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i am outgrowing who i was, and that’s okay. i am evolving every day, becoming something new. i will always miss my old selves but i welcome the new me with open arms.

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Adulthood is learning how 2 like someone healthily. That means not fixating on their every move. That means living your life to the fullest. That also means liking yourself . It means accepting any anxieties and worries that will inevitably come up. And giving yourself self compassion and being kind to yourself. Especially if you’ve been through very tough experiences before. Baby steps ❤️

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I don’t want a love that makes me crazy. I want a love that keeps me calm, grounded.

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If you have lived with a strong feeling of guilt for what feels like no reason (or even if there actually is a reason) you are allowed to put that aside. This is your sign. It has been long enough. It's done now. It's ok.

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build a circle of friends who are genuine. who are safe energetically. who are mature spiritually. who hold space and not animosity. who hold compassion and not judgment. who take time to check on you and your process. who grow through life with you + wish you well.

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what if i *remembers that making suicide jokes is not conducive with my goal of improving the wellbeing of myself and everyone around me* transform into an oyster

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some days you really do have to just find and wrench one tiny thing from the world w the determination of a hog digging out truffles and make it your anchor. raindrops on a window. smell of the bakery in the supermarket. single defiant tuft of grass between the cracks on the pavement. etc. hold it all w equally grubby and defiant hands.

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“When will you have a little pity for every soft thing that walks through the world, yourself included?”

— Mary Oliver, from Pen And Paper And A Breath Of Air in “Blue Pastures”

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