morganzephyr
morganzephyr
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morganzephyr · 10 minutes ago
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In a piece for The New Inquiry from back in 2017, George Dust states that when queer people complain about there being a top shortage, what they really mean is “nobody is fucking me the way I want, and I have no agency in that.” Alongside co-authors Billy-Ray Belcourt and Kay Gabriel, Dust suggests that many queer people align themselves with a passive or “bottom” position because they believe that role will absolve them of the guilt of really wanting things. They present themselves as what they believe to be the sexual party with zero power; the receiver, the accepter of action rather than its cause.
This position is drawn in contrast to the bottom-identified person’s idea of a top: the one who approaches, the person with hungers and desires, the person who decides which sexual activities will happen and how intense they will get. The top, from this perspective, is the stronger, more capable, more dangerous person. They’re the only one who can ever be guilty of intruding or harming somebody else. This power is scary, but it’s also compelling.
Dust calls this fantastical version of a top a “brute” — and they are the most cartoonish stereotype of what it means in society to be a man. Because it’s a cartoonish stereotype, no human actually lives up to it — and we’d probably revile a person even if they could.
Though queer people know we are harmed by the gender binary and heteronormativity and all the social scripts those things force upon us, its biases are still embossed on our brains. Without meaning to, we reproduce tired gender stereotypes in our relationships. And so we see expressing a sexual want as masculine, and being masculine as being more capable of violence and coercive control, and thus bad. We see failing to communicate one’s desires openly as desirably feminine, as well as a sign of blamelessness and purity — because on some level we still feel it is wrong to have desires.
But this entire worldview is a complete lie. Desire is not evil. Expressing attraction is not a violation. Failing to express oneself can be just as dangerous as not listening to someone else’s limits. Women can be abusive. Bottoms can sexually assault. No matter our gender, presentation, or sexual role, we are each capable of harm. And the only way to make a safe, mutually pleasurable sexual encounter happen is by going after it, actively, and communicating from a position of inner strength.
So how do you do that, if society’s been telling you all your life that you’re meant to date by acting like a deer passively snapping twigs in the woods, waiting for some hunter to hear you, and pursue you? (That really is dating advice that Evangelical Christian counselors give to women, if you can believe it).
By not fixating so much on what you’re doing or not doing to draw other people toward you, and instead thinking in terms of what you want and what you observe beyond yourself.
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morganzephyr · 12 minutes ago
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Breakup sex with my vampire girlfriend call that the last nail in the coffin
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morganzephyr · 12 minutes ago
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New Secret Knots comic: "Cryptid".
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morganzephyr · 15 minutes ago
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Oh no, you got isekaied into the last media you read/watch. You are now a background character dead center in the plot. Are you surviving.
Yes
No
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morganzephyr · 17 minutes ago
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morganzephyr · 5 hours ago
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art by carlos latuff (@LatuffCartoons on twitter). below is the madleen's current location (screenshot from their TRACKER): they are expected to reach gaza soon. please SHARE, join the telegram channel, follow the boat's movements
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morganzephyr · 8 hours ago
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I think venus flytraps should be intelligent and ambulatory. I think they should get into the cupboards. I think they should purr when you pet them.
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morganzephyr · 8 hours ago
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Friendships as a teenager: we used to talk 5 hours every night now it’s down to 3… are we still friends 🤔? I wonder if they don’t like me anymore
Friendships as an adult: omg I’ve finally cleared up 20 minutes of my schedule to talk to my friend I haven’t spoken to in 4 months #bffs #we will find eachother in every life
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morganzephyr · 8 hours ago
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morganzephyr · 8 hours ago
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en haut, sous le ciel bleu // high above, under the blue sky
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morganzephyr · 11 hours ago
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What the flock?! such smart names!
Science should let more cartoonists name things. That how we got the thagomizer and the Rube Goldberg machines. Anyways! SHERLOCK CROWMES!!!!!
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morganzephyr · 11 hours ago
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morganzephyr · 11 hours ago
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I could never join Congress bc I don't want a white lady showing my dick and balls to the whole audience
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morganzephyr · 11 hours ago
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reblog game put in the tags how you found prev
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morganzephyr · 11 hours ago
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me: “hey can you pretend this banana I found outside is a gun?” Gus: “it is a gun” me: “shit you’re a good actor”
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morganzephyr · 12 hours ago
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I present: the High Geologist, based off this post
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morganzephyr · 12 hours ago
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