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petplay but its plushieplay, where you treat your partner like a plushie for a day. ignoring everything they say because plushies don't talk, grabbing them without asking, make them do things, all sorts of fun stuff!

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everytime you see this post, slap yourself

just once, wherever on your body you'll feel it the most

just once, wherever it's most fun for you to get hit

get somewhere safe, or even get someone to help

everytime you see it, even you if you see it again after reblogging it

well done, now reblog. reblog as many times as you like

have fun!

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Here is a guide to hitting others. It is not about safe impact locations or how to develop picturesque bruising. It is about how to hit someone, and keep hitting someone, until you're both satisfied. It is how I approach hitting masochists for my own pleasure.

The first thing to note is that...

This is going to Hurt.

That fact cannot be shied away from. Pain, even for masochists, hurts. There is a tolerance to how much someone can take, and ways to engage with that tolerance. You will need to learn how each masochist takes pain, and potentially even teach them how to manage and endure it.

So you've got a paddle and a tied up piece of masochistic meat, or perhaps you're using your hand and it's bent over your knee, or perhaps it's cuffed to a cross and you've got a whip, or perhaps you've got a knife or needles or... well by now I've laboured the point enough.

How do you get the most out of your meat?

Start slow. Hit them slowly and rhythmically, building up in intensity every few hits, and when they tense too much or start struggling to breathe or can't stop themselves from making too much noise, slow down again.

Your aim is to warm up the meat so that it can get used to the pain, and once it's used to the pain you can intensify it. Climb up, drop down, and climb back up again. Vary the strike location, but remember that locations you haven't hit as much will need warming up too. The more skilfully it's done, the more you'll get to hit it.

On the subject of their breathing, tension, and noises, you'll want to pay attention to these as you hit them. As you hit them, their breathing will try to get sharp and shallow. Their muscles will try to contract to harden against the impact, and they'll make noises as reactions to your hits. Encourage them to keep their breathing steady and calm, and they'll take the hits better. Encourage them to relax so that the impact dissipates into their flesh instead of getting caught in their tension and you can hit them harder while hurting them less. Listen for moans of pleasure if they're so inclined, and encourage them to verbalise their pain, intentionally responding to pain verbally will help them endure it. Let them calm themselves between your hits, and they'll feel like they can take it and let you push them harder.

Watch how they react, but be aware that you may need to soothe or goad them. Try different things: Hold your off-hand on their shoulder so that they can brace against you. Praise them for each hit you've delivered. Tell them they can take more for you. Tease them. Rub them while they catch their breath and tell them how happy you are with them for taking it. Be verbal, but don't expect responses unless they enjoy responding. Pay attention to what helps them calm.

Once you've got the hang of these things, you can begin to play with them and challenge them: forbid them from making noise. Blindfold them so that they can't prepare for the pain. Make them watch you hit them so that they can't help but tense up in response, and play with false swings to mess with their minds. You can be cruel, because you know how it works. You know which moving parts can be shifted, and which must stay still.

Consider also what your masochist wants from being hit: some do not want to be overwhelmed, they want to be guided and hit into a meditative place where they can dissolve into the pain: intense but never too much, and then you can hit them until they're bloody and raw. Others want their pain to push right up to the edge of too much and stay there until they break. They want to cry and scream, and your challenge is to see how cathartic you can make it: break them too quickly and they might not find it satisfying, and neither will you.

And afterwards, aftercare, and you can work out what that looks like with your masochist yourselves.

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My mouth will always be better than your hand

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(consumed with lust voice) omg what a fucking weirdo

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I need to slam a pretty thing into a wall, push them down to their knees and make them kiss my belt buckle before they undo it for me

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i'm sexually interested in whatever's wrong with you

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i wanna make a sadist worse...i want to make such cute noises and suffer so prettily that they can't help but want to hurt me more and more

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Is that a hard penis in your pants or is it something different than that? Also: do you hate me?

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I cannot even pretend to be normal about the level of intimacy I am craving right now

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'you can do anything you want to me' too early in a dynamic can be off-putting; a red flag, and potentially even dangerous

'you can do anything you want to me' because you haven't really figured out what you want yet isn't much better

'you can do anything you want to me' doesn't really give your domtop any ideas of what they could do

'you can do anything you want to me' because you don't really care what they do, because all you really want is their attention

but there's another side, once you get deep enough:

'you can do anything you want to me' because the truth is that you have so many kinks that it's unlikely you won't enjoy it

'you can do anything you want to me' because you trust them enough to let them do what they want to you, even if you don't like it, you know that you'll be fine

'you can do anything you want to me' because you've accepted fully that you belong to them, so the statement isn't giving them consent: it's simply stating a fact

'you can do anything you want to me' because you know it's blood in the water to some, and you've done the work not only to find out who, but carefully uncovered and developed their desires.

so what do you mean, when you say 'you can do anything you want to me'?

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i am here to tell you it really is true that you grow a prostate after a few years on t. keep fucking his gay ass

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do y'all remember when they found all that tf art in Osamu Tezuka's drawer post-mortem because I think about it often

anyway keep chasing your bliss and draw weird shit, god knows we need that right now

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testosterone is a beautiful drug that is turning your daughters into puppy fags

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Need a girl to tie me to the bed and make me watch her jerk off without letting me touch my tdick until I'm begging and crying. Yeah.

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put him on a LEASH and give him a DOG TOY to bite down on while you FUCK HIM!!!!

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