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I gotta ask, how do people, like, do stuff???

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White King and Queen

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you can click on this button once daily to help palestine and support other causes in the middle east for free. it takes literally 5 seconds and could help save lives so please take the time to click and share this link.

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huh. late but i will try. people aren't attracted to sex actually. kind of

hard to be when no one is legally allowed to have their sex on display.

what people are attracted to are the social portrayals of sex that we

call gender. if you saw a trans person of the opposite sex and became

attracted them based on how well they perform gender to your

standards, you are attracted to them regardless of their biological

sex. you could argue that it doesn't count because you didn't know,

but it doesn't change the fact of attraction. it's like if you ate a meal

you thought tasted really good, only to be told later that the chef was

this guy you really don't like and you decide you hated the dish after

all. now nothing about the dish or its flavor changed, it's just your

perception of the dish that changed. but that doesn't change the fact

that you objectively liked the food because it suited your pallet.

pls dont yell at me i was answering your question thx

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STOP!!! REMOVING!!! ANALOG CLOCKS!!!! FROM PLACES!!!!!!

I broke my phone dammit! I want to be able to go into a public building a glance at the wall to know the time like a goddamn civilized human being!! Why are we gleefully transgressing into single point of error hours!?

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People are getting really really fascist about peaceful protesters and it’s getting scary lol

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Talking to my boyfriend is an everydaay struggle because he infodumps a lot and when I inevitably get distracted and miss half the conversation he gives me sad puppy eyes

it sucks having autism and ADHD because I want to listen to you infodumping, I'm extremely interested in what you have to say to me and what makes you excited, but midway through the conversation my brain will go

can't read my, can't read my, no they can't read my poker face COME ON BARBIE LET'S GO PARTY can't read my, can't read my, no they can't read my poker face COME ON BARBIE LET'S GO PARTY

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Dealing With Executive Dysfunction - A Masterpost

The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.

The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.

The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.

The “get stuff done while you wait” method.

The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.

The “break the task into smaller steps” method.

The “treat yourself like a pet” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.

The “put on a persona” method.

The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.

The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.

The “wait for a trigger” method.

The “do it for your future self” method.

The “might as well” method.

The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.

The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.

The “make it easy” method.

The “junebugging” method.

The “just show up” method.

The “accept when you need help” method.

The “make it into a game” method.

The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.

The “trick yourself” method.

The “break it into even smaller steps” method.

The “let go of should” method.

The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.

The “fork theory” method.

The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.

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Who’s Eid. Your gf?

Who’s Eid…….

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big day for weird lesbians 😭‼️‼️ (me)

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YES its a knife in my pocket, AND im happy to see you. both can be true.

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Rick roll a la geometry dash

DELETE THIS POST

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nvm i found it. get booped idiots

guys. guys i dont know how to boop. this is actually killing me pls help. guys

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guys. guys i dont know how to boop. this is actually killing me pls help. guys

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y'all ever reach the end of google

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In my experience, a lot of people get really excited when you speak their native language after living in a foreign country for years. Even if you screw up or trip over your words, people tend to genuinely appreciate the effort. It's honestly very heartwarming to watch their faces light up (even if you're only asking where the bathroom is)

Does anyone have advice for getting over the embarrassment of speaking a language you aren’t good at with other people? I’ve studied Spanish, I know a little bit of Spanish, I am trying to learn more Spanish specifically for healthcare providers, but when I’m faced with an actual primarily Spanish speaking patient at my job, I get so nervous and tongue tied I’m like “maybe ‘buenos noches actually means I’m gonna kill you with morphine….i better stick entirely to English.” I know it’s the embarrassment! I don’t wanna sound stupid! And because so many of my patients understand a little English, I can usually muddle thru basic conversations relying on them. Which sucks! I feel bad about that! I’m like “I don’t want to talk in a language I’m not fluent in, so I’ll make them talk in a language I’m not fluent in.”

Also to be clear, this is all for stuff like “do you need the bathroom” or “do you want a pepsi from the kitchen.” I will always use an interpreter for anything more complicated than basic needs. But it’s a pain in the ass to use the interpreter ipad, and no one likes it, including the patients. It’d be nice to use it less and to be able to have more of a rapport with my patients. The foundation of my whole nursing practice is casual small talk with patients to learn more about them and their needs, and my Spanish speaking patients don’t get that.

(Neither do my patients who speak Russian or Taishanese or Vietnamese or but like. I don’t expect myself to learn every language in the world. Right now I just want to learn the language I theoretically kinda learned.)

I’ve been really working on pushing myself to try to speak more Spanish, at least a little bit, but I just have this mental block that I can’t push thru. It’s like all the social anxiety I’ve learned to otherwise cope with or moved on from settled entirely in my insecurity about my language skills. It’s nuts. Then I feel guilty about it which makes the block bigger which I feel guilty about, do you see the pattern here. Has anyone have any advice or resources? Not just for learning the language—I would also really appreciate those—but specifically dealing with this language embarrassment?