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So our AC kicked the bucket and it’s supposed to remain in the 80s-90s (in an area of the country where the average summer temp is high 60s). I really don’t have the money to replace it but we need something; we have two chronically ill humans, plus three cats and two guinea pigs to keep alive until the heat breaks.

I can do icons, drop me a message, or if you’d just like to chip in a few dollars, you can send it to my Ko-Fi. Every little bit really helps.

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Ike (Ranger) from Path of Radiance

18 icons. 100x100. Transparent Bases (Free to Edit). Part 5 of 5 Made using sprites that were in the Fire Emblem Planet portrait gallery (Gallery is no longer viewable). If you wish to animate these, I suggest ezgif.com.

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what they don't tell you about making friends is you gotta be a lil annoying. you gotta push past the fear of "what if they don't want to talk to me" and simply ask someone how their day is going, send a meme. you cannot connect to people if you're both just awkwardly waiting for the other to start.

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if you want to think and engage with things in a politically beneficial way then there is really just no way around the task of unpacking "common sense" and all other unrecognized frameworks in which you've previously based your morals and politics. the next time you find yourself basing an argument or preconception in "well, i mean, it's just not right/it's just common sense/this is just how things work" your job is to rapid onset develop a four year old alter who cannot stop asking you "why"

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i think what's the most wild about the tumblr ToS change isn't that they specifically named and banned feederism / """encouraged overeating""" but more that they put it specifically under encouraging eating disorders rather than, like, sexual content. like. it's a fetish. it's a sex thing. but they purposefully put it in the same section as like, diagnosable life threatening disorders like anorexia.

obviously what matters is that they basically just put "being positive about fat people" as against ToS so now annoying concern trolling proana types can just mass report anything fatlib related that they don't like. and putting it in the eating disorder category is wayyy easier to use that way, because you can literally just make the argument that any fat liberation adjacent argument is "encouraging fatness" or whatever the fuck

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Please don't forget this new view previous reblog button! Very useful for reblogging memes from sources! Don't forget to send out stuff sometimes, too!

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Kinky or unconventional sexual situations meme (consent is implied, but so is the element of surprise, or a lack of a prestablished relationship. as always feel free to specify details.)

💢 Muses are having a fight or one is being disciplined, and everyone involved decides to handle it sexually instead

💓 The muses have volunteered or been hired to test a new aphrodisiac

✨ One muse has been signed up(volunteers) as a 'prize' for completing a task or duty

👅 The muse wants to know what cum tastes like

💨 Muse has been so stressed at work/life that another decides to 'calm them down' sexually

🎂 Muse doesn't have a present or plan for a birthday or holiday, so decides to offer sex instead

💕 The muses catch themselves in a voyeuristic situation, such as stumbling upon porn, overhearing the neighbors, an orgy, or otherwise are observing others having sex, and it makes them horny

🏳️‍🌈 One or both muses are unsure of their orientation and decide to 'experiment', or are otherwise having sex outside of their 'usual' orientation or lean for some reason. (libido, a favor, boredom, etc.)

🏳️‍⚧️ One muse is trans and either are seeking a sexual encounter or are otherwise curious (asking sexual or transition questions, never been with a cis/trans person/after starting their transition, etc.)

🍗 The muses have what they think will be a 'normal' dinner together, but end up having sex

🔋One muse decides to check on the other who has been MIA, and it turns out that they are simply masturbating excessively

🍷 One muse refuses to get intoxicated around the other due to the libido that it causes, before the other assures them that it is okay (they really want to see or give them freedom to be intoxicated, and make arrangements or agree to help handle it.)

💦 One muse is desperately or animalistically horny and asks or begs for help with it

👑 One muse wants to try a new dynamic, role, or position and asks the other to try it with them. (i.e., they've never topped or power-bottomed before, have a roleplay scene, etc.)

📞 The muses are hanging out as friends, and one of them wants to try sex. (with someone they aren't 'dating', secret crush, etc.)

🔍 One person wants to watch the other have sex or masturbate, without touching or being involved

💍 A couple wants to get a third involved, whether as a threesome, mismatched libidos, special occasion or wish fulfillment, poly, etc.)

🩶 A person not 'interested' in sex or a relationship still wants to try so anyways, perhaps out of curiosity, social obligation or 'proving' that it's not for them, or simply to make the other muse more comfortable

💵 One muse is hiring the other for sex, whether for pleasure or as a partnership/ live in roommate/spouse situation.

🔥 One muse just feels like dominating the other, whether in general or because they are so shy, etc.

🧪 The muses have sex for science, observation, repopulation, etc.

💬 One muse has trouble expressing themselves to the other otherwise, so decide to do so sexually (romantic, thankful, frustration, etc.)

⭐️ One muse is starstruck or impressed by the other, which translates into something sexual (fan, mentor, training partner, etc.)

👚 One muse gets sexual as 'part of the job' or otherwise on the clock

🕯 The muses are trapped by a storm or otherwise must stay put at home, and end up having sex while killing time

🌸 It is the in world 'breeding season' for one or both muses

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Transgender RP prompts Meme feel free to cross out unwanted prompts, feel free to reblog if you or your muse are cis so long as you’re respectful!

🤍 What ‘makes’ your muse trans (or cis?) What’s important to know about their gender?

🎈 How does your muse relate to gender dynamics in their world? Is it different from IRL?

🧶 What would be a problematic trope or assumption based on your muse’s gender?

🎀 What gendered terms are okay with them? What aren’t, and Why? Are there other reasons besides their actual gender?

🎨 Would anything change much if your muse were another gender? Upbringing? Attitude?

❌ What topics are off limits? Unimportant? 

💚 Physical details of your muse? Transition status? How do they feel about their body and the gendered notions about of it?

💜 How does their orientation play into dynamics with their gender?

🌈 Does your muse fit into a stereotype? Is there a reason why?

🍋 How would your muse react to or think about adversity to trans people?

🔞 NSFW details about your muse? How do they feel and interact with the oversexualization or invasive approach trans people get?

🧡 Compare and Contrast with the gender or gender expression of another muse, whether a friend or another muse of yours.

💖 How is dating as their gender? In General? Do they have any preferences there?

🍔 How is their health since transition? Do they eat a certain way, does society affect it?

🍷 How open or out are they about their gender? topics regarding gender? Are they hiding anything in particular when it comes to strangers?

🧃 How is their family? Relationship dynamics about gender?

💋 Anything only a ship partner would know? What about their gender is less apparent, platonically speaking?

❔ Anything your muse doesn’t know about gender? Undecided? Info you need to know before going forward?

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multimuse specific ‘why aren’t we interacting yet’ symbol meme — feel free to elaborate when you send one!

💐: Request permission to write up a random starter for you, right now? 🌼: I actually have a plot in mind but I’ve been too shy to bring it up 🌹: I have a muse I think would fit a wishlist post of yours but I don’t know if you want that one 🌱: I love your writing but I want to just silently follow you for a bit longer to get a better hang of your muses 🍂: I don’t know any of your muses so I’m waiting until I can get to know them on my own 🍃: I don’t know any of your current muses but you were hinting about adding someone I do know 🍁: The muse I’m curious about doesn’t have information up yet 🎋: I don’t know which one of my muses you’re interested in 🌴: I like one or more of your muses but I can’t come up with a muse I could play 🌵: The muse I want to play with is one of your low activity/on request muses and I don’t know if you’re open for new things 🍀: I honestly haven’t even thought about interacting yet, I just followed to adore your writing

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Factoïd

Send 🎲 for a random fact about my muse.

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Me really really wishing to make a transmasc themed rp meme, but you see there should be a similar transfemme one as well

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Something that I think needs a little bit of addressing in the RPC;

Please don't be afraid to be wrong! Give grace to mistakes, not just to yourself but others. and I'm not actually talking about drama and moral quandries; that's a separate conversation about conflict resolution, but the little things.

Bug your friend or partner about about that headcanon you have, ask about that ship, make that little assumption; just be willing to roll with it when you are incorrect. As well, when someone is wrong about your muse, please don't let it kill your drive! "No, but" is a very good way to approach this kind of thing, and gives a perfect excuse and opportunity to explain things! Try not to get too frustrated about canon-thumping, or even headcanon thumping.

That said, you do need to try to be satisfied with the new answer, but I feel there's a lot of pause when things mismatch! It's okay! The point is not always being right, but a good listener! So long as you are not forcing a certain perspective, you can work with things. Don't let the possibility of a mistake to mean negative social points- just be sure not to be pushy and inflexible, and you'll be alright!

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we got social creachures in the rpc

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I am asking this very nicely; Please don't engage further with people you have blocked! Or otherwise prompted with a challenge like a callout, etc. We always ask this kind of person we dislike to disengage, and sometimes they don't, but never the other way around, leave them alone! You're already trying to get yourself, or other people to do that, so please follow through!

Care about your readers; it's vagueblogging, and can hurt their drive to write! If you've already addressed the situation, there's no need to double down if the point's been made; you cannot force someone to make a decision through fighting and guilting them. It also does distract from writing, which would achieve the desired effect of ignoring said person. Also, making fun of them for anything that isn't bad behaviour or a serious problem, like a physical trait, can alienate any readers who happen to have that in common.

Care about yourself; even if the person is still doing wrong or being uncivil, re-exposure before you've healed or reached a satisfying conclusion, the stress will snowball and affect you. You're more likely to say something immature yourself, say something redundant in the general scheme of things, or overall make the situation worse- if you feel like you must engage, at least do so calmly and in a headspace that's more prepared.

Don't fuel the fire, please. I know that 'care about the abuser' or other person sounds soft and enabling, or may be hard when you're hurting, so I won't exactly say that. But, giving them undue attention when you're being negative reinforces that they'll get attention, and could encourage more of their bad behaviour. Also, the point that I said about caring about yourself and how it'll upset you applies to them, too: Yes, people will get mad or sad about being blocked, spoken about, or disciplined, and will say immature things in the aftermath. It is natural to want to defend yourself, express yourself, etc. But, you want this person to either leave you or a certain group alone, and in the best case scenario, grow. People rarely change their mind in front of you without apology, and they certainly won't in the immediate heat of the 'threat'- give them and yourself time to cool off, whether you're still speaking or not. As a general reminder, try to address problems as calmly as you can, and organized if possible; it it matters, slow and steady will win the race of treating the situation with grace. Also, vagueblogging like mentioned above is just more harassment, even if you think it's for a good cause. If the person has any friends as well, them or a gentle talking to will often do more good than the actual confrontation- just recognize when it isn't your turn to do it. Ignoring them will do more than heated words will, unless they actively want to change and discuss things; if it can't be discussed, you shouldn't. Ice them out if that's what works for you.

At the end of the day, anything done online or via text can be completely disconnected from; I'm not saying don't protect yourself, and warn others if you like, but think about how you're doing it; try not to cause collateral damage trying to force others to engage. Information is better than inflammatory remarks, and try not to guilt-trip your own followers into a bigger mess, divorced from the point.

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Send "chrysalid" for your muse to find my muse infected with Resident Evil's C-Virus