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Autistic people sometimes struggle with apologizing, because they're never taught how to do it the right way.

When autistic people are taught how to apologize, they're often taught that the sincerity of the apology is determined by how well they can hide their disability.

Not enough eye contact = insincere apology

Struggling to phrase it = insincere apology

Wrong tone = insincere apology

Asking questions to figure out how to prevent doing it again = insincere apology (and "arguing" or "making excuses")

Meanwhile, neurotypical people can continue their patterns while still being considered sincere by these standards.

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Here is a jellyfish made by me :)

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im 16 but i get this like the adults in my life r always so sad "you're in your prime!" NO!!! There is no such thing as a "prime", humans are constantly evolving, a sense of self is not meant to be solid! You should be ever changing, ever fluid, ever improving! Just because you're an adult doesn't mean you stop living!!!

hi, a lot of you need a perspective reset

the average human lifespan globally is 70+ years

taking the threshold of adulthood as 18, you are likely to spend at least 52 years as a fully grown adult

at the age of 30 you have lived less than one quarter of your adult life (12/52 years)

'middle age' is typically considered to be between 45-65

it is extremely common to switch careers, start new relationships, emigrate, go to college for the first or second time, or make other life-changing decisions in middle age

it's wild that I even have to spell it out, but older adults (60+) still have social lives and hobbies and interests.

you can still date when you get old. you can still fuck. you can still learn new skills, be fashionable, be competitive. you can still gossip, you can still travel, you can still read. you can still transition. you can still come out.

young doesn't mean peaked. you're inexperienced in your 20s! you're still learning and practicing! you're developing social skills and muscle memory that will last decades!

there are a million things to do in the world, and they don't vanish overnight because an imaginary number gets too big

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literally me this morning after watching the Monster 2023 movie omd

"im going dollmode" i say before collapsing limply into the chair and staring blankly into the distance with my mouth slightly agape, completely unresponsive

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I watched like 2 episodes of it 3 years ago and lwk forgot about it... after exams i'll have all the time in the world !!

I need the free! fandom to come back to life bcs I'm getting back into it, and I need people to yap to

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Lu Guang: My hands are cold. Cheng Xiaoshi: Here, let me hold them. Lu Guang: My lips are cold too. Cheng Xiaoshi: *covers Lu Guang's mouth with their hand*

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Aristotle, a student of Plato, was a prolific philosopher and scientist who made significant contributions to various fields. Here are some of his key ideas:

Metaphysics:

* Substance and Form: Aristotle believed that all things are composed of matter (hyle) and form (morphe). Form gives matter its specific nature and purpose.

* Four Causes: He identified four causes that explain the existence of things: material cause, formal cause, efficient cause, and final cause.

* The Unmoved Mover: Aristotle proposed the existence of an unmoved mover, a pure actuality that is the source of all motion and change in the universe.

Logic:

* Syllogistic Logic: Aristotle developed a system of deductive logic known as syllogistic logic, which involves making inferences based on premises.

* Categorical Propositions: He identified four types of categorical propositions: universal affirmative, universal negative, particular affirmative, and particular negative.

Ethics:

* Virtue Ethics: Aristotle emphasized the importance of virtue, which he defined as a mean between two extremes.

* Eudaimonia: He believed that the ultimate goal of human life is eudaimonia, often translated as "happiness" or "flourishing."

Politics:

* The Ideal State: Aristotle discussed the ideal state in his work "Politics." He favored a mixed constitution that combines elements of monarchy, aristocracy, and democracy.

* The Role of the Citizen: He believed that citizens should participate in the political life of their city-state.

Natural Philosophy (Science):

* Empirical Observation: Aristotle emphasized the importance of empirical observation and experimentation in understanding the natural world.

* Teleology: He believed that natural objects have inherent purposes or goals.

Aristotle's ideas have had a profound impact on Western thought and continue to be studied and debated today. His works have influenced philosophy, science, logic, ethics, and politics.

* https://de.scribd.com/presentation/161371609/Categorical-Syllogisms

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Marina Abramovič, “Balkan Baroque”, 1997 Biennale di Venezia

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trying to romanticise my trauma by thinking how sick the lore would be if i was an OC

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both.

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throwing up this is hauntingly beautiful

Loving someone like a playwright loves an actor. Like an author loves a character. Like an oracle loves a hero. You play the part so beautifully, my love, incredible in the way you fall into my plans and give me control, whether you mean to or not.

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i find myself resonating with this phrase a lot of the time

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THE TAGS 💀💀💀

Causing problems on purpose (◑_◑)

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Dealing With Executive Dysfunction - A Masterpost

The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.

The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.

The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.

The “get stuff done while you wait” method.

The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.

The “break the task into smaller steps” method.

The “treat yourself like a pet” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.

The “put on a persona” method.

The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.

The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.

The “wait for a trigger” method.

The “do it for your future self” method.

The “might as well” method.

The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.

The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.

The “make it easy” method.

The “junebugging” method.

The “just show up” method.

The “accept when you need help” method.

The “make it into a game” method.

The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.

The “trick yourself” method.

The “break it into even smaller steps” method.

The “let go of should” method.

The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.

The “fork theory” method.

The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.