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internet safety we were taught as kids: don't share ANY personal information with ANYONE EVER the british government: you don't want to give these random third parties your photo or driving licence showing your name, birthday, address and signature? are you perhaps a nonce?
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i dislike discussion about passing because they seem to ignore that the majority of mankind cares about passing, it's just that cis people can do it with no effort. i promise you if a cis person lost their ability to pass effortlessly they would also start caring about passing
similarly a cis person doesn't see hormones as essential because they take them for granted. if their body not only suddenly stopped producing hormones, but started producing the ones associated with a gender that they don't want to be, they would think of hormones a essential
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love and loathing in the holiday house
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Gonna be so real if a 12 year old traced my art and put it on their school binder I would be so fucking honored
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curious brothers as disco elysium portraits
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grabbing you by the shoulders and squeezing until i hear a noise. there's nothing inherently more queer about being coercively assigned female at birth. why do you dumb fucking dicks position coercive male assignment as inherently more regressive. why is your example of the straightest possible person always a man. why is your example of someone "claiming a niche microlabel to seem queer" always camab. i'll kill you
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Some reptiles shed their outer layer in one full piece.
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like i'm sorry to post so many times in a row but i really can't get over how fucking Bad things are if you leave a progressive bubble. like things aren't even good inside the bubble but you step outside of it for half a second and you get blasted in the face with "i think all fat women should be shot because i don't think they're sexy"
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“do you know where you’ll be headed in 5 years?” no. but i do know about themes and motifs. and friendship. and putting garlic on everything
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the idea that all parties involved in a sexual act should want to be there is still seen as ridiculous to a not insignificant number of people. most of those people see anything other than heterosexual missionary as sexually deviant. it's so fucking bad out there man
not adding this to the other post because it's really just a tangent but recently reddit keeps recommending me posts from a subreddit for people in "sexless marriages" and every single one is just men talking about how their evil evil wives won't fuck them and circlejerking over how it's basically abuse to say no to your spouse too often. one guy said he threatened to divorce his wife (who he described as showing really blatant symptoms of both depression and menopause based on the ages given) if she didn't lose weight and was just shocked that she proceeded to get even more depressed. and all the comments are like you should really just divorce the frigid bitch. and then they go on about how men need physical affection more than women and it's just not faaaair when really the only thing i think men need based on what i've seen is a big rock to the skull.
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a few months ago i was writing a paper about a play centered around domestic abuse written like 100+ years ago and i was like i'll toss in some facts about when certain forms of domestic abuse were legally recognized and like. idk it's kinda embarrassing that i only found this out recently but did you know marital rape wasn't even illegal in every us state until the fucking 90s. and that a bunch of states still give more lenient sentences to rapists who're married to their victims. and none of this should've surprised me because i grew up in a church where girls as young as 10 were told that their job would be to sexually satisfy their husbands regardless of if they wanted to or not.
it's easy i think if you're surrounded by feminists and generally more progressive folks to forget just how fucking bad it is out there but it is. it is really bad.
not adding this to the other post because it's really just a tangent but recently reddit keeps recommending me posts from a subreddit for people in "sexless marriages" and every single one is just men talking about how their evil evil wives won't fuck them and circlejerking over how it's basically abuse to say no to your spouse too often. one guy said he threatened to divorce his wife (who he described as showing really blatant symptoms of both depression and menopause based on the ages given) if she didn't lose weight and was just shocked that she proceeded to get even more depressed. and all the comments are like you should really just divorce the frigid bitch. and then they go on about how men need physical affection more than women and it's just not faaaair when really the only thing i think men need based on what i've seen is a big rock to the skull.
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not adding this to the other post because it's really just a tangent but recently reddit keeps recommending me posts from a subreddit for people in "sexless marriages" and every single one is just men talking about how their evil evil wives won't fuck them and circlejerking over how it's basically abuse to say no to your spouse too often. one guy said he threatened to divorce his wife (who he described as showing really blatant symptoms of both depression and menopause based on the ages given) if she didn't lose weight and was just shocked that she proceeded to get even more depressed. and all the comments are like you should really just divorce the frigid bitch. and then they go on about how men need physical affection more than women and it's just not faaaair when really the only thing i think men need based on what i've seen is a big rock to the skull.
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most people's understanding of consent isn't great because most people don't really think about the concept all that much
by and large kinksters are the ones taking consent seriously while the average person having the most vanilla sex in the world is as we speak threatening to divorce his wife if she doesn't fuck him on demand
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by and large kinksters are the ones taking consent seriously while the average person having the most vanilla sex in the world is as we speak threatening to divorce his wife if she doesn't fuck him on demand
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