ladylizthelazy

[ladylizthelazy]

Just me breaking people's idea of how the world works by being a fictional introject and having my gender and sexuality originally formed from that.

[ladylizthelazy]

Plurality can be sexy

I’ve been the main writer on a booklet on trans, sex, kink, BDSM, hrt, and basically not being cis for a while now and tonight I decided to add a section in the plural part about the sexiness of plurality. Because I can and it definitely can be fun to involve in sex and kink.

Just the feeling of having a dom able to switch me out for another alter on command can be hot. But also things being so hot that alters come to the front because they want to take part is brilliant for the ego. Having an orgy of just two bodies is also a fun concept and kinda mindfucky in a great way.

Also as someone who’s been diagnosed with DID I’m quite happy and even sometimes excited for people finding me a little extra attractive for being 7 genders in a trench coat. As long as they’re not being fetishizing of course. I have an interesting mind and it’s really cool when people take an interest in that.

[ladylizthelazy]

As someone who really loves being a strong woman I love all you artists out there who draw strong women and understand how larger muscles shape breasts. They're so different and I love seeing that difference understood and given affection. Often having stronger muscles under and around the breasts will spread and space them apart further leading to them unable to touch for cleavage (which makes buying bras a pain). They'll also have a different kind of perkiness than what most people think of perky. Not sure how to describe it but when I see it damn it's beautiful in so many ways.

I struggle with bulimia and gender dysphoria and these would often tell me my breasts are shaped wrong, ugly, and unattractive. And that I'm at fault for it. But actually nothing is at fault. I'm just strong and I don't get to see good representation of boobs on strong women very often if ever in drawn art and media in general. So finding all these artists genuinely helps me feel good about myself and attractive. A couple examples are @mayticks-art and @badasserywomen

In recent times I'm also very lucky to have a very welcoming pole and aerial dance place and seeing the other women there especially the instructors has massively helped with my body image as well.

[ladylizthelazy]

I'm having the honestly wonderful fun of being genderfluid with a range from agender to female and dating someone who's agender who presents fem, masc, androgynous, or a mixture of all depending on how they feel. We're also both bisexual. It's so fucking gay I love it. But it's also sometimes kinda straight but never fully straight but an amazing queer mixture of everything.

[ladylizthelazy]

In jokes should be rated by how confused they make outsiders. 

The more the better obviously.