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reminder that there's nothing wrong with needing medication to do things.
it doesn't make you any less than the people that do those same things without any medication.
taking medication has no moral value, it's about looking after yourself and your health and it's not fair of people to try and imply that there's anything "good" or "bad" about taking any sort of medication.
taking something that works for you and helps you feel better is never a bad thing.
#once again this is mostly me telling myself something but im sure other people need to hear!#also hello!! sorry I've been inactive i miss this blog </3#i think it's partially because when there was medication shortages agess ago i started only taking my meds on days i had work#and then created a lot of guilt in head about taking them on days i wasnt working because id decided i ”should” be able to#do things like getting up and eating and generally looking after myself without them and you know what#i can't!! and thats okay!! taking medication for something is deeply personal and there is no moral implication of it!#do what works for you and look after yourself friends <3#reminder
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I luckily haven't had to deal with much chronic pain or hand pain yet, especially with regards to baking (crochet is another story). That said, these look like some pretty solid tips! There's also some in the comments section.
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SO much about doing well is just not even giving your brain the time to sabotage you. Like deciding to just get started on a task before your brain could conjure up thoughts like “but there’s always tomorrow” “ruminate on this pointless thing instead” like sometimes you genuinely just have to put pen to paper and do
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hey. hey.
wanting attention is not a bad thing. wanting people to care about you is not selfish. it’s okay to want people to listen to you. you don’t need to do anything to deserve love. love is not a finite resource; we hold enough of it in our hearts to love each other every single day of the year. you deserve to be loved every single day of the year. don’t forget that.
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recovery isn’t linear. some days are easy, and some days are hard as fuck. but one thing stays the same — it’s always worth it. you are worth every ounce of courage, kindness, and energy that goes into recovering. you will never not be worthy.
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how do you reconnect to life after being disconnected for so long
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I hope you guys like…eventually live the life you want to live and I hope nothing haunts you for too long and I hope you’re all kind to yourselves
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You decide what things are important or not in your life. You decide what will give your life meaning or make you happy.
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what “feeling better” can look like after using a coping technique:
beng able to get up and walk around safely
thinking/talking more clearly and lessening of brain fog
a willingness to re-engage with a situation/emotion (even with some reluctance)
ability to do a task you did not want to/could not do before
being able to plan and problem solve (even if you still don’t know what to do)
improved concentration/focus
more understanding of a situation
calmer and slower thoughts (rather than scattered thoughts/rumination)
slower heartbeat and breathing
faster heartbeat, if doing exercise, and momentum that gives you a chance to do a task before you sit down again
being able to sleep easier
an ability to look at the big picture and not get lost in the details
feeling that you can “manage”
ability to control outbursts/destructive behaviour or pause before acting
managing to stop crying
I think people tend to assume their mood is what will improve after trying coping techniques, however, your mood is not the full extent of your mental health, and it doesn’t totally define whether or not a technique has helped you. When disorders cause symptoms like chronic emptiness and low mood, it’s worthwhile to pay attention to your body and your abilities to look for signs of improvement, which can then have an affect on your mood in the long term.
#i also think its important to be aware of your unhealthy coping mechanisms so you can notice when you're using them and work on finding#healthier replacements#coping
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Here is your reminder that you do not have to be perfect in the new year.
You are human and you are allowed to struggle and make mistakes just as much as every other time.
Make goals if you would like!!
But also remember that there is no pressure to.
You cannot become a new person overnight and it's not fair to expect that of yourself.
#this post has been in my notifications again so i thought reblog it#in true adhd fashion this year i straight up forgot it was the new year because ive been working so much#and honestly it's been nice not even thinking about setting unrealistic (for me) new years resolutions
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You’re tired. Burnt out. Exhausted. Stressed.
This lowers your capacity for emotional regulation.
You’ll cry more easily. Get dragged into low moods more easily. Simple little things where you’re like ‘dang, that shouldn’t hit so hard,’ will wallop you.
This will trick you into thinking you’re weak and can’t handle life. A loser.
Not so my friend.
It’s a signal that you need a nap, need to allow for more sleep at night, need to prioritize and scale back on what you can accomplish in a day, need to take a mental health day or even a leave.
Something’s got to give.
But!
It’s not your self worth.
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bad news! i have no idea what im doing. good news! i will continue nonetheless.
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it’s small joys saturday y’all let’s get it
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Reminder to myself: My friends are there for me, I just need to let them.
#& & if you genuinely feel like they aren't‚ there are people that will be and you deserve to give yourself the chance to meet them <3#relationships#reminder#queue are loved ♡
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