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Could you share thoughts these synastry overlay? 😊

His Leo mars conjunct my ascendant in 1st house. His Gemini Lilith conjunct my venus in 10th house. His Taurus moon conjunct my Sun in my 10th house. His Sun and Saturn is in my 8th house. His These are the more potent overlay in our synastry. What does he think of me? Does he feel attractive and intimidated at the same time?

Hmmm okay. Let's see if I can make a good idea of this one

He's most likely attracted to you a lot, based on the fact that his mars conjuncts your asc.

His Lilith conjuncting your Venus can be another good aspect to imply that he's attracted to you, but at the same time you should keep a tiny look out for Lilith synastry. He most likely sees you as sultry, but there might come some tendencies of him projecting a tiny image on you. Be careful with who you're talking to about intimacy with him, as it might go public (10th house theme).

Someone's moon conjuncting another person's sun is in my opinion one of the cutest aspects for emotional understanding, and considering how this happens in the 10th house people might see you guys as a power couple in some instances.

I guess with both his sun and Saturn in your 8th house he feels magnetized but also intensively sewn to you. 8th house synastry is not lightly at all, especially with these two placements, so be careful in case he might become too fixated on you and maybe even possibly possessive

So in my personal opinion: he's most likely attracted, but less likely to be "intimidated" unless you noticed that with him

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What are some natal placements you wish you have?

Omg I love this question. Tbh I'm already quite pleased with what I got in my chart, but I kinda wished to have some more sagittarius placements besides my pluto and lilith. I'm ngl I would trade my current natal mars any day for a sagittarius mars

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Life if the astrology community paid more attention to the declination aspects (parallels/contra-parallels)

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Hii, I don't know if it's okay to ask many placements, but if it's okay for you, you can answer,, I don't want you to explain each placement , can you just overall tell me your opinion about this synastry since most of them are intense and I am quite worried

His nessus conjunct my asc, square my sun, his prey conjunct my venus, his Sado conjunct my mc, conjunct my sun all <0- 1° orb

His pluto trine my moon, Mars, square venus opp saturn..my Pluto square his sun, square his Mars, square his BML Lilith

My BML lilith conjucts his eros, Neptune, uranus, trine his moon, square his venus, Jupiter, conjucts his Mars, sextile his sun, Mercury

His asteroid Lilith conjunct my acs, square my moon, square my mars

His Neptune Uranus opp my Mars, moon , square my venus..his Mars conjunct my moon, his Mars in my 8th house, his nessus and Pluto in my 1st house

All these are in prominent orbs<3-5°.

If it's too much you need not answer but if its okay for you, you can just give your overall opinion on what you think about this.

Phew okay. I'll try my best to give an overall opinion over this whole synastry map you have given me while trying my best to give some insight and make things sound less fatalistic.

The Lilith synastry you guys got going on alongside the Neptune and Uranus aspects you have given me shows me he doesn't see you as your own person. He might paint an image of you in his head, but if he's immature he might not be able to comprehend the fact that you're nonetheless a different person than what he imagines. Those Pluto trines you have told me may give you the feeling that this relationship is transformative "in the good way", but it may lack balance based on the other Pluto contacts you have given me. You might also steer his psyche and brain a lot, and it might not sit well with him at all. I also have a hitch that some people think that he's not good for you, tho this is for now a simple hitch of mine and not a confirmation, so take this with a grain of salt.

And also what I've said on another post: watch out for power imbalances or power struggles within the relationship

If your intuition ever warns you about him or something he does, then you should most likely listen to it.

Hopefully I didn't make it sound too bashful and "fatalistic", do I gotta admit that this is indeed very intensive, but not necessarily in the good way

Also sorry if it's short or the text is not very comprehensible

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Life if the astrology community paid more attention to the declination aspects (parallels/contra-parallels)

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Could you offer some insight on retrograde venus conjunct north node in synastry in 5H?? This has been bugging me a LOT

Idk if you meant that one person's north node or Venus rx falls into the other person's 5th house or not, so I'll try my best to give an interpretation based on what I understood. If this is not the correct overlay, feel free to correct me

The Venus retrograde person might struggle to express themselves clearly in relationships and might also struggle with self-love a little bit tbh, but here is where this synastry aspect comes into the picture:

The conjunction to the north node shows how both of you met each other in this life to learn a new perspective in love and to also learn self-love to an extent during the relationship. I also feel like this 5th house overlay mends really well in this case, because the 5th house governs over self-expression, playfulness and romance — which could help the venus rx person to learn how to express themselves better in romantic relationships and take things a little lightly so they don't get completely stuck in their head

if the synastry chart shows other harmonious aspects that imply emotional and romantic compatibility, this overlay you have given me could possibly show a healing experience for the Venus retrograde person

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Synastry ask here, Pluto related. What are your thoughts on his Pluto opposite my Venus, Mars and South Node, and conjuct my Moon and North Node in my 8th house?

What you described to me has intensity and transformation written in bold capital letters

With his Pluto opposing your mars and venus there's a lot of chemistry and intensity throughout the relationship, especially in intimacy. Tho because this is a harsh aspect, he might feel glued to you in a way. Obviously I'm not saying this in an edgy way, it's not like that, but I'm saying this in a way to watch out in case he (or maybe even you) relies too much on his partner for his mental/emotional wellbeing. Plutonian synastry can really bound people to the point where they forget to take care of themselves if the partners don't take care of this theme

With his Pluto cojuncting your moon and north node + his north node in your 8th house it shows me he is a karmic partner. Now, please don't panic because you've heard this — basically every relationship is karmic. Whether it's a "good" type of karmic or "bad" type of karmic depends on how you two treat yourselves and this relationship. Back to what I was saying, with his Pluto conjuncting your moon it makes me think that he really touches your core emotions, like he can touch your soul. That can be deeply emotionally intimate, but conjunctions can also bring some harshness sometimes, especially paired with a malefic like pluto. Please watch out in case you feel overwhelmed or emotionally burned out. Now his pluto cojuncting your north node further highlight how he's a karmic partner, and you guys most likely have some karmic lessons to overcome during the duration of the relationship. He came in your life to transform you and teach you rebirth, even if that transformation might be uncomfortable for you. He's nonetheless a growth catalyst for you even if the relationship does or doesn't work out. And at last the north node in the 8th house just further highlights the whole theme of intensity and karmic growth I've told you about (I don't know if you meant that his north node falls into your 8th house, your north node falls into his 8th house, or his Pluto conjuncts your natal north node in 8th house, sorry)

And another important thing I've saved for the end:

Please watch out for power struggles/a power play dynamic within the relationship. Make sure you identify it from the start in case it might happen

Sorry if this is not coherent, I just freshly woke up 😭

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Hot take but why are SOME traditional astrologists so eager to bash on specific theories that are very clearly made for the modern astrology system. "Well I don't use X theory cause it doesn't make sense", "well I don't use Y theory" okay? You want a cookie? Obviously I'm not saying that you're forced to integrate a theory into your readings if you don't feel like it. You can read charts however you want with or without any theories, but at the same time I think you can try to read the room and realize that those theories are not made for the astrology system you use

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Astro observations are so funny cause you can tell when certain "notes" are just vent sessions about specific people with random placements slapped on the title.

You didn't "observe" anything, you're just mad at a specific Scorpio Venus.

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❦♡❦♡ Astrology Observations ❦♡❦♡

❥Dominant un-evolved Libra/7th house placements prioritize romantic partners over platonic relationships. The amount of depth or care that they allow themselves to feel is curated for their partner, and no matter how much consideration or care you show them, the amount of depth they will allow in from you is limited.

❥For Aquarius Moons (or dominant Aquarians) the root of many long-term struggles lies in how they respond to discomfort—by default, they tend to avoid it, which only delays growth and resolution.

❥1st House Chiron (maybe Pluto depending on other factors in the chart) can create the native to have deep self worth issues around their self image. They could lack confidence and there's often times dilemmas on how they "should" act or "should" look based on how others treated them.

❥If the native's Sun has little to no aspects in their birth chart, the chance that their Father is either emotionally or physically absent is likely, especially if the Sun is in the 7th, 10th or 12th house.

❥Nessus (the asteroid) aspecting the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or the Ascendant indicates the native has dealt with deep abuse with the people they are closest with in their life. This abuse has fundamentally shaped them to become the person they are today.

Sun

Abuse from the father or dominant parental figure

Ego wounds; struggles with self-confidence and identity

Difficulty asserting autonomy; fear of being alone or independent

Potential for codependent behavior rooted in early validation issues

Moon

Abuse from the mother or maternal figure

Emotional manipulation, neglect, or inconsistency

Victim mindset or emotional enmeshment is common (your mother may have shown those traits early on in your life)

May struggle with emotional regulation and safety

Mercury

Abuse from siblings or through verbal communication

Childhood pain transferred into sibling dynamics

Parental abuse may distort thought processes or communication patterns

Mental overstimulation or inner criticism may stem from early verbal harm

Mars

Physical abuse or exposure to violence

Aggression as a learned coping mechanism

Impulsive, reactive behavior tied to unresolved rage from upbringing

Prone to conflict or projecting anger when triggered emotionally

Venus

Abuse from romantic partners or through love and affection

Tendency to seek self-worth through others

Attracting unhealthy relationships due to unhealed abandonment wounds

Love becomes a battlefield for reenacting early trauma

Ascendant

Abuse tied to early childhood and identity formation

The trauma is deeply embedded in how one shows up in the world, the abuse feels foundational, like it shaped your core self

Can manifest as self-protection, masking, or people-pleasing

Deep-rooted need to protect yourself; hyper-awareness of how others perceive you

Can result in either shrinking away from attention or overcompensating through control

❥Air and Fire dominant natives become bored with romantic connections quite quickly when there's no mental stimulation or attraction. Fire Venus/Asc/Mars will stick it out for the most part if there's genuine physical attraction. However Air dominant natives especially Venus/Asc/Mars will likely leave a connection if there's not enough conversation or playfulness involved.

❥Neptune conjunct Descendant can indicate a tendency to be deceived by romantic partners. They may choose partners who withhold a part of themselves, or they have 'rose colored glasses' towards individuals who are not healthy minded. They may see the red flags but ultimately chooses to ignore or give them the benefit of the doubt and forgive very easily. Especially if Neptune makes harsh aspects to the Sun, Moon, Venus or Mars.

❥Mars + Uranus + Pluto in the 5th House can indicate a tendency to form a gambling addiction. It also can showcase an intense need for outside fun, stimulation or adrenaline.

❥A native with an 11th house in Scorpio may experience pain or hardship when forming friendships or when it comes to finding a sense of community—especially if the Moon, Chiron, Saturn, or Pluto is present. The friendships they attract often bring intense lessons around self-worth and self-love. Compared to others, they may find it more difficult to build and maintain friendships, and might also rely more heavily on their friends for emotional support or validation.

❥Scorpio/8th house Moon individuals can have a harsh and emotional distant relationship with their Mother. Either the mother was emotionally abusive, narcissistic, absent or cold (depending on the sign). As the native matures, their relationship with the mother may improve. However, in early childhood, the native likely experienced emotional absence or instability from her.

❥Aries/6th House placements prioritize the gym more than other placements. Routine and a consistent workout schedule mentally calms their mind. They feel their best when they are at the gym, or when they are doing physical self care, such as facials, yoga, pilates, cardio, practicing a fixed diet, and so fourth.

❥5th/10th/11th House Moon, Venus, Sun, Mercury, Libra/Pisces placements are naturally in the Universes favor when it comes to gaining fame online or being noted for their beauty. Their appearance is favored on camera and the chances of gaining popularity online is very likely. They also may have incredibly soft skin and are blessed with facial genetics.

❥12th House placements especially Chiron, Venus, and Lilith often attract unwarranted animosity or jealousy from others. These individuals frequently become targets of projection and are blamed for actions they haven’t committed. They either speak up and are punished for it, or stay silent and are misunderstood. Others often driven by insecurity—construct false narratives about who they are.

As a woman, other girls may misconstrue your character, often withholding trust or projecting unwarranted animosity—especially if they feel you threaten their relationship with a partner or romantic interest. Their insecurities cast you as the villain, leading to you being reprimanded for actions you never took. They might label your behavior as “fake” or inauthentic, causing you to question yourself. Even if you know deep down that these narratives are false, the consistency of these experiences can make you wonder if there’s any truth to their accusations. Constant gossip could occur where these girls talk behind your back and nothing is every stated to your face, if you were to ask where their animosity stems from they will say "Just because."

Insecure boys may treat you poorly as a reflection of their own inner wounds. They might desire you but resent the fact that they can’t have you, which leads them to act cold, dismissive, or rude. Some may react with anger or irritation to your natural behavior simply because you don’t reciprocate their interest. On the opposite end of the spectrum, others may idealize you—seeing you as an “angel” or someone who can do no wrong. If there are aspects of you that remain a mystery, or if little is known about you publicly, they may fill in the blanks with fantasies or projections. You could be deeply admired without even knowing it. Groups of boys may talk about you behind your back, viewing you as a prize or someone unattainably special, yet never expressing these feelings to your face.

❥12th house Stellium vs 5th house Stellium: Both can do the same action, say the same comment and do the same exact thing; however the 5th house native will receive grace and prolonged consideration for their action while the 12th house native will experience backlash, gossip, and repercussions.

❥Moon/Venus opposite Uranus natives oftentimes struggle with consist relationships or monogamy. They may be drawn to polyamorous relationships or place romantic connections at the bottom of their priority list (especially if they are an avoidant or struggle with emotional vulnerability/intimacy). They may desire a partner in one moment then become completely disinterested in the next. This has to do with the fact that their Mother was often erratic or irrational when it came to the natives needs. One moment the mother was emotionally/physically present, and in the next completely fixated on their own needs and desires. So now, consistency forms as red flags and can even create boredom for the native. They may always be on the go or prefer to change scenery. Stagnation creates uncomfortability especially if they have 9th house placements.

❥8th house/Pluto synastry — especially when you carry deep wounds around self-worth, love, value, and abandonment — can feel very similar to the peace people describe during near-death experiences.

When someone’s Pluto touches your personal planets or activates your 8th house, the feeling isn’t just healing — it’s otherworldly. There's suddenly no more abandonment wounds, no more aching past; the deeper your wound, the more powerful their presence will feel.

8th house/Pluto synastry mirrors this freeing frequency, and it's the one your soul knows intimately, the one your consciousness is most familiar with and that's why this person will feel like "home."

❥12th House Venus natives often hold onto the ‘what ifs’ of a connection because the lingering longing creates an illusion of love. This longing allows them to feel as if the person once chose them, and they cling to that imagined moment for comfort. Longing becomes familiar—safe—because, deep down, they know it’s someone they likely can’t have. In truth, these natives often fear real, reciprocal emotional intimacy. They would rather idealize a connection from afar than face the vulnerability of having one.

❥A Leo Moon/Venus combined with a Virgo Sun and Rising can create a complex relationship with praise and recognition.

The native may crave validation and admiration to feel emotionally secure, yet struggle to truly receive it. Deep down, they long to be seen — not just for what they do, but for who they are. Still, Virgo’s influence brings a strong inner critic and a constant push for perfection. As a result, even when recognition is given, they may feel undeserving, leading to imposter syndrome. The tension between their need for appreciation and their fear of falling short can make it hard to embrace success without self-doubt.

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(anon) questions are open now. I'm ngl I forgot they exist 😭

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I don’t know if this might be controversial, but people who think their tropical chart magically changes in the sidereal system are kinda goofy. "Omg I’m a Virgo Moon in tropical, but my Leo Moon in sidereal is so much more relatable" okay so here’s the deal: Sidereal is an ancient form of astrology. Ancient astrology describes zodiac signs differently than how we understand them today. For example: Leo in ancient astrology is described using traits that align with modern Virgo.

To sum it up: Sidereal Leo ≈ Tropical Virgo. Same archetype, different language.

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"Asteroids are irreleva-"

Like I agree that some asteroids can just give a bunch of details about something a planet in your chart already shows instead of any new insight, but they're certainly not irrelevant 😭💀

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۶ৎ the eastern united states heatwave ۶ৎ

please be so safe. this the type of heat that kill folk. many homeless people, stray animals, and elderly or disabled people may die from these record temperatures and high humidity. stay inside. keep an ice pack readily available. and if u can, please share ur resources to animals & people. it remedies saturn 🪐

here’s today’s chart!

♡⃘𓈒 there is a saturn - neptune conjunction in aries

when saturn and neptune come into contact through any major aspect, expect weather to become unstable, especially due to neptune telling us of atmospheric conditions. saturn causes drought, deserts, lack of moisture, whereas neptune is foggy and wet.

in the late 1930s, a saturn-neptune opposition in pisces and virgo respectively birthed the great dust bowl

in the early 1950s, a saturn-neptune conjunction in libra birthed the 50s texas droughts

saturn restricts or lessen, and neptune is water itself - so this can be interpreted as saturn restricting neptune’s expression. and with both being in aries, it’s hot hot hot!

the dryness of the earth (saturn falls in aries) and the evaporation of moisture into the air (neptune in aries) works as a heavy blanket, keeping the heat trapped in. wet heat much more of a killer than dry because with dry heat, our body’s naturally cooling function (aka sweating) works through evaporation. when the air is already moist, however, ur sweat doesn’t evaporate. so it just adds more heat - the reason why this heat is much more wet compared to the other transits i listed is due to neptune in aries basically working like a sauna

we must consider, the sun exalts in aries for a reason

♡⃘𓈒 the sun in cancer is conjunct jupiter in cancer (they’ll be exact in like two days, so that day might be extremely hot!)

y’all might be thinking, “cancer? ain’t that a water sign, ruled by the planet responsible for moving waters?” lol yes it is, but currently, the sun is at its highest point. this is the solstice!

so lemme riddle y’all this: did y’all know that the ancient hellenistics considered the first house to have association with the moon and cancer? yes, this is in thema mundi! now lemme riddle y’all another question. . what’s the highest house in the chart? . . the tenth! and what’s cancer’s tenth house? . . aries. and where does the sun exalt? aries. so do y’all see the connection between cancer, summer, and heat? the tenth house (highest visibility) of cancer season is the exalt of the sun

yes, cancer itself is a cool, refreshing sign. it’s like sipping ice cold lemonade poolside on a hot day. but don’t forget that jume 21st marks the day that summer officially begins. the longest day of the year begins with a cancer sun, and that’s because the sun shines brightly in aries in the tenth house. whereas sun’s sign of fall (libra) marks the beginning of . . well . . fall! and it’s at the lowest point of the chart, coincidentally :3

so taking that all into consideration, the fact that the planet of heat and expansion is now at solstice and making contact with an exalted jupiter in cancer? quite literally a heatwave. as both the sun and jupiter represent heat by being diurnal fiery planets, cancer/the moon represent waves and controlling of the tides. jupiter expands on the sun’s heat, and vice versa

now does this mean every sun-jupiter conjunction results in a heatwave? no. but the relationship between these planets and the sign they’re in? absolutely. and naturally, expect it to be hot well into leo season once jupiter lets go of its exalt and the sun takes ahold of its domicile. stay safe guys!

♡⃘𓈒 some other things i noticed . . . 👁️

uranus in taurus is still square mars, who just entered virgo from leo. uranus simply causes instability and mars results in heat, so we can expect these two to continue making things hot for a little while

the sun-jupiter conjunction is square the neptune-saturn conjunction. so … not helping. in derivatives, if we look at the sun as the first house, the sun-jupiter conjunction is in the first house and the saturn-neptune is in the tenth house. so again, not . helping . 🥲

maybe heat will begin to let up significantly once mars in virgo conj the south node in virgo, that’ll approximately be in a month

so just . . stay safe y’all. try to stay inside. keep ur animals INSIDE, i bet not see nobody even THINK about putting a leash on their dogs. the climate is changing too quickly for most life forms to truly be able to adapt. put ur domestic house cats indoors, idgaf how much they yowl! they ass wasn’t even pose to be out there anyway!

i don’t wanna see no sad stories about “i wish i knew sooner that you weren’t supposed to walk dogs in extreme heat” or something. and keep your pets’ double coats! that means ur poms, ur huskies, etc. it helps them regulate temperature, just don’t let them go outside when it’s too hot: no sidewalk or asphalt if it’s about 75° F, no grass when it’s above 80° F. and give lots of water or ice blocks to lick!

anyways, i need to lay down. it’s 90° F in the house rn 🥲

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It's such an interesting contrast seeing plutonian people agree with my posts and saying how relatable they are, while some non-plutonian people say the dumbest shit I've ever heard and they end up proving my points

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𓂃 ♡⸝⸝ 𝒜𝐵𝒪𝒰𝒯𝒜𝒮𝒯𝑅𝒪𝒞𝒜𝑅𝒯𝒪𝒢𝑅𝒜𝒫𝐻𝒴

nothing astrologically is a one - size - fits - all, and i’m seeing a rise in popularity with astrocartography in particular. people saying shit like, “move to your venus line! you will find love!” or “move to your jupiter line, you will get money!” and to me, it just is the consequence of astrology falling in the wrong hands

so first of all, if anybody ever directs that you go to chatGPT for astrological advisory, they steering you wrong and they not to be trusted with your chart, lol. like it’s the blind leading the blind. period. a self - respecting astrologer will tell you to do the work yourself or will refer you a reputable reader who can offer you an astrocartography reading

second of all, folk saying astrocartography because they know y’all looking for a solution. but nothing in astrology is a quick fix. there is no magical placement in your chart that just takes away all of the hurt out of existence. you will never be able to find anything in your chart that exempts you from grief, pain, loss, or hardship because these are a part of the human experience

lastly, there is no placement that is all good. there is no placement that is all bad. each placement simply identifies a pattern unique to you and your life

so don’t let somebody tell you to just move to a line bc the planet is benefic, because how does that planet behave in your chart? maybe they having so much luck on their venus line because they have a first house venus trine a fifth house jupiter, with venus in pisces and jupiter in cancer. y’all see what i’m saying? now if your ass got a twelfth house venus in scorpio conjunct pluto in scorpio placement . . you are not going to have the same experience living on your venus line

further more, moving cities or states or even countries cannot distance you from your karma. moving can alter some of your karmic experiences . . but your karma is your karma, baby. all that moving does nothing if you don’t address the root of the problem. and that is a life - long mission because we are constantly making karma

so don’t look to astrology for a quick fix. you not gon get it. if you want a quick fix, perhaps try mormonism

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GOOD MORNINGGGG to my ethereal, smart, hard working, lovable, educated, cunty, talented plutonian people. The rest of y'all....good morning I guess /hj