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Hot ppl on tumblr are so funny like you could be at the club getting mad pole or hole and you’re on here because something in your brain is broken

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'Aro people aren't against love' I am. Break up with your boyfriend

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shout out to all the people who used to struggle with being Mean or cruel to others and are actively working on being better. shout out to all the people who were hurt, externalized it, and then decided to be kind about it instead. shout out to all the people who CHOSE kindness, shout out.

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Unconditional love isn't a free pass to hurt me.

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It's easier to accept that you're aromantic once you understand that what you want isn't romance per se and it's really the companionship that appeals to you. I never actually liked the thought of being in a relationship but I liked the thought of being important to someone

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reverse gaslighting where i pretend to know exactly what you are talking about

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Not to offer advice nobody asked for but fixing ur sleep schedule is life changing

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I feel weird and nervous about everything goodbye

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the concept and idea of “you can always start trying to be a better person” is extremely important to me both in media and irl and i continue to be deeply deeply disturbed by the trend on this site pushing that these ideas in media are bad writing or even morally reprehensible

because theyd rather someone stay terrible or just straight up die than become a better person 

from a compassionate point of view it’s deeply distressing and from a pragmatic point of view it’s outright frustrating

it’s fucked up. 

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found a dude who does VR cruisin and boozin and im IN LOVE

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controversial opinion but unfortunately you are your actions and what you say. if you are mean to people, it doesn’t matter if you sometimes have secret kind thoughts. fortunately you are your actions and what you say. if you are kind in your actions and your words, it doesn’t matter if you sometimes have mean thoughts. the power is in working against inner negative thoughts and being a better person despite it. you have the ability to cultivate the person you want to be.

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one of the most important things, perhaps the most important thing I have learned in my life is that nice people can fuck each other up in monstrous ways. people can be bone deep kind and loving and self reflective and still lash out under pressure. people can be earnestly neighbourly and charitable and hospitable and generous and still find themselves in situations where they become selfish. people can be well meaning and easygoing and gregarious and hold deep seated opinions that turn them into vicious little bullies under the right conditions. nobody is just one thing, and nobody stays one way. every person is a kaleidoscope and they will surprise you. you will surprise yourself. it's not a warning and it's not a judgement and it's not an excuse, and it's certainly not a reason to stop trying or to stop trusting. it is just a fact.

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(crawls on all fours with blood drenched on me) I have to do arts and crafts