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Yeah, that's Clearly You responding to Previous or Current Threats of Violence or General Fear of the Cis Majority. It's really Trying on all of Us to be in Circumstances like this. I try to convince Myself I'm Impervious to the Hate and the General low-high key disrespect We Receive from Cis People, but it affects Me too Friend. Just Know That You Are Not Alone and May Baast, Ise, Freya and Týr(a) keep You from Harm. Blessed Be.

Threadless says this can be read to endorse violence against trans women

I'm so fucking angry right now.

Love being told that i, a trans woman making a defiant fuck you to harassment, is the problem and the one endorsing violence.

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Men Pay Me Extra to Top lmao... Cuz for One thing I'm a Proud Transfeminine Dyke, and for Second thing I'm mostly a FemmeSub... not Me in the Pic but I'm totally Channelling Her Energy.

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Representation Matters

Digital illustration of a brown woman crouching in a dark blue bomber jacket and skirt with a fine porcelain plate pattern & she’s wearing thigh high boots. Behind her is a plate with text that reads “if you’re not at the table, you’re probably on the menu”

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I, Tera Angle, am Announcing My Candidacy for United States President. #AmericanAnarchistUnaffiliated #2024Election #SerySays #WildCard Candidate

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Happy Ace Week!!! 🖤🤍💜

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Sending my love to those with "bad person" traits.

Those with low/no empathy.

Those who can be manipulative.

Those who use their own experiences as a way of showing support to other people.

Those who lie frequently.

Those who get jealous of other people's success.

Those who get angry a lot.

Those who hate physical touch.

Those who cry so much that it comes off as manipulative.

None of these prove whether you're a good person or not. A lot of us have developed them as a result of trauma, or we've lived in an environment where this was our normal. And even if you haven't, you still deserve support.

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My childhood best friend and longtime crush just married her cisgender fiancé. I, a closeted trans man, was her Maid of Honor. I walked the aisle, smiled, laughed, acted completely normal, then went into the bridal suite and had a massive panic attack comforted by my transphobic mother. Who was, shocker, sympathetic. I changed into a suit and took my anxiety meds, managed to act normal again, then went home and got super depressed. She picked him over me, because I am not a man to her, and I never will be. Is anybody out there to hear me scream?

your scream is heard

good luck, peace & love,

eve

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So today I've had a bit of a roller coaster as far as my expression of my gender identity goes: I primarily identify as an EnBy Transfeminine Person but today when I was getting dressed I tried on a Men's Henley... I'm still wearing my bra, which I almost always wear, and the top I'm wearing still does look more feminine on me than the alternative, and I think this is because I perceive myself to be more on the fem side of the spectrum generally speaking anyway. Point is tho the shift over to a more Masculine Presentation for the day was a little jarring for me and it made me Question, for only just a moment or three, whether or not I am in fact Trans. My determination is that I am a Demigirl for the most part and that to Encompass a broader range of the possibilities available across all the Gender Spectrum is not at all a bad thing.

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Adfeminine Demigirl Pride Flag

Adfeminine/adfem: someone who moves towards a feminine gender or feminine presentation; a fem adgender modality.

Demigirl or demiwoman: someone experiencing a partial connection to womanhood/girlhood; self-identifying as partially woman/girl, partly something else.

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What about an entire series of books for Career TransWomen with Inclusivity and Acceptance as the Key Elements to being able to Flourish.

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What do you mean you replaced my wardrobe with only these types of clothes???

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Tosin Olajire & Emmanuel Adjaye by Rafael Pavarotti for Dazed Magazine - 30th Anniversary Issue

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Anok Yai attends the 2023 Heidi Klum Halloween Party