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[lilyartemisia]

Being raised in Islam is a traumatic trashfire.

As an exmuslim, I hate shit like this. Stop trying to make this shit normal. Little girls covering their hair bc their religion said it can make men horny isn't smth to be normalized.

That girl is not being ostracized bc ppl aren't inclusive enough of others religions, the religion is what is ostracizing her. That religion forbids her from doing things kids do and deserve to experience.

Imagine having to listen to Quran your whole life bc some sky daddy said it's haram (forbidden) to listen to music.

Just imagine how different and left out little girls feel their whole lives, but their brothers or male counterparts are having the time of their lives.

Women in Islam are prohibited to do anything besides cover up and be maids to men around them.

This should not be taught or be celebrated or accepted.

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It's actually depressing that some lesbians believe and act like this.

I agree with this post entirely. 100%.

Comments:

- "Preference is fine. It’s when ppl start to invalidate us or villainize us like we’re always toxic and we can’t be taken seriously."

- "The problem is assuming every bisexual woman is just like that and therefore rejecting the idea of dating one at all."

- "And then a bi woman will share her hurtful experiences with lesbians & suddenly it’s, “don’t generalize our entire community!!” Like they get it when it happens to them, but then do it to us."

I get not wanting to be around male centered ppl, as a bi women that exclusively dates other women. But hating on women for simply liking men (hetero and bi women) bc you see them as supposedly stupid for liking them is crazy. I know men are the fucking worst. But women being attracted to them aren't male centered. That's just their sexuality. You aren't superior for not having any attraction to men.

If a bi women cheats, it's their personality. Yall lesbians wouldn't like it if ppl generalize and say all lesbians chase and obbsess over straight women. Clearly that's fucking lesbophobic and false.

Alot of yall think you have to not be attracted to men to actullay decenter them and be seen as worthy to the radfem community.

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The satisfying feeling of hearing a man needing your help by saying, "excuse me," and you walk away after he gets totally mad because you know he's just going to use you and pretend to be helpless (because I noticed a pattern: they expect us to unquestioningly serve them), because free labour.

You walk away, not giving a shit about what he wants, and it's freeing.

Also, that I've had some creepy interactions because of the above in the past, I am well within my rights to do this for my own safety.

[lilyartemisia]

I wonder if they have supplements under this? Need to shred and burn.

Ladies we’re eating protein and lifting weights in 2025!!!

[lilyartemisia]

Say it louder: men and boys are weak AF.

the massive crybabyism going on right now about men not succeeding in schools especially post secondary schools is wild to me because...

women will attend school while pregnant, taking care of children and elders. they will miss classes to caregive and work long hours to pay for someone to watch their dependents while in school. and still fucking graduate.

women will take on the chores of their bum ass dads, brothers, boyfriends, and male roommates and still fucking graduate.

women will get raped and be in abusive relationships and pick themselves up and still fucking graduate.

meanwhile men will cry and moan about how the education system is unfair to them because big strong manly men need to run around instead of being expected to sit at their desks and read. boo fucking hoo.

women. y'all are so strong.

[lilyartemisia]

Truth. I have a coworker who has a weird fantasy and fetish to see me with a child. He said something along the lines of, "it's your destiny to have one, since you are a woman/have the organs to do so."

These men cannot bear the reality: more women are having less and less children because it's not worth it. There's more to life than this.

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The number of men not realising that this so-called epidemic is purely their fault, along with the "culture" they created is staggering.

The anger that rushes through me when someone brings up male loneliness and someone feels the need to comment that its always the mans fault for abusing and disrespecting women, like.... You know you're adding to the problem, right???

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Just got banned from a certain anti-misogyny sub on Reddit, because I called out a trans woman for making a women and girls issue about themselves.

It's sad when something pro-woman is this, really.

[lilyartemisia]

I find them to be one the most elitist, sexist, misogynistic and insufferable groups on the planet. They hate women, but they want their Metal Pixie Nightmare Girl like Angela Gossow and simultaneously mock women for wanting to be like her in some way. Or for women and girls wanting to be involved in the scene and community, regardless if it's as patrons or musicians themselves.

male metalheads need to die. all of them

[lilyartemisia]

They also throw tantrums when you say no. If I have a hundred dollars for every time this happens.

Men are so disrespectful and uncaring for women’s emotions and boundaries it’s insane. But the second they’re the ones feeling violated they will yell their lungs out about their suffering.

[lilyartemisia]

Why do they always look unkempt?

You don't see "fuçk Trans" mugs anywhere.

It's a hate movement against women.

You fuçk off and leave our sex alone. It isn't yours.

#HandsOff

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Superstars. We need more like this.

Eighty male students at Notre Dame University wrote an open letter in the school newspaper asking for a porn filter on the school’s Wi-Fi.  

“This filter would send the unequivocal message that pornography is an affront to human rights and catastrophic to individuals and relationships. We are calling for this action in order to stand up for the dignity of all people, especially women,” the letter read. “The overwhelming majority of contemporary pornography is literally filmed violence against women — violence somehow rendered invisible by the context.”

“Pornography is prostitution through the lens of a camera, but more abusive. It exploits the men and women involved, advances a twisted narrative about human sexuality and harms those who consume it.”

[lilyartemisia]

This is a very detailed take, and I approve

Male and Female Sexualization are NOT Equally Bad

given the new popularity of games and other media such as Love and Deepspace and yaoi and stuff, i see many men going 'SEE! women are just as depraved as men are, now stop complaining about female sexualization in games!'

and oh my god you idiots. lets take some super typical examples from popular media. what differences can we see?

note how much male 'sexualization' (more of a power fantasy on men's part) focuses on musculature, on explicit strength, power, vigor and toughness. they don't even need to be showing any skin. all these are considered sexually attractive by men and women, as a result of our lovely culture. now for female sexualization, its mostly about the showing the (unnatural) curves and arches of their body, being coy and inviting, passive and alluring. women are a spectacle to be acted upon and men are the actors.

look at the filmography, angles and posing for each image, look at how sexy men are shown as relaxed, yet towering and active, and how sexy women are dressed skimpily, are coy and posing unnaturally to invite attention. this is the standard across genres, aimed at both men and women.

imagine if you opened a survival game you were greeted with a man in booty shorts and a ragged crop top, with his back arched, looking longingly at the the player. is it the same as a shirtless man with defined abs and a smoldering look? exactly, it is fucking NOT the same. men would consider it extremely humiliating to be sexualized the way women are sexualized. if its humiliating for a man to do, its humiliating for a woman to do, you're just used to women being humiliated.

take a moment and imagine if sexy women were almost only shown as dominant, active and physically strong, and sexy men as only meek, coy and passive. now imagine if these unnaturally posed meek, coy and passive sexualized male characters were absolutely everywhere, in games, tv shows and movies where it made no sense for them to be there. imagine if they were the only male characters present and you couldn't change their looks. if this held true for at least half of all sexualized characters in media, i would cede my position and admit that male and female sexualization are just as bad as each other. until then, shut the fuck up 😘

[lilyartemisia]

This man is a saint for what he did. The CEO fucked up so many lives. How come I don't hear about that?

[lilyartemisia]

TiMs are insufferable. I noticed another pattern; it's always me, me, me. They always manage to bring the conversation back to themselves.

This man feels “alienated” in his women’s support group, so he wants to force the actual women to restrict all discussion of their “afab body issues” to one day a week.

First they invade, then they demand to be in control. This is narcissism, and it’s gone mad with power.

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This is just all straight males too, by the way. I've seen this shit in real life way too many times to count.

Man proves he is gay and a misogynist.

From Feminists United.

[lilyartemisia]

This. Every autistic or ADHD dude is just... Insufferable. The above is the reason why.

Women with autism: normal human beings, living average lives to the best of their abilities

Men with autism: 90% of becoming a violent criminal, contributes nothing to anyone, cruel to a fault

We need more research into this phenomena, bc why are most autistic men genuinely evil ppl despite any intervention taken but autistic women in the same environment and interventions come out decent ppl?