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Forgive me if this has already been suggested.

But if you want the suit to feel special. Does it require other people also in fancy dress to feel special?

I'm just wondering if you could have a fancy date night where you and your partner stay home & eat together so no one is stressed. But you do it in fancy clothes.

To some extent, stuff is special if you make it special. So whip out some candles, make the table look pretty & have a formal dinner in your home.

Celebrate the anniversary of you meeting. Or the day you moved into your place together. Or making it through winter. It can be special if you say it is.

That's kind of the problem. It's not about the suit as much as it is about things and events that are special enough for the people who attend it to dress up for them. Inviting people over to have a fancy party isn't an option because our apartment isn't big enough to comfortably host something, or to have a fancy dinner. We do not have a dinner table. We wouldn't have space for a dinner table.

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Okay so I've been experimenting on how to get my hair to have more volume and this nice messy, fluffy look to it. Today I was quite happy with the kind of shaggy thing I had managed to achieve with my hair, which was nice since we went to see some of my boyfriend's extended family. And let me tell you, while I am aware that the verb he used has different meanings in different finnish dialects, nothing could have prepared me for having my boyfriend's grandfather see my hair all tousled up like that was to ask me a question that I could only process and comprehend as

"What, did [boyfriend] cum all over you?"

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