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Bold Jumping Spider (Phiddipus audax)

Observed by creepycrittersftw, CC BY-NC

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you belong here. you belong in the plural community. i promise.

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sending love to other plurals with lots of members, with very big systems. very big systems. big enough that your headcount all too often gets relegated to a "+" instead of a range, that polls about types of headmates someone might have always underestimate just how many, who constantly get told "wow, that must be chaotic, lol"--even by other plural folks who get told the same by singlets, without having ever given information about your system or how you work beyond your headcount. or "wow, we could never handle that many headmates!" or "that must be so overwhelming, huh?" or "bet you can't ever get anything done haha".

you are wonderful. no matter what your goals are (downsizing to a smaller number, staying the same, or gaining more headmates), you deserve support and understanding. no matter your origins, no matter the reason for your size, you still deserve support and understanding. you're not lying or exaggerating. you're good as you are, and you will be good no matter how you will be in the future.

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in our mind willomancy and tulpamancy were always similar (if not identical) things to us, with the main difference being in what communities the labels are associated with (willomancy being connected to the plural community as a whole, and tulpamancy having its own community that is separate from plurality)

just now i saw a post saying that willomancy and tulpamancy are different processes, but it didn't give too much of an explanation. now i'm kinda confused and extremely curious so !!! we're pretty familiar with tulpamancy, but what exactly is willomancy??? we've seen the basic definition of it (willing headmates into existence, with no connection to tulpamancy) on things like pluralpedia n stuff, but nothing actually explains what the process is like !!! and i wanna learn !!!! what exactly does willing a headmate into existence entail, and what makes it differ from tulpamancy ??

if anyone can give me a detailed explanation or send me any links containing info on willomancy i would really really appreciate it !!

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"we are all human" should i tell them.

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SHOUT OUT TO SYSTEMS WHO CANT OR DONT WANNA MASK!!!

shout out to systems whose alters are too distinct that they are very "obvious" as a system to outsiders

shout out to systems who dont want a singlet sona and want to change their identity with each switch

shout out to alters who want to be their own people and distinct from the "singlet persona" and end up making an entirely new online identity not linked to the host/main account

shout out to alters who are so clearly different and themselves compared to their headmates that to feel alive and real they have to introduce themselves as a system to explain their intense switches!!

this is about us btw dhdjdj <3

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SHOUT OUT TO SYSTEMS WHO CANT OR DONT WANNA MASK!!!

shout out to systems whose alters are too distinct that they are very "obvious" as a system to outsiders

shout out to systems who dont want a singlet sona and want to change their identity with each switch

shout out to alters who want to be their own people and distinct from the "singlet persona" and end up making an entirely new online identity not linked to the host/main account

shout out to alters who are so clearly different and themselves compared to their headmates that to feel alive and real they have to introduce themselves as a system to explain their intense switches!!

this is about us btw dhdjdj <3

[mx-mehri]

SHOUT OUT TO SYSTEMS WHO CANT OR DONT WANNA MASK!!!

shout out to systems whose alters are too distinct that they are very "obvious" as a system to outsiders

shout out to systems who dont want a singlet sona and want to change their identity with each switch

shout out to alters who want to be their own people and distinct from the "singlet persona" and end up making an entirely new online identity not linked to the host/main account

shout out to alters who are so clearly different and themselves compared to their headmates that to feel alive and real they have to introduce themselves as a system to explain their intense switches!!

this is about us btw dhdjdj <3

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Weird otherhearted culture is hating the fact people use the otherhearted tag when the post is about otherkins.

STOP USING OUR DAMN TAG!!

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I promise your feelings of loneliness will not last forever. You will find the people who make you feel whole.

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wait is it influencing me right now. is that why i felt the need to do this and why i'm suddenly feeling so horrible about it again. wait

coi hasn't fronted since the last time they posted. i know that they don't really "exist" whenever they're not fronting so therefore they can't be in any kind of state but like. i hope that it's doing okay

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saying something to their friend is proving to be difficult considering the way our brain immediately made me feel like something is horribly wrong after doing so

coi hasn't fronted since the last time they posted. i know that they don't really "exist" whenever they're not fronting so therefore they can't be in any kind of state but like. i hope that it's doing okay

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coi hasn't fronted since the last time they posted. i know that they don't really "exist" whenever they're not fronting so therefore they can't be in any kind of state but like. i hope that it's doing okay

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It can be a bit difficult at times to explain how our weird little soupy subsystem exists and functions within our overall system, so to provide a bit of a visual aid, we made a quick... comic? Infographic? Whatever this is!

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@pixelym-mori

Source

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"This actually increases dissociative barriers so you shouldn't do it!!" "Actually this DECREASES them so you SHOULD do it and you're fake if you don't!!" "This [accessibility tool] is anti recovery!!" "Naming your headmates is anti recovery!!" "Being a system isn't supposed to be fun!!" "People who are REALLY plural don't just make it known, they hide it!!" "You can't expect people to cater to you and want to learn the names of your alters!!"

Okay so actually I send out my hydreigon and he uses hyper beam.

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something that bugs me is how people act like someone thinking theyre plural and then turning out to be wrong is Uniquely awful and bad for their mental health comparatively to other similar mistakes one could make. but i have things to do so i cant go on another rant of rants