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I feel the phrase “Aro/Ace people can still date/have sex” has just morphed into a new version of “you just haven’t found the right person yet.”

Yes we can. But it’s our call if we do. And it’s certainly not gonna be with anyone who tries to use the fluidity of our experiences as a clap back to break firmly set boundaries.

And that fluidity doesn’t make sexual/romantic repulsion that some of us experience any less true or valid.

I’ve never had sex and I never will. The sheer concept of it viscerally disgusts me.

I’ve never experienced any form of sexual attraction and know at this point i likely never will. I have zero framework for it when people talk about it. It confuses me.

“Little to no romantic/sexual attraction” has a no in it for a reason. Because aro/ace people who don’t experience sexual/romantic attraction at all regardless of circumstance are in fact real.

Other ace people have different experiences. They’re allowed to. Their experiences aren’t mine or anyone else’s to make. Nor are mine theirs.

Sexualities are complicated and often fluid sure. But one thing they’re not is negotiable.

Ace peoples boundaries are ours to make and yours to respect. No ifs or buts. You don’t get a say in it.

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You know what? Forget the discourse. This is no longer my hill to die on.

You wanna ship canonically aspec characters because “aro/ace people can still date/have sex”? Okay, then. LET’S DO IT.  I wanna see an aromantic character with an alloromantic love interest. I wanna see that confession of undying love and the moment when the aro character says they will never feel the same way—not romantically.

I wanna see the asexual character with their allosexual partner. I wanna see that moment when the ace characters tries sex with their partner for the first time because they want to make them happy only to realize that they are 100% sex repulsed.

I wanna see the two demiromantics who don’t even know if what they feel is romantic attraction, but they adore each other and just want to make healthy snacks together and destroy each other at Mario Kart.

I wanna see the two aces who love sensual affection and are figuring out what they define as sexual or not.

I wanna see the romance + sex neutral aroace who happily and consensually does whatever makes their partner happy…but their partner still struggles with feeling undesired. 

Oh, babe. You thought shipping an aspec character would be just like shipping an allo character? 

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PROUD ACE!!! 🤍🖤💜

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Hello, I need help with finding a fanfiction!

Okay, so it's about Wei Wuxian and Lan Zhan from mo dao zu shi, when they are respectfully omega and alpha and the slept with each other during a banquet at the Lanling Jin sect, because Wei Wuxian went into heat and he became pregnant after that. I remember Jiang Cheng being an amazing brother and telling Wei Wuxian that his child can become the Jiang heir, because Wei Wuxian didn't tell him, whose child this is. And then all the shit with Wens happened and he gave birth on Burial Mounds and I remember that he was killed on qiongqi path, because he was with his child (I think it was Lan Yuan) and he didn't want to fight.

Please, I'm looking for it for like a few months and I still haven't found it, I'm afraid it may be delated, but tumblr is my last hope

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Hello, I need help with finding a fanfiction!

Okay, so it's about Wei Wuxian and Lan Zhan from mo dao zu shi, when they are respectfully omega and alpha and the slept with each other during a banquet at the Lanling Jin sect, because Wei Wuxian went into heat and he became pregnant after that. I remember Jiang Cheng being an amazing brother and telling Wei Wuxian that his child can become the Jiang heir, because Wei Wuxian didn't tell him, whose child this is. And then all the shit with Wens happened and he gave birth on Burial Mounds and I remember that he was killed on qiongqi path, because he was with his child (I think it was Lan Yuan) and he didn't want to fight.

Please, I'm looking for it for like a few months and I still haven't found it, I'm afraid it may be delated, but tumblr is my last hope

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at the end of the day, there’s always aaron hotchner

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missing my trio (izuku, katsuki and shoto) everyday 😓

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Do you know what I'd really want to read? Mdzs abo version of mulan, where wei Wuxian is an omega (Mulan), who's going to war instead of Jiang Fengmiam and Jiang Cheng, to pay a debt of them raising him (and because he's a better fighter than Jiang Cheng, and he really didn't want him to die). Then Lan Zhang is Shang and they're fighting for the lan empire (uncle lan is the emperor or maybe xichen) and the evil army are Wen or maybe Jin

Yeah. Just thought about it. Smn, please write it😭 or of it exists, gimme recs!

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Calling it Dorian R because they took out the gay :(

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Aironn, tiktok/ Practical Magic, Alice Hoffman/ Electra, Sophocles/The Beatrice Letters, Lemony Snicket/ Peace, Diane Leonard/ The Notebooks of Malte Laurids Brigge, Rainer Maria Rilke/ The Replacement, Brenna Yovanoff/ Anxiousmaya, tiktok

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thinking about a shadowhunters universe jegulus/marauders au. specifically the TMI era.

Sirius and Regulus being the kids of the leaders of the London (?) institute. Their parents used to be circle members but feigned fear and manipulation. Like the lightwoods they're allowed back into the shadowhunter homeland on important business due to having children. They still very much believe in the ideas of the circle and are incredibly upset that the Black name has been tarnished and have put pressure on Sirius and Regulus to bring them to glory once again.

Remus was the son of a prominent shadowhunter family and during training when he was young he and his father got ambushed by a pack of werewolves. Remus got bitten and, even though it's not a 100% chance a bite means being turned on the next full moon he's locked in his family's basement and writhing in pain as he changes for the first time.

Peter, I imagine, would be a close Hodge equivalent. Not a 1-1 obviously, but close. His parents were Shadowhunters who also followed the circle but died by being ripped apart by demons and he witnessed it. Hatred festering every time he was sent out on the field. Which, sadly, didn't happen often as physically he was behind Sirius and Regulus (which isn't a fair comparison due to the fact that since either of them could properly hold things weapons were shoved in their hands).

Evan and Pandora are warlocks, they're both a bit eccentric in their own ways, and they prefer to keep out of shadowhunter stuff, but Pandora can't help but see Regulus like a sopping wet kitten. Evan is the "official" high warlock of London (again, not sure on location) but they both share the responsibilitys.

Barty is Fae and grew up closed off from most of everything but eventually became close with Evan and Pandora. Barty's family is high up in the court, trusted closely by the Seelie Queen, but he doesn't give a shit. The second that the circle is hinted at returning he jumps at the chance to backstab his father and the court that treats him so poorly.

Dorcas is a vampire and close with Barty since they bonded when she was just a fledgling, one who sticks strongly with the accords. She realizes how bad it would be if the circle were to come back and at first tries to stay out of it before she realizes Barty is a traitor and her coven leader believes that the rules are below them. Which she soon overthrows.

James and Marlene were childhood friends until around age 13 when Marlene kind of disappeared. James' parents wanted to live in a world safe from all the conflict, especially when they found out they were expecting James, so they hid in the mortal world. James doesn't get his memories wiped, it's just more like a Percy Jackson type thing where he tries to bring up the weird stuff he sees, Effie and Monty kind of just gaslight him. They weren't a part of the circle but they were high up in the clave and outwardly against the brutalization of slaughter of innocents. It painted a target on their backs that only worsened overtime and to save their family left.

Lily is a "mundane" and close friends with Marlene and James until Marlene goes missing. Lily is kind of like the Simon equivalent, James and her stay close together, even more so since they never saw Marlene again, and even when James gets dragged into the world Lily sticks by him. Even when she accidentally drinks the wrong thing at a warlock party, ends up as a mouse, and gets turned into a vampire.

at least those were the ideas I had about it

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when i see someone ship jegulus, i just know they serve cunt. like i just know they do. that’s why jegulus shippers get so much hate, because people who don’t serve cunt cannot handle people that do.

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missing my trio (izuku, katsuki and shoto) everyday 😓

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at the end of the day, there’s always aaron hotchner

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happy birthday thomas <3333

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