moderndaymaenad

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When our proposed collective agreement ratification stipulates that we wait TWO YEARS to ask for a raise when we almost all DIED to deliver service to our clients #nothanks #tiktok #itwonteverhappen #timetostrike because fvk capitalism 🙌🏼 https://www.instagram.com/p/CO_Sut1HYsH/?igshid=1i4jcbl79gjis

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Getting ready for work when you’re emo as shit and being forced to return to the place of your trauma. 🎵🎵 you tore me doooOowWwwNnnn 🎵 #knucklepuck https://www.instagram.com/p/CO-Tk70nj2m/?igshid=1bjhvpmhl7t8u

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@crocs are officially queer culture #bye #crocs #isaidwhatisaid https://www.instagram.com/p/COxbF3kn8CN/?igshid=13yyhh0qvhrp4

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Finding pure joy. Crippin in the streets. If you don’t wear a spice girls shirt, paint splatter makeup and space buns to work after a baby boomer tries to justify institutional saneism as a means to keep women unhoused, then you’re not living your best life 🤪😎🤪😎😛😛😛 #spiceupyourlife #criptheory https://www.instagram.com/p/COkggdvHwq2/?igshid=1qhnnaczeeq88

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I'm off of my rope here I'm off on my own here I find my hope here I find my own here I'm off of my rope here Where the fence is low Oh, where the fence is low Where the fence is low #lights ⚡️#hope ⚡️ #lookingforawaythrough ⚡️ #housingisahumanright https://www.instagram.com/p/COiJdHrnQVC/?igshid=e932iw55sz36

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Just felt like a no make up moment. I’m turning 34 tomorrow and I’m feelin myself. I survived numerous hate crimes this year, a global pandemic, and a concussion. Not only that but I’ve finally learned to welcome and embrace all of the good things that the universe has for me, to be generous with myself, and to show up for myself. #birthdayvibes #begentlewithyourself #nomakeup 🎉🎂🥳🎊#thankful https://www.instagram.com/p/COGiOipHweH/?igshid=2sq1ykijarv4

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I know a perfect angel that is exhausted from getting her shots 😴😴😴💤💤💤... #littlepopo #posey #chihuahuasofinstagram #dogmomlife 🐶🐶🐶🐾 https://www.instagram.com/p/CNNn2pJn-o1/?igshid=nzqkat23ef5z

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New hair, new glasses. #selfie #gpoy #hamont 🔥🔥🔥😎 https://www.instagram.com/p/CNK_XzCnKJi/?igshid=1od0mvzstchbd

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👀👀👀 Let’s get after that NEWNEW in 2021 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 an early birthday gift to myself after surviving a global pandemic, several targeted hate crimes, and sooooo much institutional misogyny! I’ve decided to name her Ginger Spice 😎🌶🌶🌶 ps there’s no filter on her. My baby is flawless and doesn’t need one 💋😘#newcar #springvibes #goodvibes #positivity #nofilter https://www.instagram.com/p/CMXSlpKl3wg/?igshid=12jr1f5qe6o8p

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Self care is everything. I feel more like myself in this moment than I have in months. I’m looking forward to the week, the summer, community building, puppy walks, friend hangs. I hope everyone has a good afternoon and takes a moment to enjoy the sunshine ☀️💖☀️ #selfcare #mentalhealthmatters https://www.instagram.com/p/CMIhTSDF58S/?igshid=1bj0cwhkkzsua

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Bikini? Check. ✅Daisy dukes? Check. ✅Covid vaccine? Check. ✅ LETS GET AFTER THIS HOT QUEER SUMMER!! 🔥🔥🔥#queerandvaccinated #sunshinetherapy #letsdothis #selfie #curvyandqueer https://www.instagram.com/p/CMIdZ4pFuFo/?igshid=utxha7x6k4y

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This resonated with me so hard. When you are 100% committed to your communities, to your clients, to the work you are doing, anxiety can be so present. And it’s okay! Because it can be a symptom of caring. 💖💖💖 thank you so much to @thebirdspapaya for reminding me of this🙌🏼 https://www.instagram.com/p/CL2k5eVFwLe/?igshid=tr4yqcl4nqzi

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Today I got really angry with myself for not foreseeing problems beyond my control before they happened. I beat myself up. I felt like a bad dog mom. I felt co dependant. I felt like I was failing at life. And then I decided to take a breath and do some shadow work. I decided to remind myself that I have been under immense pressure this past year. I decided to validate that I was problem solving as best I could in the moment. I decided that instead of judging myself, I needed to step back and realize that I was expected to singularly problem solve in this way from a very early age and have rarely received emotional support during such times. I decided that constantly feeling like I have to “fix everything before it happens” is a toxic survival strategy embedded in me as a child when I was often expected to self parent. I processed. I was gentle with myself. I realized that I am enough for me and I am trying my best. I’m posting this for everyone who developed a sense of harsh self criticism or perfectionism as a survival strategy. I see you. You’re enough even when you’re not perfect. You deserve the grace and kindness you so easily give to others. ♥️ #shadowwork #reallife https://www.instagram.com/p/CLzvBjmFVPe/?igshid=h7mgafgfnbm2

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From my deathbed I commissioned a portrait of my dogs.. it felt necessary. #dogmom #piper #posey https://www.instagram.com/p/CLmVkBhFisY/?igshid=14n0ahu16g6or

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Posey nap vibes 💖 #chihuahuasofinstagram #thebaby #dogmom #theloveofmylife 🐶 https://www.instagram.com/p/CLmTKHRlKlu/?igshid=15zgtzi02fa4s

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Getting ready to go work 6 consecutive days... but at least I feel cute 🔪♥️😘 #gpoy #hamont #socialworkerproblems #selfie #kweenofthecouchselfie https://www.instagram.com/p/CLAPXJSlbmS/?igshid=12gejqasvue29

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Her favorite way to sit and watch her brother is to rest her chest on my head and drape her legs around my face. It’s stadium seating, chihuahua style 😎🐶 #chihuahuasofinstagram #dogmomlife #myheart https://www.instagram.com/p/CKScXnClYL5/?igshid=1hkh9ec2r4yz9