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The best way to do that is in little space 💗🥰
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I am waiting for you, if you do not come I will be sad and all cuddly but you won't be able to hug me hehe you can only padded me if you enter👆
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how do you feel about using pacifires and when did you first use one
I think pacifiers are really cute and really make me feel baby. I like to collect unique ones. It’s also really fun to shove a pacifier in someone else’s mouth!
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knowing I don’t have to leave the beach for a potty break is a great feeling😏
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Success Stories
It’s been incredibly to hear from so many of you who have found our articles helpful, both as ABDL’s using it as encouragement to speak with their partners and also for non-ABDL partners using it to understand more and help their diaper wearing partner.
I wanted to just write down a few elements which have stood out:
Non-ABDL partners are much more open to 24/7 than I’d have expected
Comments like “I don’t mind him wearing all the time if it makes him happier” are much more common than people worrying about it.
I’ll come onto this later but 24/7 is actually preferable for a lot of partners.
ABDL partners almost always need the push to embrace what’s actually best for them
Feelings of shame and worries about lack of acceptance often works against ABDL’s doing what is best for their happiness and mental health.
A partner “forcing” them to wear more has only resulted in positive stories from both sides. As well as helping the ABDL get want they actually desire the fact their loved one is encouraging them to do it makes them feel very accepted.
Non-ABDL partners prefer a clear structure over their wearing
Many partners really struggle to know when they should diaper their partner or encourage it as their desires are yo-yoing all the time.
Many I’ve spoken to have chosen to make them wear all the time vs random wearing and found this to be much preferable.
24/7 although seemingly a big lifestyle change is easier to understand and adapt to. Exceptions are ok but the non-ABDL partner should control these.
Checks are harder than changes
Most partners are willing to change their partners diaper regularly or all the time. About half also do their 💩 ones.
Checks however are harder for them to get into the routine of. Initially it might be fine for the ABDL partner just to ask for a change as required but the simplest way to incorporate changes is for a phone alarm to be set every 2 hours initially to get into the routine.
ABDL clothing is hit or miss
Some partners love the babyish side and lean into this while others find this element the hardest to deal with.
An honest conversation is required and then if they struggle with ABDL attire, experiment and work up slowly.
Kids complicate things
Couples with older children struggle to switch to 24/7 as easily. Wearing every night is the most common option initially in this case.
My advice would be to experiment with 24/7 pre-kids if you can and then just keep it going as the norm once kids arrive.
The non-ABDL partner should make the decision
It feels like it should really be for stories but actually I’m now a massive advocate for the non-ABDL partner triggering the shift to them being diapered 24/7.
They should throw away their underwear (maybe keeping and hiding a few for exceptions) and replace them with diapers.
This is as important for the non diaper wearing partner as the ABDL partner as it helps them fully accept this is a choice they’ve made and accepted. Doing this while they’re away and then diapering them for first time as a 24/7 wearer when they return is a powerful moment.
The success rate is amazing
All the couples who have now switched to 24/7 or close have kept it going. Most importantly both sides are reporting that they’re happier.
The best results are when they commit to diapers fully with very limited exceptions and the partner is involved regularly with changes.
Most expect this to now be permanent.
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Based on what we’ve seen this has continued to cement my opinion that if you can you should move your ABDL partner to as close to 24/7 as you can manage.
Keep the rules simple with diapers becoming their toilet for everything, exceptions only where 100% required and treat it as a permanent change.
Make the decision for them and thank me later 🥳
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Why your partner likes diapers and wants them 24/7
As a non-ABDL person, trying to understand why my successful, grown-up male partner would want to wear and use diapers 24/7 wasn’t immediately obvious. He even struggled to describe his feelings & desires to me. To make it even harder his desires seemed to change from wanting and even trying 24/7 to not wearing diapers at all for a few days.
Overall this really made me confused and worried and is what drove me to go deeper into my research into ABDL and start talking to some other couples.
He’s helped me with some of this article but the goal of it is to help non-ABDL partners understand their ABDL partners desire better. I should also say that this is our viewpoint and although I know from conversations with other couples it’s a very common one, there are obviously lots of different reasons why someone might want to wear diapers which we won’t cover here.
So firstly, you’re not in any way stupid for wondering why your partner might want this, as subjectively wearing diapers has a lot of negatives from potential embarrassment, cost, smells, extra chores in daily life… the list goes on. BUT for your partner some of these negatives might actually be positives and overall the positives far outweigh any negatives for them.
So lets get down to some of the reasons they like diapers:
It gives them comfort
This is a hard one to describe but in the same way that cuddling up to your partner or being given a hug can make you feel at ease, safe and relaxed, diapers can do this for ABDL people.
I’ve heard the saying that wearing a diaper is like being given a hug constantly. From the moment they’re taped into a diaper many ABDL’s will feel more at ease.
It takes them back to a simpler time
Childhood is something a lot of adults look back on with fond memories where they lived without the stresses and pressures of daily adult life. Wearing and using diapers can really help in reminding them of these good times and adding some of it back into their adult life.
This is especially powerful if you take control of their checks and changes, and incorporate other elements of babying.
If you partner likes to regress and act like a younger age (age play) then diapers are a core ingredient to get them into this headspace.
They like giving up some control
I have no hard evidence to back this up but I feel that ABDL’s over-index on stressful careers and generally being “successful” people. The problem is this often comes with tons of responsibility and control over lots of decisions, so giving up some of this control can be incredibly therapeutic and stress-releasing for them.
I’m confident that all adults can relate to the enjoyment of having some decisions taken away from them, but for most using the toilet wouldn’t be their go-to thought.
We’re big advocates for 24/7 and one of the main reasons for this is I’ve seen first hand how beneficial it was saying to my boyfriend, yes you’ve got a big and important job with lots of stress but from now onwards going to the toilet isn’t going to be something you have to think about.
This year we’ve been experimenting with him giving up more control, by increasing the babying, and honestly the more I take away the better I think it makes him, both professionally and personally.
They like the smells
Being in diapers 24/7 exposes them to a lot of different smells which they can find enjoyable or relaxing.
From being taped up in a fresh diaper with baby powder scent, to the subtle pee smell as they use their diaper, to more pungent odours coming from their filled diaper, to the clean fragrance while being wiped clean. They experience this wide range of smells daily and each brings different feelings from feeling cared for, loved, embarrassed and more.
I myself (like many women) like the smell of babies and over time I’ve found that the smell of baby powder on him and his wet diaper is something that makes me feel content and relaxed too.
The feeling of diapers is great
The soft padding encasing their bum and groin is comforting, and then as they use it it gets warmer and squishy. There is a constant reminder of its presence when sitting or walking, with the subtle sound which accompanies it. Even the feeling of messing their diaper is enjoyable for many ABDL’s due to the unique feeling of it pushing out and then spreading in different directions.
The naughtiness of being punished
Diaper discipline should be more than your partner wants as otherwise it won’t fulfil the feeling of being punished and controlled which they crave.
Like other more mainstream kinks their diapers sometime being uncomfortable, embarrassing and inconvenient is a positive for them and isn’t something you should try avoid.
Many times it’s convenient
Being able to pee and not have to stop playing a game, watching a film or working can be convenient. My boyfriend used to get up in the night to pee which disturbed his sleep and mine, now it goes straight into the diaper.
On long drives and flights it can be a lifesaver wearing a diaper, the seatbelt light going on doesn’t worry you even if you need to pee.
Being changed is amazing
Diaper changes make them feel incredibly loved and cared for. It’s very intimate with some embarrassment but having your loved one wipe you clean and tape you into a fresh diaper is one of the top experiences for your ABDL partner.
Even a diaper check shows them you’re caring for them while also playing into the feeling of giving up control.
Diapers combine great with other kinks
Diapers go hand in hand with a range of other kinks including bondage, chastity, spanking & submission. If they or you are kinky you should try these with diapers involved and all make for good punishments too.
They’re cute
With ABDL and diaper discipline more popular than ever, we’re blessed to have a huge range of amazing adult diapers available. These diapers look cute on your partner and when combined with ABDL clothing it really plays into the lovely feeling of regressing to a younger age.
Why 24/7
So hopefully you can now better understand why your partner loves wearing diapers. But there are a few reasons why the idea of wearing 24/7 and then the reality of it is so appealing:
Accepting this is part of them
Many if not all ABDL’s have experienced or are still experiencing shame about their diaper wearing desires. Switching to or being forced to wear 24/7 helps them accept that this actually is a big part of who they are and they don’t need to pretend otherwise or feel guilty about it.
The loss of control
Accepting they now have to use their diapers instead of the toilet on a long term basis excites and scares them in a good way. They’re losing one of the most grown up privileges.
You accepting them
Encouraging or forcing them to wear 24/7 shows your partner that you fully accept this part of them. One of their biggest fears will be their ABDL desires cause them to lose you, so by being truly supportive it will be a massive weight lifted off their shoulders.
We’re going to do another article on this shortly but because of this I feel there is a big benefit of you forcing them into 24/7 rather than waiting for it to happen naturally.
It stops them having to decide when to wear
Many ABDL’s yoyo on their diaper wearing frequency and struggle to decide when to wear or not. Having this choice taken away from them removes this stress and helps combat the lows when before they’d have felt guilty and stopped wearing for a period.
It becomes part of their daily life
Diaper wearing is often a hidden part of their lives but moving to 24/7 means it needs to become much more normalized. From making sure their wardrobe is now designed around their padded bum to having a large stock of diapers on hand and not hidden is extremely beneficial for your partner.
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I’m sure there are many reasons here we’ve missed so please add them into the comments. Also please watch out for our next long post about when is the right time to switch your partner to 24/7 and how to do it.
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