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Let her be happy!

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guide for how to spot someone who is faking DID for dummies!!!

1. you can't!!

2. no like seriously you can't!!

okay i hear you, i hear you! apparently the crowd has some comments about things that DEFINITELY means someone is faking so let's address them!

high part count/significant change in part count: part counts entirely are focused on your window of tolerance, of you've got a low window of tolerance odds are you are going to split from minor stress! and as you move further through recovery you'll most likely discover more and more parts you never knew existed!! (also anyone who quotes "average amount of alters" you make me barf seriously)

introjects: bleh. introjects can literally be anything even people without did introject. anyone who fakeclaims over introjects you're so dramatic plssss get a GRIP!!! it's not that deep!!

misinformation: mfers love to say that did is a complex disorder and then act shocked when someone gets something wrong. IT'S OKAY TO BE WRONG!!! we used to believe in core theory I promise you, you are going to get things wrong time and time again and you will learn!!! it's okay!!

positivity: ugh not this again. can't a mfer be joyful and whimsy while having did without getting fakeclaimed?? positivity is good and positivity doesn't mean the absence of negativity!!!! YOU ARE ALLOWED TO LOVE YOUR SYSTEM! they've done a lot for you and I promise you a little bit of positivity will do you some good! it's not healthy to lay in your own misery your entire life - this disorder is not a death sentence guys. cmon.

age: oh my god? people can find out they have a disorder formed in childhood before they are legally adult? WHO WOULD HAVE THUNK?? some people get therapy early in life, some people just find out, it happens and if it bothers you that 15 year olds have did - maybe you should take a step back?? mayhaps?

message is, you don't know what someone's been through and you don't know their symptoms just because they have a public blog on the internet. they are still a stranger! worry about yourself, worry about what you can to make yourself happy and leave people ALOOONE!!!!!!

anyways systems I LOVEEE YOUUUUU don't let any idiots fakeclaiming get to you I promise you! you know yourself more than idiots on the internet! take care!!!!

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Welcome To Safe Haven

✎﹏﹏﹏ 𝙶𝚎𝚗𝚎𝚛𝚊𝚕 𝙸𝚗𝚏𝚘

We are a DID system, and have many headmates. We refer to each other as headmates or headworms. Our collective name? Wolly or Tex ! Bodily age? 16-18, we don't really have any collective pronouns.

Our collective sign off is: 🚂

We are diagnosed with: DID and Night terrors, anxiety, RAD.

Questioning: DPD and ADHD or Autism.

What's the point of this blog? Nothing really, we post random things. We may post some things about roles we have in our system that have been made in our system(...does that make sense?)

➔ Important! We split easily, and are introject heavy. Do not treat all headmates like their source! Some of them get uncomfortable so please do ask.

✎﹏﹏﹏﹏ 𝙱𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚍𝚊𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚜!

Basic DNI(Transphobics/homophobics, Xenophobic, etc. Misogynistic.  Racist, Sexist, Ableist, Discrimination, etc. Invalidates A Person's Pronouns / Gender / Identity. P3dophile, Sexualizes Minors, Jokes About R×pe, etc.) Supports, participates, tolerates, or justify any of the above.

NSFW accounts.

Anti-Age regression.

Endos/Pro-Endos.

Trans-ID/Radqueer

TERFs

No system accountability

People who throw around the term “anti-recovery”

Use the terms “sysmed” or “traumascum”

Fakeclaimers (people that post on systemscringe. Go away.)

Anti-Xenogenders.

✎﹏﹏﹏ 𝚃𝚑𝚎 𝙰𝚍𝚖𝚒𝚗(𝚜) 𝚘𝚏 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚐𝚛𝚘𝚞𝚙!

𝚁𝚘𝚖𝚊𝚗 🎨👑 | 𝙸𝚗𝚝𝚛𝚘𝚓𝚎𝚌𝚝 : 𝚂𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚜 𝚂𝚒𝚍𝚎 | 𝙷𝚘𝚜𝚝 | 𝟷𝟼-𝟷𝟾 | 𝙷𝚎/𝙷𝚒𝚖

𝙵𝚛𝚒𝚎𝚍𝚎 ⛵⚡ | 𝙸𝚗𝚝𝚛𝚘𝚓𝚎𝚌𝚝 : 𝙿𝚘𝚔𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚗 | 𝚃𝚛𝚊𝚟𝚎𝚕𝚎𝚛 | 𝟸𝟻 | 𝙷𝚎/𝚃𝚑𝚎𝚢

𝚁𝚢𝚊𝚗 𝟾️☕ | 𝙵𝚊𝚌𝚝𝚒𝚟𝚎 : 𝟾𝙱𝚒𝚝𝚁𝚢𝚊𝚗 | 𝚂𝚘𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛 | 𝟹𝟷 | 𝙷𝚎/𝙷𝚒𝚖

𝙸𝚘𝚗𝚘 🧲 | 𝙸𝚗𝚝𝚛𝚘𝚓𝚎𝚌𝚝 : 𝙿𝚘𝚔𝚎𝚖𝚘𝚗 | 𝙴𝚖𝚘𝚝𝚒𝚘𝚗 𝙷𝚘𝚕𝚍𝚎𝚛 | 𝟷𝟿 | 𝚂𝚑𝚎/𝚃𝚑𝚎𝚢

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Excuse me, you have dni if you're islamophobic, which is valid! But I'm wondering if you're pro Palestine as well?

Ty in advance!

- @sovereignsystem

Hello! This is a great question-

We are pro Palestine as well, for a brief explantation on the islmaphobic is because one of the body's cousins are Islamic and of course we still love them.

On our personal account we did get hate due to having islamphobia in our DNI but that is really due to our cousin as we respect them and really would rather not see any conflict if that makes sense.. sorry my wording isn't always the best!

Our pinned intro is still getting worked on so we never added the fact we are pro Palestine sive it was kinda of rushed the intro

And I personally do believe you shouldn't judge someone based on where they come from or religion and sexuality or pronouns/gender! I accept everyone for who they are! As long as they're not mean obviously...

Thank you for the question though! Have a nice day!

- 💚🏹

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INTRO Posted by: Roman

ׂ╰┈➤ 𝑹𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝑺𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔 🎨👑

ׂGreetings, my name is Roman Sanders and I'm the fantastic host of this system! I've been the host for ten years and only recently figured out I was not a brainmade alter a few months ago but that's a long story I'm sure Logs might tell you!

My source is obviously "Sanders Sides"! and I do hold basically...all my source memories but some are still fuzzy. Oh and any sourcemates or doubles do feel free to interact! We do have well...really everyone just not Thomas.

and I'm also taken by my lovely partner(out sys), so don't try flirting with me! My age? I will not say aside from 16-18(bodily) and well in general...

I love the color green, and I tend to play video games with Virgil or C a lot when I'm in the headspace thought my favourite thing(other than my love) is musicals/theater and drawing and research!

That's all on me, for now.

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“ ugly ” regression

☆ it’s not talked enough in regression about the hard big angry feelings. It’s not always relaxing and playing

☆ I want to yell and cry

☆ Throw my toys and push you away

☆ I don’t understand how to process these big feelings

☆ I can’t verbalise what I want

☆ All I want to do is scream and tantrum

☆ Things aren’t going my way and I’m not spoiled for feeling that

☆ I wanna scribble all over my pretty drawing in a black crayon

☆ It’s okay to feel this way

☆ It’s okay to get those feelings out