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little break 🧸

hi little lovelies,

me & daddy recently got some bad news and it’s kinda shaken us a little and my mental health as reclined because of it

so i’m taking a little break until i feel a bit more like myself <3

i love you all, lots of big cuddles from me, daddy & luna 🐾

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a│c : the emergency little bag!

sometimes we don't have enough time to pack, and we need to get the essentials ready to go before we need to leave!

here are some things that you could put in your own emergency little bag.

⭐ colouring books / paper.

⭐ colouring pens / crayons.

⭐ puzzles

⭐ stim toys.

⭐ dolls / action figures.

⭐ plushies / teddy's.

⭐ snacks!

⭐ water bottle

⭐ headphones / smart phone (for cartoons etc)

⭐ gear!

⭐ comfort items (blankets, clothing etc)

what's in your emergency little bag? ✨

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topic tuesday : the updates

the total death total suprasses 34,000 : 10,000 of whom are women. though Euro-Med human rights put the real number (including the thousand missing under the rubble at over 41,000).

in the last twenty four hours, a futher 54 palestinians were killed, with 104 injured as Israel commits six masscares.

over 283 bodies were found to be deliberately hidden by Israeli amry across 4 mass graves in Nasser Hospital after their siege.

3 palestinians (including a 19 year old and an elderly woman) where shot by Israeli forces as they opened fire on cars on a highway in the West bank.

the strikes on Rafah have killed 24 people, 18 of those being children and 6 being women.

7 palestinains have also been killed & many more injured during an Israeli strike that had been targetting homes in the Nuseirat refugee camp in the Central of Gaza.

700,000 palestinians have become affected by an unprecedented spread of infectious diseases in north gaza.

ceasefire now & continue to boycott

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final blood test, done!! ૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა

i did it!!!

after weeks of having to get up early for bloodtests, i had my final one this morning!!

i was very brave too!! got some grapes afterwards for a treat, tehehe! <3

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happy tuesday ☀️

good morning & happy tuesday little ones!

we made it through monday, now to tackle tuesday!

we got this! <3

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weekly little check-in🌠

have you had any water yet kiddo?

have you had a second to just sit down and relax?

c'mon, take a nice deep breath for me.

relax your jaw,

unlech your teeth,

relax your shoulders.

you're doing amazing, alright?

you're making everyone so proud <3.

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a lil pumpkin personal milestone ✨

- i have upgraded from 5kg weights to 10kg weights! 🏋🏻‍♀️

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doggo weekend 🐶

this weekend we made a last minute trip up for a family party which means i got reunited with my parent's dog after 1 year, he's still as fluffy & as clingy as ever heheh <3

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Hihi Pumpkin! Test went good! I think I passed~ Hehe. My mom got me socks that are really cute a while ago, I never wore them, but I did, and they make me feel really cute!! I'm gonna look for more online and get some. We also might transfer to a new place really soon! I'm already looking for decorations for me and my sister's new room :)) hopefully we'll get a new bed too. My bed frame + mattress is kinda dented.. :( My mom also got this toothpaste that whitens your teeth, it works!! My mom even said that my teeth are getting brighter. And my cat is more active! (Example: She comes in me and my sisters room A LOT now)

Enough about Me though, how's your day? :) hope it's good!

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- hihi cupcake'! <3 ⭐

awww!!! that's amazing news babybeee!! <3

i'm so so so happy that things are going well!! i hope that everything works out for you!! & you do get that new place!! <3

things are good for us too!! we're just relaxing really hehe, nothing new! <3

i hope your week continues to go great lovely!!! <3

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Hi! Just wanted to say that I was feeling nervous but when I’ve seen your blog it calmed me and reassured me about my littlespace <3 little me is so stressed out lately and I get agere block most of the time and it’s really frustrating because I really need my coping mechanism right now to support me

- Can I be these 🐠🎀🐋 pwease?

- hihi cupcake'! <3 ⭐

awww, i'm so glad that i could help sweetpea!! <3

i get like that a lot, especially when i'm already so stressed out about things in real life! <3

something that helps me is using the little things i would usually do when i'm regressed. like watching cartoons just for a little bit, or just making a small blanket nest or a blanket fort to help me feel comforted <3.

usually that helps get the ball rolling on helping myself over the agere block <3

big big hugs though!! i hope you start feeling better soon lovely!!

+ yes!! i've added you the list now!! <3

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i cant find my baba:(( i don kno what to do:((

- hihi cupcake'! <3 ⭐

oh no sweetpea :<

did you manage to find them?? <3

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Pumpkin!

Hope your well!!!

I passed my unit test for my online class I have to do to make up my first semester of zoology!!

I rly need to regress but haven’t had the chance cus school n stuff n my cgs been busy these past few days, ima make it my goal for tmro to regress after school tho!

n on a more not so happy note

m so tired n jus not loving life rn

I’m so tired of being at home n around my family

They raise there voices n sound like there mad like 80% of the time

they talk a lot of crap ab everything & everybody (including me)

n m jus tired of hearing it n tired of being around them

Hate school n hate home

I jus can’t win 😭

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- hihi cupcake'! <3 ⭐

oh my goodness, well done for passing sweetie!! <3

i'm so so so so proud of you!! <3

i'm sorry that you're having a sucky time at home :<

have you got some noise cancelling headphones?? they helped me a lot when i was stuck at home & even school. sadly we can't change our enviroment really, just adapt to suit us better.

why not change your room up so it can be more of a comfort and safe area? get things that can make you happy, so that you can just shut that door and be in your own bubble safe & away from everyone.

have like a little hobby corner, make blanket forts on your bed etc <3.

i know how hard it is though :< so big big cuddles from the both of us <3

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blehhhhh😝😝😝😝

(can ni be 🐜or🪱 peaaasee???)

hiiii hiii hi hi hi hiiiiiuu blehhhh😝

- hihi cupcake'! <3 ⭐

bleeeeeeeh hehehe <3

hihihihihihihihihii ૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა

& sure thing sweet pea! i've added you to the list now!! <3

welcome to our little side of the interent! <3

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Any tips for when your partner goes little? Today mine when little for the first time properly and I’m not 100% sure how to care for them ! Thank you and hope you have a good day 🩷

- hihi cupcake'! <3 ⭐

good question lovely! <3

before they regress again next time, i'd take some time to dicuss boundaries and things like that. a lot of littles regress for different reasons & you don't want to do something that could trigger bad memories.

you can also see what things they enjoy doing when they regress & make mental notes so you can make routines for them ect! <3

when regressed, my daddy tends to focus on some key things.

how old am i? : this is important because it sets the tone for the routine or regression day & daddy can get things properly prepared.

the little activites that correlate to that age : for example, cartoons, colouring, fingerpainting! remember that regression is unique for everyone - they may like certain things that other littles don't who regress to a similiar age! but for the first couple of times you can offer them a broad spectrum until you know their little side a bit better.

important helping hand factors. : do they need specific gear? like a binkie? or a comfort blanket? or a bottle? or even specific foods?

body language ques & mental notes: for in life caregiving you can focus on body lanuuage & seeing what your little enjoys & dislikes, if it's a long distance relationship focus on their vocal repsonses, if they're trailing off, or too shy to appraoch a topic. the first couple of regression sessions are important for you both to learn each other, so open policy is key!

there are caregiving documents online you can find, as well as help from other caregivers themselves! remember you can do this, remember that your feelings matter too & thank you for making a little one feel safe & secure!! <3

i hope you have a wonderful day too & that things go well!!

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I jus opened up to my boyfriend who knows im a little (but a bigger little about 6-8) about how im scared to be little little (more about 2/3ish i fink) and he’s so supportive im crying coz i fort itd scare him off 🥹🧸

- hihi cupcake'! <3 ⭐

oh my goodness sweetpea!! <3

i'm so super duper proud of you!!!

& i'm so so so happy things turned out amazing! gosh my heart was felt happy just reading that mesaage <3.

super hugs for the both of you! <3

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b has been very weird again...she's starting to spend a lot of time with the boy she likes and she talk less to me n our friends. n she likes him openly now she admitted to it. it just makes me sads. they go to a buncha places together and I'm scared of losing her :(((

I've also been having a bunch of icky stuff. my skin bothers me and I'm having a lot of sensory issues. and it's never happened before! it was so icky the first night. my skin bothered me. it was icky when my legs or fingers touched (and I always sleep in tiny shorts). now I got it figured out. my sheets were bothering me. so now I lay a soft blankie on my bed beneath me, then another soft blankie on top of me, and then the duvet and now it's not icky! and instead of short sleeves I've been wearing long sleeves and It also helps...makes me feel more boy-ly....

how have you been pumpkin? I hope ur doing well bubby :)))

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- hihi cupcake'! <3 ⭐

i'm sorry to hear about b sweetpea :<

she shouldn't be ignoring her friends like that :<, i hope she releases soon and starts scheduling her time better <3

& i get like that too!! i can't sit on sofa's if there isn't a blanket down first, otherwise my skin feels like it's on fire (it's why i keep my comfort blanket with me like everywhere i go hehe)

i've been good!! me & daddy have been weight lifting and training so hopefully i'll be big an strong when summer comes! <3

i hope ur feeling a little better lovely :< big big big hugs from the both of us! <3

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Haiii!!

Wanna be positive!!

Every-baby (and carer) is such a good hearted cutie!!

Everyone here is doing such a good job!!

Please everyone keep being your cutie selfs!!

I hope everybaby and carer has a good fun weekend!!

I don't have an anon symbol here yet.. I'm 🫐🦇 in some other places if that's okay?? 😁

- hihi cupcake'! <3 ⭐

^^ some adorable positivity content! <3

& yes of course sweetpea! i'll add you now to the little list!! <3

welcome to our sweet side of the interenet!! <3

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