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Those who take will have taken from them. You may not see it, but it is the way of the universe. So don't try to manage someone else's balance. That unwittingly just initiates a new encounter to be calculated on your own scales. We don't have all its information, but the universe unfolds as it should. So relax, and manage only your own scales.

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In the blueprints of the universe, there is a certain reciprocity that can not be defied , yet its manifestation can be manipulated. It is advantageous to always give for anything you get no matter what it is or who acknowledges its existence. There will be a balance of some sort. So you will give, but a willing offering may be much more desirable than an option chosen for you.

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Wow

The Youngbloods - "Get Together"

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So you have come to a place in which you are finally fed up. You want to be rid of the pain? Then you must come to terms with the hard fact, that is not how it works. That kind of closed-minded thinking will bring more pain, I'm sorry to tell you. To seemingly fail at being concise, you must do whatever you can to realize that you are not only you. You are so very much more. Starting with a you that is "higher." Well, more like a sidestep, really. The you that you think you are has many advantages and disadvantages. There are other yous that have different ones. The hard part to grasp here is that these yous are not separate. You are just unaware. But you are fully capable of seeing from another you's perspective of your life that is entangled with pain without the deep and inseparable trauma that you will always carry. All the yous only want the best for you. Allow yourself to become at ease and familiar with another you that has the particular advantages you need at the given moment, and you will take care of yourself. A kind of symbiotic relationship, if you will. You can't remove what is. However, you can certainly always heal. And rising with those scars is infinitely superior to cutting holes in you.

Observation, contemplation, integration.

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Actual, thorough validation of oneself would have to come from one identical to itself.

You are chasing your own tail

Stop it.

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Comfortable Awe- a degree at which one is being steadily immersed in enlightenment of an increasing volume that is substantial but able to be maintained.

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Love is the origin

It's possible that the one thing that I can know with great certainty is that I know next to nothing, if anything, really at all. With that sobering awareness, I, from somewhere deep inside, feel absolutely safe and confident that I truly love you. Even with the understanding that I probably don't even know the half of the truth of what that love wholly is. And I know just as well that the understanding is not a prerequisite of having that totality of genuine love.

This is something I wholeheartedly believe to my greatest extent possible, with awareness of no doubt or hesitation whatsoever.

I know that I know that I know.

If I could have one wish granted for all humankind, it would be that they would too allow this knowing, in which they are all without exception capable, to be so apparent in their lives.

At the moment of thoroughly allowing it once, i can not imagine forgetting it and how truly easy it is.

Maybe that's why it is so available. It was always there.

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Keeping you when it's not honestly the absolute best thing for you, it's not love, it's selfishness. Remember that, and don't ever get it twisted.

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It does, without a doubt!

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Mother sloth reunites with her baby

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Men who show up with consistency, communication, strength, radical honesty, discipline, discernment, integrity, and purpose imprint themselves into a woman's brain and set her soul on fire.

She's not being needy. She's not trying to control you. She is trying to regulate her nervous system.

You want to be a Dominant man, show up with true presence, stability, and true masculine edge.

Become the kind of man that she measures every other man against.

"In a world of men addicted to being liked, he's addicted to being true."

- Jordan Peterson

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Hustling is good and all, but if that's your goal in life, then you have missed the point entirely. That's conditioning. That is the aspiration of a robot. Being a hard worker is definitely a virtue, and achievement is crucial. However, obtaining and transacting money is a lofty goal for a snack machine. You are a real, live human. Wake up! You were built to create, feel, illuminate, evolve, connect, experience, desire, wonder, wander, heal, laugh, cry, discover, help, love, and just be. Be whatever you uniquely are. To strive for status and money foremost is ignorant and so utterly fucking sad. You are more than you have ever imagined before. I promise. So If you truly want to waste the unfathomable, transcendent, divine thing you absolutely are, keep your cluelessness to yourself. It's offensive.

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"Freedom of the press is not just important, it is imperative for a functioning democracy." – John F. Kennedy

He forgot the words "Integrity and-" at the beginning.