kaycora

[kaycora]

*doesn't interact with anybody* sigh, why does nobody pay attention to me?

[kaycora]

how to shut up a narcissist:

-give them money

-offer them $1,000 cash

-send a large amount of money to their bank account

-gift them 10 100 dollar bills

-venmo them one thousand dollars

[kaycora]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

also known as "a collective name for 'abusive piece of shit asshole stupid toxic fuckers'"

smh

Common misconceptions about NPD :

"Narcissists don't have hearts! They only love themselves!"

Wrong. Shocking but pwNPD are still capable of having a heart and loving someone. I know countless pwNPD in healthy relationships with their partners. pwNPD might show love in other ways,as we are disordered people whose perception of multiple things are way different than an egotypical's.

"NPD isn't real! Narcissism is just excessive self love!"

Wrong. NPD is a very much real thing that comes from childhood abuse and neglect. It is a disorder for a reason,and we are traumatized. (of course it can be genetic but i won't be talking about that)

Narcissism isn't the "i love myself so much i always kiss myself on the mirror i have portraits of myself on the walls" thing. Narcissism NPD is basically someone masking as having a huge ego and thinking of themselves as superior to everything and anything because they have a low self-esteem that ruins their life. In fact,even the slightest mistake makes me and other narcissists crash out hard.

"All narcissists are evil! They don't care about anyone!"

Faulty. We are actually very capable of caring about people,we simply keep it for people we deem worthy of it. pwNPD can be very nice and kind, especially covert type narcissists. I myself have helped countless people.

As for the "People we deem worthy" part, pwNPD have"inner hierarchies". We may not care about a stranger on the street. But we care about people we deem equal/chosen/close to us. Some pwNPD including me think about their chosen/equal people as an extension of themselves and accept them as worthy as we are.

While pwNPD might be bad people,not every single one of them are. There are,like,thousands of people that have this disorder and not all of us are the same.

"Narcissistic abuse is real! Narcissists are evil and abusive!"

Oho ho,not only wrong but ableist! Narcissistic abuse isn't a real thing. If it is,then ptsd abuse/depression abuse/autistic abuse/neurotypical abuse and all other [disorder] abuse is also real, which they aren't because a disorder cannot abuse you and every single person with a disorder aren't the same.

People think that saying narcissistic abuse isn't real is invalidating their trauma but it isn't. If it invalidates someone's trauma, it's actually pwNPD's. If you go to any trustworthy site and look up types of abuse, narcissistic abuse won't be there,because it isn't real. Call it what it is: emotional abuse,or whatever abuse you went through,because narcissistic abuse isn't real.

In fact,people preaching about narcissistic abuse and selling stuff about how to cope with narcissists are the real people invalidating you and your struggles. They benefit off of your trauma and the stuff you went through by invalidating tons of other traumatized people with a disorder they cannot control and manipulate you into thinking it is real.

And here's the thing: a person cannot control their disorders. They cannot control which disorder they form and which they don't. And NPD forms from severe childhood trauma. The traumatized person you're shitting on did not choose to have that disorder,and they didn't sign up for your bullshit about them being evil because they formed a disorder out of their control.

If you are a neurodivergent person/person with a cluster b personality disorder/person with NPD and actively contribute to narcissistic abuse,you are also ableist. You having a disorder doesn't mean you can't be ableist to other disordered people,because you are: simply because they have a disorder. "I have NPD and I use it!" you are contributing to your own and your folk's oppression. This doesn't make you any better.

People with NPD are also traumatized,they do not control what disorder they form and what disorder they don't. Quit being an asshole to people just because they have a disorder and quit demonizing them.

[kaycora]

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[kaycora]

im so tired of therapy and "getting better" rn

[kaycora]

i just had to endure being introduced to my friend's other friends. nobody cared about me, nobody even really talked to me. and i had to pretend to be okay with that.

I wanted to kick and scream and cry and throw up literally the whole time. i had to keep drinking to stop myself from saying anything. how could they not care about me??? i might actually kill myself

[kaycora]

beating your friends in deathmatch games by +100 kills feels so fucking good where have competitive shooters been all me life???

[kaycora]

can people in my class stop calling people narcissists as an insult

[kaycora]

[kaycora]

Suspected NPD culture is meticulously planning out what to send to people and when, to both guarantee and maximize their responses. Not getting a response SUCKS so I gotta make sure they're practically compelled to give me that sweet attention. Insert that gif of Walter white doing his chemistry shit

Suspected NPD Culture Is...

[kaycora]

i got asked to "stop doing that" and now i gotta sit and act like im fine with being asked to stop when im really not

[kaycora]

blog intro ig

you can call me K and nothing else. maybe cora if you know me

i got npd, hate me for it if you want idc.

i write bad music, its bad on purpose. i CAN write good music, but i dont want to. please dont tell me how i could "make it better" thats not the point ://

bisexual but aromantic because im all the company i need :)

uhhh whatelsewhatelse... uh idfk lmao :P

message me if you wanna talk about stuff ig but dont expect a reply right awayyy

'kayyy??? 'kayy byeee

~K