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This blog is a-spec positive, I don’t make the rules.

“We chose the term “asexual” to describe ourselves because both “celibate” and “anti-sexual” have connotations we wished to avoid: the first implies that one has sacrificed sexuality for some higher good, the second that sexuality is degrading or somehow inherently bad. “Asexual”, as we use it, does not mean “without sex” but “relating sexually to no one”. This does not, of course, exclude masturbation but implies that if one has sexual feelings they do not require another person for their expression. Asexuality is, simply, self-contained sexuality.”

— The Asexual Manifesto, Lisa Orlando and Barbara Getz, 1972

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I wish I knew how to help, you mean the world to me

May 2020 Illustrations ヽ(• ‿ •)ノ

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This is why I often label myself queer. My gender is always constant but I can’t for the life of me label my sexuality. I just go with the flow

Story of my life people. You know what’s real ? The struggle.

Happy Pride Month ♥

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Just want to let you all know that even though times are hectic right now, you’re still valid. My heart goes out to anyone struggling right now with having to spend more time with abusive people in your homes. Stay strong, this will pass, you’re valid, spectacular, and amazing regardless of what the bullies in your life may say.

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Clothes shouldn’t have a gender socially attached to them, if you’re non-binary and lean towards androgyny; any piece of clothing can be gender less if you want it to be, I know I do.

Reasons I like clothes that have nothing to do with gender

I like dresses because it's a single piece of clothing and I'm done. It can flit and spin and twirl and feels nice on my legs. It allows different sections of skin to get sun.

I love high top sneakers because of how it changes my stride. I heel strike and feel authoritative. I cam ground easily and dance smoothly.

I love button downs cuz they look nerdy and neat.

I like cargo pants because they feel impenetrable. I won't get nicked my stray weed wacker string. I won't get ticks as easily. I can get em dirty and not care. I feel powerful.

I love bralettes because they're a great way to add a pop of color or contrast to a fit. They're comfy and can wear them dawn to dusk without skin irritation.

I love binders because they feel like an empowering hug. My lats, delts and traps are more pronounced and make me feel like I'm still a boxer. A lot of blood sweat and tears (and hatred/dysphoria) went into building them up, and it's nice to let em shine.

I like boxers because they allow my clothes to move and irritate my skin less.

I love leggings cuz of the tactile feel along my entire legs is deeply soothing...like a leg hug. They make me feel aware of how long and strong my legs are. In leggings, I feel nimble and flexible.

I love tanks/wife beaters because they help me feel connected to my childhood, going to school in the cut. Paired with some baggy jeans, I can honor the miscreant teen I once was. I feel like I can get into a fight and win, or change oil in under 10 minutes (yeah I've timed it, so what).

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I’m transneutral, I know it’s not really used all too often but I never really aligned with the whole transfemme or transmasc side of things. Non-binary has always been my identity however if anyone really wanted to they could apply agender, and other neutral or void genders to me. Personally I only call myself non-binary though. It’s okay to not align yourself with transmasc or transfemme, I really hope transneutral becomes more popularized in the trans community in the future.

Transneutral

There’s not much to say about this one that isn’t included in the comic. So I’ll just repeat that I’m transneutral and I love being transneutral and I’m glad to have the word transneutral. Finding it put an end to the uncertainty I felt with how I related to transmasculine people in some ways but didn’t in other ways. The reason I usually prefer to dress masc isn’t really to look more masculine but to look less feminine. It’s to counteract the appearance of my face and body and create balance in the Force. I feel like if I’d been assigned male at birth I’d be trying to use femininity for the same overall neutral result.

Also I like all the transneutral flag designs, but the yellow one is my favourite, which is why I chose yellow as the main colour for this comic. (Probably just biased though, since yellow is my favourite colour in general).

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Rae (they/them)

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Proud Avery here, this is a good list

Neutral Names

Ainsley  Alex Alexis  Arden Ari Ariel  Arlo Armani Arwen Arwyn  Ash Ashton Aston Aubrey Austin  Avery

Bailey  Basil Blake  Blue Briar Bronte  Brook Brooke Brooklyn 

Caden  Cadence  Caelan Casey  Cash Cassidy Chandler  Channing Charley Charlie Christmas  Claude Courtney 

Dakota  Danni Danny  Dara Darby Darcy Demi  Demy Des Dorian Drew  

Echo  Eden Elliott

Finn  Finnley  Fionn

Gale  Garnet  Gemini Georgie 

Harley  Harlow Harper  Hayden Hollis Hunter

Izzy

Jade  Jamie Jay  Jayden Jackie  Jean Jewel Jesse  Joaquin Jody Joey  Johnnie Jordan Jordy  Jude Jules Justice 

 

KC  Kai Kaia  Kalani Karma  Kadence Kayden Kendall  Kieran Kiernan Kit Knox Kobe  Kristen 

Lake  Lane Lani  Lark Lauren  Lauren Laurie Layton  Lori Lorie Lavern Lee  Leighton Leilani Lennon  Lennox Leslie Lex Lindsay London  Loren Lou

Mac  Mack Mackenzie  Mak Manny Max Mckinley  Mel Memphis Meredith Merle Micah  Michi Mick Mickey Moe

Nanook  Naomi Nick  Nicky Nico Niko

Oakley  Ocean Odell  Olive Ollie 

Palmer  Paris Parker  Pat Paulie Phoenix Pippin  Presley Prudence 

Quinn  

 

Rain  Rainy Raleigh  Ramsey Raven Reagan Red  Reese Reggie Remi Remy Ren  Ridley Riley Rio Ripley River  Robin Rory Rowan  

Sage  Sal Salem  Sam Sammy Sandy  Sasha Sawyer Sean  Sequoia Shane Shannon  Shay Shayne Shelby Shelley Shelly  Shiloh Silver Sinclair Siri Sky Skylar Sloan  Sol Sonny Spencer Sora Stevie Stormy Sunny Sydney 

Tate  Taylor  Teagan Teddie  Teddy Terry Theo  Tierney Tiger Tobi  Toby Toni Tony Tory Tracy  Tristan Tyler

Val  Valentin  Valentine Valery Vivian

Whitney  Winnie Wolf  Wren  

Yale  Yoshi Yuki  Yuri 

Zenon 

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Cryptid enby vibes <3

I am not a man.

I am not a woman.

I am not who I was in my past lives.

These memories do not define me.

I am the sound of shoes walking through a puddle on concrete.

I am the shine of stars in the sky at 3am.

I am the shadows lurking in the ocean deep, waiting to be unleashed.

I am the crisp red leaf falling from the tree and landing in your hair.

I am the looming feeling over your shoulder, the figure in the corners of your eyes.

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I felt like this was very important content to reblog

Everything becomes a cat！

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Trans people don’t owe you masculinity or femininity.

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My squish sent this picrew to me and I think it’s adorable. I love the pixelated look. Also Enbies who have long hair are valid as, excuse my language, heck.

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It’s me!

I'm not a male.

I'm not a female.

I'm a forest dweller!

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one of my best friend’s response to my dysphoria last week

♡ instagram / commission info

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Fellow trans friends:

A lot of us are surely having a really hard time right now amongst all this chaos.

I'm so so sorry if you're having a hard time getting ahold of your testosterone/estrogen right now, your surgery has been postponed, or you're trapped with family who does not accept you... We're going to get through this.

I know it's hard, but you are valid and you deserve love and respect no matter what is happening.

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;)

Thanks for the submission @andshewasallyellow and sorry it took me so long!

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:)

You make me smile every time we talk online :)