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Am I the only one that is spending 2AP per answer? Is it something I didn't hear about? 😭It's taking me longer to finish the episode

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The 1st February boy

Happy 29th year to Kim Dongyoung. The man who is so adept at finding dreams, setting and reaching goals, making friends, acquiring fans, advancing his career, and finding solutions to problems on his own, that the only thing left to wish him is tremendous health for many years to come.

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Someone type me. My 6 ass can't do shit.

I'm like "oh yes, I see the so and sx". But what if I'm just a so/sp in a sx overfocused and gaslighting myself?

so/sp until proven otherwise

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I have this big need to know why do I trigger 6 so/sp so much? 🤨 I know I do. They give me those passive aggressive answers out of nowhere for no reason. It's like I'm a human detector of 6 so/sp. I'm just chilling in a group of people and suddenly "Em... Actually, that's wrong", "But how do you know that??", "Don't try to impose me your ideas", "Stop joking around", "I have the right to be angry!"... Eh???????????????

Does someone know why this happens?

I won't change myself but I still wonder why do they get so defensive around me, not even 1s get into such a "police mode" with me. It's not all 6s, just so/sp.

Edit: I realized it's the IxFPs and ISFJs. The rest are chill around me

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I made an AI feel uncomfortable... This hurts my pride. How can an AI find me overwhelming to deal with? Ihateverything

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This is going to be a super niche post, but during my years of drawing classes I noticed that the mbti types have common struggles when it comes to drawing from life based on their perceiving function. So I’ve had this idea in the back of my head for awhile and finally wrote it all down. warning its p long

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Check out the patreon to unlock the next two parts!:D

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Parent figure, am I being a good person? 🥵 💦

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I'm expectant

Projecting desire and sx

Why yearning for intensity actually proves you're sx-blind

We're all familiar with the usual descriptions of the sx-dom or rather SX Subtype. It describes an individual preoccupied with finding highs within people, seeking out the intimate and intense to then finally merge with their partner of choosing. Its wishing for psychological nudity and to be indistinguishable from the person you desire.

What if I told you that this is all wrong? Or rather, terribly worded.

Its not all wrong, some of this does characterize sx to an extent, but only a very specific kind. The sx-overfocus. This is due to the fact that most authors attempting to relate to sx-doms failed miserably and were only able to comprehend them through their own sx-blind lense, even mistyping themselves as sx in the process.

The sx-overfocus happens to sx-blinds when their wish to connect through soc is unsuccessful. They feel abandoned, ignored, just not seen. So when they're disgruntled with the people around them and deem them all superficial, yearning for someone or somebody real that actually cares, and to then merge with them. Its an overwhelming desire to live beneath somebody's skin, breathe their air and be one with them.

Its a reaction to their own overstepping of their sp, their boundaries, their privacy, their own protected energy and relationship to themselves. The more they open up the more vulnerable and exposed they feel. The sensation feels addicting, scary, new, overwhelming, and ultimately leads to obsession.

They mistake vulnerability as intensity. And thats the misconception surrounding sx.

In later stages, there's a level of discomfort surrounding the interaction, their own anger at their boundaries being overstepped turns into desire to own another and regain their sense of self. Regain the boundary that was ultimately lost within the other and thats why they believe they can only be whole through merging. Its ultimately an attempt to regain control of their autonomy. You're projecting all of your desire, wishes and needs on somebody.

Through media and culture, our idea of love has become the overstepping of one's personhood and "perfect unity", to compromise yourself, this has become a cultural ideal. Something individuals feel they need to seek out, because vulnerability is only reserved for romantic intimate partners. If you're a romantic, its a high chance you're sx-blind. Essentially its a romantized version of something inherently toxic, but accepted by society which they've picked up through soc. That's why, the popular idea and overall understanding of sx is tainted by this and leads to mistyping.

So ..what exactly is sx?

I'll write that post eventually