loveloveplural

[loveloveplural]

here's your daily reminder that no-one is entitled to any information about you, your system, or your system members; nor do you have to use any terms you don't want to no matter how popular they are ^-^

[loveloveplural]

instead of fakeclaiming, ask questions! ask, "why do you think you're endogenic? how do they work? what's your experience like?"

even if you don't believe in them, gaining knowledge on why people think they exist can help expand your own learning!

we should always be asking questions, that’s the mindset of a scientist! never stop asking questions!

[loveloveplural]

sorry it’s been a min, we’ve been too depressed to want to hop on tumblr 🧍

[loveloveplural]

This is an apparently hot take but like… can we stop normalizing the idea that all littles / syskids are genuinely all going to be mentally children or “innocent” and in need of sanitized spaces.

Systems are gonna have littles who are nothing more than kids in headspace, yet act and function like anyone else.

Systems are gonna have littles who are traumatized.

Systems are gonna have littles who are persecutors.

Systems are gonna have littles who are sexual alters.

Systems are gonna have littles who otherwise have no choice in the adult topics they have to live with.

and the list goes on and on like it could in any other case; Whether or not you like it.

It’s up to a system to deem what they want and think is appropriate for THEIR own system, not for someone outside to decide. Just like every other type of alter you can’t just blanket they’re all going to be some sort of way?

(Obviously, littles who ARE basically just normal children that exist, but this post isn’t about that.)

[loveloveplural]

*sigh*… pk;member new

[loveloveplural]

in the park. straight up "hanging out with friends". and by "friends", haha, well. let's justr say. The voices

[loveloveplural]

alter seperation is really confusing with low/no amnesia. i think a lot of people think that they have less seperate parts when theyre just relying on memory to seem similar. for example if i try a drink and dont like it, then someone else switches in and is offered the same drink they may remember my dislike of it and think "oh yeah i dont like that" even if they wouldve. and that can go for foods, opinions, art styles, clothing styles, etc etc.

and im not saying people cant have less seperate parts or anything im just saying this happened to us lol

[loveloveplural]

I think there is this theory among singlets that your life can only be so complex.

So if you are plural AND anything else this post is for you!

Plurals can be disabled

Plurals can have depression, anxiety, OCD, or any other mental illness

Plurals can be bedridden

Plurals can be bad at self care

Plurals can remember and acknowledge their trauma - and be affected by it, amnesia does not erase everything

Plurals can be hypersexual

Plurals can be alter-human (separately from non-human alters)

Plurals can have complex identities

Plurals can be ill

Plurals can have sleep disorders

Plurals can have detailed inner-world structures

Plurals can be any amount of complex. There is no maximum amount of struggle or layers a person can have - and being a system does not rule out being anything else

[loveloveplural]

[ID: "What if you wanted to go to heaven" meme that says: "What if you wanted to come out as plural, but anxiety said 'best I can do is jokes about being 30 birds in a trenchcoat'" /End ID]

[loveloveplural]

*points at you*

Fellow blurian system on the monoconscious spectrum??? Hello!!!

- @the-ribombee-collective

Hiii!!~

[loveloveplural]

wish i could just beam my system's entire lore into someone's head at will so we don't have to explain everything to everyone we care about

[loveloveplural]

I think the reason I tend not to trust endo-neutrals similarly to anti-endos is because out of all the endogenic origins, created systems are likely to be the least supported by them, and especially created systems who identify with tulpamancy.

At least with anti-endos I know what I'm getting. But endo-neutrals are more of an unknown.

[loveloveplural]

by now we all know and support the fact that in-sys relationships are real, but so is in-sys trauma. in-sys arguments can be just as upsetting as irl ones. in-sys breakups. in-sys abuse. in-sys traumatic events of any kind. people affected by them are just as valid as people affected by real-world trauma or exotrauma and i see very few people discussing it.

i see u guys. i love u. be kind to yourselves today <3

[loveloveplural]

crazy to me how a good 50-60% of the posts in the osddid tags are just bitching about endos and aren't even about osddid. remind me again which community is supposedly padding out traumagenic spaces with endogenic related content?

[loveloveplural]

sometimes we think about how we might not be a system. then remember that, even if we aren't, it would be really hard for us to go back to acting like a singlet all the time including alone. which is just a big green reassuring sign of yeah no fucking duh you're a system lmao. it still follows us around a bit from when we were anti-endo and constantly worried about faking it without knowing.

[loveloveplural]

Do you have a list of things you’d want to get into if you suddenly decided to be a completely different person or are you a singlet

[loveloveplural]

Hey folks we’re getting real tired of people tag-invading, especially from pro-endos.

We are completely pro-endo and don’t like seeing anti-endo content, but it’s getting very difficult when so many pro-endo posts are now being tagged with anti-endo tags (including very aggressive anti-endo tags) just to boost reach. We have most of those tags blocked, so it’s often very hard to tell if the post were clicking on is a pro-endo using those tags for reach, or if we’re about to read something incredibly sysmed.

Tag invading makes blocking tags useless, and you’re potentially sabotaging your own post by turning away people who don’t want to risk clicking on a post that may cause distress. There’s no point in trying to educate anti endos through tag invasion because why would anyone listen to someone who actively pushes boundaries?

Please stop, we want to support other systems but it’s getting incredibly annoying to see tags like plural filled with anti-endo tags, especially when almost all of them are actually pro-endo. /not mad /serious

- Parker + Redfang