I haven’t found the right one that truly clicks with me (not that I don’t appreciate them) and am waiting to finally meet them one day bc I feel this sense of emptiness unsure why but reading how you guys came to be is truly sweet and gives me a sense of hope in some way :)

i’m rooting for you to find people you’re as comfortable around as we are around each other.

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

hello! i’d just like to tell you that this blog is inactive now. it’s sad that we started to have people talking to us just when we decided to stop using this blog... just know that if you have sent us something, we’re of course not ignoring you individually and are happy you sent us a message, even if we don’t reply.

if you want to know the reason, that is a long story, but in short you could say we both don’t really enjoy identifying so strongly with a type anymore.

hope you continue to have fun on here! have a nice day!

—“intj”

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

what does "tennis hop" mean on that one post

A tennis player jumps from leg to leg slightly to stay in motion within the game. This gives them the ability to react quickly! It’s a metaphor for being mentally alert enough to react well and quickly to things happening in the outside world :)

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

hello!!!!! first off i've only been scrolling through your guys' blog for 5 minutes but it's gr888 6 million out of ten (and being thrown into the pit of tartarus is a solid n o), so here's an ask for you two: how did you two meet?? (if this has already been answered before then just ignore it oops)

intj:wow ur cute hahahahwe were in the same class in high school (the system is a bit different in germany tho and it started in 7th grade) we didn’t talk at first, not really, although i (the intj) found the enfp really interesting from afar and that is incredibly rare. he was my first real life platonic crush ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ he just has a certain philosophical vibe without having to say anything philosophical and his eyes and hair contrast his skin plus his eyes were always full of emotion and catching the light. got me into drawing portraits. i also started caring for his wellbeing without ever having really talked to him because i noticed something that not enough ppl noticed, but that’s not my story to tell. i think it was the end of 8th grade when we started talking. first my friend at the time tried to convince me i had a crush so that was a Mess but later we actually became friends in a group of 4, but i always liked him the best. he made me laugh a lot and just made me feel at ease ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ but being alone with him meant making his shitty girlfriend at the time cry, so when i decided to get out of the terrible friendship i had with her (long story) we kinda had a mutual understanding that it’d get messy if we talked so for a while we didn’t at all. when he accidentally broke up with said shitty emotionally abusive girlfriend tho we started talking again and got close in a RIDICULOUSLY short time and now here we are, reasonably convinced that we fit so well that it must be fiction

enfp:How do I start that? Like a lot of people in our age, we met in school. We both know each other since grade 7 (12/13 years old) but really started talking in grade 9 because I hung out with my now ex-girlfriend a lot so that’s how we really started talking  because they were ‘friends‘ at that time. Talking to intj made me soon realize how intelligent intj was and that there was a lot going on in that beautiful mind. I really enjoyed spending time with my now best friend back then, especially I was able to make intj laugh and that made me really happy!So we really got to know each other after the drama with my ex-girlfriend was over and I felt free to talk to my pal without risking a shitstorm. We started texting in June 2017 and it’s kinda scary how quickly we bonded and grew together. I always felt really appreciated around intj and like an interesting human being with a cool mind and discussing and just talking was always so easy because I could just let my mind wander without being too much. It’s really a miracle that we fit together so nicely, sometimes it feels like we filled out a questionnaire and then someone decided that we would make a good team and put us together and here we are.☆

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

me .01 seconds after emphatically saying yes to plans

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

Can a high Se user, like istp or Esfp, be clumsy?

no. true xSxPs will cartwheel straight out of their mother’s womb into a life of masterful athleticism. they haven’t even heard of the word “clumsy” (and they wouldn’t know how to look it up in the dictionary because they are sensors, duh).

when a normal person runs into walls or trips over furniture it’san accident, but when a xSxP does the same it’s called parkour.

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

when non-Se users explain Se

being able to see, being able to touch, being able to taste, noticing colors, thinking something is beautiful

…basically functioning as a normal fucking human being, that’s Se for ya folks

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

ENFP: You know how they say we need to get out of our comfort zone?

INTJ: Yeah?

ENFP: What if we were never in it?

ENFP: What if we actually need to find it and get inside it, to be able to unlock our full potential?

ENFP: Because that’s how I feel with you. You’re my comfort zone. Since I found you life’s been getting better because I finally got the chance to be myself completely without having to fake a persona. I love you so much!

INTJ: ENFP, that’s so sweet!

INTJ: I mean what

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

plot twist: the introverted character who doesn’t like big social gatherings or speaking in front of people is still an introvert by the end of the story because introversion is not a character flaw and it doesn’t need to be overcome 

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

MBTI types in a nutshell

ISFJ

- main comfort in familiarity; strong sense of duty

- overwhelmed by/uncomfortable with new experiences they are unprepared for

- wish for harmony (happiness of the group as the base of society); (often reluctance in taking charge of it)

- possible over-reliance on what they (believe to) know to be true

ISTJ

- main comfort in familiarity; strong sense of duty

- overwhelmed by/uncomfortable with new experiences they are unprepared for

- wish for systems that work smoothly on their own, cutting a body of information down to the necessary; (often reluctance in taking charge of it on a big scale)

- possibly get caught up by how things (and especially they) “should” be (morally/ideally)

INFJ

- careful thought processes to find how everything in life is connected

- uncomfortable with/quickly overwhelmed by too much sensory input (as it makes careful focus on thought more difficult)

- wish for harmony (happiness of the group as the base of society); (often reluctance in taking charge of it)

- possible over-reliance on what they (believe to) know to be true

INTJ

- careful thought processes to find how everything in life is connected

- uncomfortable with/quickly overwhelmed by too much sensory input (as it makes careful focus on thought more difficult)

- wish for systems that work smoothly on their own, cutting a body of information down to the necessary; (often reluctance in taking charge of it on a big scale)

- possibly get caught up by how things (and especially they) “should” be (morally/ideally)

ESFJ

- creating and maintaining harmony as main drive (happiness of the group as the base of society)

- ignoring of/uncomfortable with reveal of “the truth”/objective fact if it interferes with sense of group-harmony

- wish for feeling of familiarity as it is comforting to them

- seek novelty as a way of getting away from their usual life (although often scary); (often avoidance behaviour)

ESTJ

- main drive to create and improve systems that work smoothly on their own, cutting a body of information down to the necessary

- uncomfortable with/overwhelmed by own deep emotions as they are irrational and “are bound to create mistakes”

- wish for feeling of familiarity as it is comforting to them

- seek novelty as a way of getting away from their usual life (although often scary); (often avoidance behaviour)

ENFJ

- creating and maintaining harmony as main drive (happiness of the group as the base of society)

- ignoring of/uncomfortable with reveal of “the truth”/objective fact if it interferes with sense of group-harmony

- wish to figure out how everything is connected; use their conclusions as a tool for their main drive

- seek physical excitement as a way of getting away from their usual life (often avoidance behaviour)

ENTJ

- main drive to create and improve systems that work smoothly on their own, cutting a body of information down to the necessary

- uncomfortable with/overwhelmed by own deep emotions as they are irrational and “are bound to create mistakes”

- wish to figure out how everything is connected; use their conclusions as a tool for their main drive

- seek physical excitement as a way of getting away from their usual life (often avoidance behaviour)

INTP

- main drive to know and understand everything that might be interesting; knowing everything means knowing the truth

- dislike of people’s harmony-focus as it might dispute their search of objective truth

- wish to explore everything extensively and leave no possibility out

- avoidance behaviour by sticking to the comfortable and familiar

ISTP

- main drive to know and understand everything that might be interesting; knowing everything means knowing the truth

- dislike of people’s harmony-focus as it might dispute their search of objective truth

- wish to constantly (be able to) be physically reactive to the world 

- possible over-reliance on perceived hidden connections and “recognising” bad intentions

INFP

- main drive to have an extensive understanding of the human (emotional) experience and their own selves

- uncomfortable with people ignoring the complexity of the human mind in favour of cutting something down to the necessary  

- wish to explore everything extensively and leave no possibility out

- avoidance behaviour by sticking to the comfortable and familiar

ISFP

- main drive to have an extensive understanding of the human (emotional) experience and their own selves

- uncomfortable with people ignoring the complexity of the human mind in favour of cutting something down to the necessary

- wish to constantly (be able to) be physically reactive to the world 

- possible over-reliance on perceived hidden connections and “recognising” bad intentions

ENTP

- fast thought processes to freely explore all possibilities without immediate subjective filtering

- uncomfortable with routine and micromanaging as it limits them in finding new topics to explore

- wish to learn and understand everything they might find interesting (possible reluctance in taking time for it)

- possible avoidance behaviour by convincing other people they’re always right/bringing their point across by resorting to personal (emotionally effective) attacks

ESTP

- main drive to constantly (be able to) physically react to and keep up with the outside world (“tennis hop”); objectively observant

- uncomfortable with intense focus on finding out how things connect on a purely theoretical level as it takes away from focus on physical reality and ability to be reactive

- wish to learn and understand everything they might find interesting (possible reluctance in taking time for it)

- possible avoidance behaviour by convincing other people they’re always right/bringing their point across by resorting to personal (emotionally effective) attacks

ENFP

- fast thought processes to freely explore all possibilities without immediate subjective filtering

- uncomfortable with routine and micromanaging as it limits them in finding new topics to explore

- wish to have an extensive understanding of the human (emotional) experience and their own selves (possible reluctance in taking the time for it)

- possible avoidance behaviour by reacting aggressively either verbally or physically (slamming doors more often than physical violence); appearing impersonal and “cold” or “cutting”

ESFP

- main drive to constantly (be able to) physically react to and keep up with the outside world (“tennis hop”); objectively observant

- uncomfortable with intense focus on finding out how things connect on a purely theoretical level as it takes away from focus on physical reality and ability to be reactive

- wish to have an extensive understanding of the human (emotional) experience and their own selves (possible reluctance in taking the time for it)

- possible avoidance behaviour by reacting aggressively either verbally or physically (slamming doors more often than physical violence); appearing impersonal and “cold” or “cutting”

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

ENFP’s observation on INTJ

INTJ is the kind of person that does extensive research on something. And when they are focused, they go on full focus mode. This allows them to absorb all the information. This also results in INTJ being very logical. INTJ prefers logic reasoning to a situation rather than being cared for their emotions. In fact, the reasoning is what actually helps them to feel cared about. 2 birds with one stone. Though some people might think it’s challenging to reason with an INTJ, it is not impossible. It’s important to do your research regarding the matter and help INTJ reach from the purpose until the conclusion. Once an INTJ gets closure, then they will be satisfied and of course, love you more.

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

I mean option A) isn’t that far off from the truth….

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

[enfp (grey) introduces a project idea to an intj (blue) who immediately asks if the enfp thought about the details.]

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

today’s tea

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

enfp (blue) and intj (grey) conversation

[intj-and-enfp-blog]

bts mbti types

i’m just gonna drop this here

jungkook: infp

taehyung: enfp

jimin: enfj

namjoon: infj

hoseok: esfj

yoongi: intj

seokjin: intp