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Things they don’t tell you about top surgery
- Talk to the surgeon about the size you want your new areolas/nipples (don’t be afraid to ask)
- Numbness. No one talks about this for guys who are about to have surgery. You’re going to be numb all in your chest area, especially where the incisions were. They cut nerves as they pass along your chest, and it can take up to a year to regenerate those nerves. Still, feels super foreign for the first two weeks
- Make your bed into a pillow chair, body pillow, two on each side, and two for your head.
- Sleep alone. I tried to sleep with my girlfriend and it was miserable. You really do need the entire bed for yourself
- Go on Groupon, & get yourself a 10 foot lightning cable iPhone charger, BEST THING EVER, can reach from wherever you are
- Don’t take a week off from work, take two. You will regret the one week, and love the extra time
- When they say “don’t move too much, even after the first week”. LISTEN. I moved way too much and got so sore super quickly.
- Drink lots of water & eat if your taking the pain medication, otherwise your stomach feels super funky.
- Get stool softeners, & don’t be afraid to take those babies. Don’t wait a week to poop. you’ll surely regret it.
- The drains are scary & they may hurt while draining or rewrapping your dressings, but once they come out, the second they do, its no more pain, its crazy.
i hope this helps someone, because i wish i knew all of this when i was having mine a month ago. Looking back its like everyone forgets all the real negatives, its a great experience, & i healed very well & quick compared to most, but the first few days are crazy. They hurt, suck but it gets better.
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IF YOU ARE UNMARRIED, DON’T HAVE KIDS, AND HATE YOUR PARENTS PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HAVE A FUCKING WILL
this has been a public service announcement from your friendly neighborhood probate lawyer
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Hey it’s ace week and you’re local ace has something to say! I’ve been out as ace for 3 years now and it’s still a big part of my identity that I’m proud of so here’s a lil something for those who need it!
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reblogging this for clarification, i am NOT using the real people as pronouns !! they are based off of their ROLEPLAY CHARACTERS, and NOT the content creators
-- Achilles
Dream SMP / MCYT themed neopronouns !
pig/step mello/hi
blitz/blitzes l'man/l'manburgs prime/primes log/logs pog/pogs chirp/chirps gapple/gapples honk/honks bur/burs quack/quacks ram/rams innit/innits soot/soots friend/friends saline/salines tri/tridents cross/bow blade/blades vroop/vroops [enderman noise] hy/hypix/hypixelself tub/bo
– Achilles
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DM me for access to a server for transfems!
Rules:

It's called Tulip Transfems! I really need new transfem friends so I decided to make a server for it <3
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“why bother writing bisexual characters if they just end up in a m/f relationship”
my dude
my guy
my pal
stop talking forever
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I know a lot of lesbians that used to identify as bi who worried that coming out as a lesbian would contribute to invalidating bisexuality in some way, by making it seem like a “stepping stone” to coming out as gay. I’ve also known bi women who identified as lesbians and changed their labels later, and worried that they were contributing to some kind of idea about how men can ~turn lesbians. I just wanted to say that it’s no individual lesbian or bi women’s responsibility to fix straight people’s perception of us. Like, it’s not your duty to serve as a political symbol! It’s your duty to find happiness even if that means changing ur label at some points.
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Historical Trans Men
1. Dr. James Barry, 1789-1865, military surgeon

2. "One-Eyed" Charley Parkhurst, 1812-1879, stagecoach driver

3. Ralph Kerwineo, 1876-1932, clerk

4. Harry Allen, 1882-1922, vagrant and criminal

5. Amelio Robles Ávila, 1889-1984, military commander during the Mexican Revolution

6. Victor Barker, 1895-1960, restaurant proprietor

7. Zdeněk Koubek, 1913-1986, track athlete

8. Billy Tipton, 1914-1989, jazz musician

9. Willmer "Little Ax" M. Broadnax, 1916-1992, jazz musician

10. Jim McHarris, 1924-?, auto mechanic

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[Image: A pastel rainbow color block with repeating white text that reads “aces and aros belong in pride”]
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can you please give more juice on vroop/vroops???? like how they can be used to refer to someone????
yeah !! heres a couple sentance examples for the pronoun set vroo/vroop/vroops/vroopself:
"vroop is my friend, i met vroo at a party, vroop was talking about vroopself and vroops hobbies"
"vroo's really cool, vroops favourite food is pizza, and i really appreciate vroo as a friend"
i hope that helps !! - mod achilles
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@mogai-cringe GRRR BARK BARK BARK !!! GRRR !!!! GRRR !!!! BARK BARK BARK BARK WOOF WOOF GRRR BARK BARK !!!!
Dream SMP / MCYT themed neopronouns !
pig/step mello/hi
blitz/blitzes l'man/l'manburgs prime/primes log/logs pog/pogs chirp/chirps gapple/gapples honk/honks bur/burs quack/quacks ram/rams innit/innits soot/soots friend/friends saline/salines tri/tridents cross/bow blade/blades vroop/vroops [enderman noise] hy/hypix/hypixelself tub/bo
– Achilles
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A word of advice to trans women
Go to your nearest target. Buy a two pack of pushup bras (24$ for 2), and target’s bra inserts (12$). Then go to your nearest Walmart and buy the Vasserette Control Shapewear Panties (2.50 each), they do wonders for helping your tuck. There you go! You just saved yourself a lot of money, you can afford to buy enough to wear every day, and best of all you look fabulous. -@twidx
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Dream SMP / MCYT themed neopronouns !
pig/step mello/hi
blitz/blitzes l'man/l'manburgs prime/primes log/logs pog/pogs chirp/chirps gapple/gapples honk/honks bur/burs quack/quacks ram/rams innit/innits soot/soots friend/friends saline/salines tri/tridents cross/bow blade/blades vroop/vroops [enderman noise] hy/hypix/hypixelself tub/bo
-- Achilles
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to all of you with complex identities, with labels that may not make sense to many others, to those that are maybe even confused about what their own gender and/or orientation even is exactly- i see you and i love you for being you. i hope you have or can find labels and spaces that make you comfortable and happy, people that support you and dont judge or hate your weird relationship with gender and orientations. i hope you all have a wonderful day, week, month, year, and rest of your life ♡
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@ the people who think all nbs are teenagers
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genderverre! (or verregender)
when you don’t feel a true attachment to your gender; when you feel like your gender isn’t truly there.
a gender as if you’re looking at it through a window. it feels cloudy or distant and while you might be certain that it’s your gender, you don’t feel fully connected to it.
from the french word verre, meaning glass.
under the cut: specific genderverre flags! (femverre, neuverre/nbverre, xenoverre, mascverre)
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