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"Few tasks are more like the torture of Sisyphus than housework, with its endless repetition: the clean becomes soiled, the soiled is made clean, over and over, day after day. The housewife wears herself out marking time: she makes nothing, simply perpetuates the present (...) Eating, sleeping, cleaning – the years no longer rise up towards heaven, they lie spread out ahead, gray and identical. The battle against dust and dirt is never won."

— Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex

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It's interesting to see that artificial intelligence has only become a scary concept to people (especially men) upon realizing that they could be targetted, while there is a digital war on women going on that enables anyone in their vicinity to create degrading media of them despite their personal and legal efforts to prevent it from happening. The first idea that came to men's minds was to abuse this technology and invade women's privacy in order to mute their voices and bully them out of public discourse but it wasn't considered a dystopian tool of evil until it became a real fear to men.

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and i think the fact that many people worry about what men would do if prostitution didnt exist - which many fear would be to focus their violent sexual energy on „innocent“ women and other vulnerable groups - tells you everything you need to know about prostitution. some women are forced or groomed into „sacrificing“ themselves so mens insatiable thirst for domination and degradation and their unshakable feeling of entitlement to the female body can be served, and that is the root all prostitution stems from. no matter how much liberals scream and sob about potential empowerment and „choice“.

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do u think drag queens are evil or something. whats ur opinion on them. lh

I used to watch RPDG when I was a liberal feminist so I know what I'm talking about. I think that drag queens are cringy misogynists. They view women exactly as incels: shallow and vain creatures with grotesque body traits&body functions (oversize boobs and vulva lips, shooting cream out of nipples, fishy vagina smell) who only think about gossip, cocks and shopping/fashion. And just like incels, they love to insult women and our bodies:cunt, bitch, slut, etc. How exactly is misogyny subversive?

How is this different from tiktok misogynists impersonating women to make fun of us? How is this different from how incels view women? Even super homophobic/transphobic countries like Russia allow males to act like they're women on national TV if it's to make fun of us (the popularity of Verka Serduchka and similar acts show this).

Drag queens are particularly misogynist and racist towards African American women : stealing some words and phrases from AAVE, parodying black women specifically by using exaggerated versions of makeup and style that were trendier among black women, even when the DQ doing it is white. Bell hooks wrote a bit about parodying black women in "ain't I a woman". I saw white transactivists and libfems claiming that certain words are "for queers only" when said words were actually appropriated by DQ from black women... I'm sure black radfems can expand on this more.

And I find it curious that drag QUEENS only parody and exaggerate *female* bodies and functions. Why don't they joke about transwomen leaking pus and shit post surgery? Or producing foul smelling smegma? Or dilating holes covered in hair because it's made from an inverted penis? Do they not consider transwomen women and therefore worthy of mocking? 🤔

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I sometimes think about men have almost the same rights, body autonomy, freedom in every country while for women life looks so different from country to country or at least from region to region.

In some countries you're forced to cover your head, in others you're prohibited from covering your head and in other countries you can wear/not wear what you want. You can have an abortion in that country but not this one. You can get education, degrees and have paying jobs in most countries but not in others. You can go to a doctor if you need to but there you can't because women aren't allowed to become doctors and women aren't allowed to see a male doctor..

I sometimes think about how shitty the country i live in is but then i think well at least i can get an education and go to a doctor.. i shouldn't have to be grateful for those things..

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"The Invisible Men" are in every corner. Women truly are so unaware of the kind of degenerates they are surrounded by. This could be some family member, a friend of yours, the decent colleague at work and any one of the men that you see on public transport from time to time. They don't have the guts to reveal their real faces to the public because while they're acting entitled and unfazed, they know their crime. And yet in their circles, there's no denunciation. Perpetrators and their enablers sit in the same mud pit but they scrub each other clean and women have to spend all their lives giving these men the benefit of the doubt as they aren't given the chance to discover who it is that they're talking to. It's innocent until proven guilty with every last bit of evidence being wiped away. The imposition is to be kind when not one of them deserves an ounce of empathy or respect. Indeed, there may be less than a handful of men who do. The majority claims the moral high ground but they're cut from the same fabric. One dares to execute what the other dreams of. There's no space for a woman in the heart of a man that can never see and only look at one.

i hope this man dies, the fact that he basically talked about raping her and taking advantage of a woman in her early 20s when shes desperately in need of money to survive & then acts confused as to why she would cry ??? die die die

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One thing that never fails to disappoint me is the way in which women idolize the men in their life against all odds. Wives and their husbands, mothers and their sons, women and their friends - each one of them vouches for these men and tears any woman apart who dares to point out the very obvious flaws in them. "My husband is a good person!" and "My son can do no harm!" are wailed like prayers when they lastly have to face the repercussions for their unending trust. These women go out of their way to disbelieve the victims of the terrible men that they worship and defend them even if it means they'll have to cut their own flesh. At the very best, these men will abandon them and at the very worst, these women are on the receiving end of their tantrums. When they are cheated on, their anger isn't directed toward the man whose duty it is to stay loyal and truthful, but the strange woman who does not owe her anything to begin with. It may be the highest form of betrayal and women don't seem to ever learn from it. Prioritize the women in your life. Don't let your selfless love for a man disable you from seeing him as the person he actually is. It is time for women to hold out a hand for one another instead of leaving each other to drown.

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like idk. complain to me about shit talking men when women treat men like property for 6,000 years straight and destroy their history and don't allow them to own property or vote or be paid for their work or own a bank account or be seen as a human being and create religions that billions follow based on oppressing men in the name of a female god and make them indentured slaves to women and rape them so much that all men fear it and objectify them and have every movie, song, picture have a naked degraded man in it in a sexual pose and make boys want to look like that to please women and turn them into breeding cattle and sex objects and build their oppression ingrained into the foundation of society and treat women getting off as more important than every man's life and dignity and degrade them to the point that they degrade themselves in hopes of impressing women and treat themselves as commodities and then view that as empowering and act like neurotic prey animals and convince them they have to beg for respect and internalize that shit so you don't even have to work to oppress them anymore because you've exhausted and debased their fathers and they're taught that they're less than since birth because they are men and the system repeats and repeats and repeats to the point it's seen as natural

and that's like barely half of what men have done to women

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the constant "wrong side of history" bs towards radfems is so fascinating to me. the idea that i am acting as i am now in hopes of appearing in a "good light" later on in history. as if there aren't women, to this day, who are still seen in a bad light despite their actions. that somehow i'm more involved with the future than the women here with me now. i don't need to look good for the future, i need to be strong for the women now.

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Read the whole thing!!!!

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Its so true, Dworkin and Mackinnon predicted everything about this current era. Porn has become sex now; teenage girls being bullied into anal and getting choked by boys and coerced into sending nudes at an age typically understood as one of “exploration”—now porn defines sex and sexuality; and Gail Dines and many others have talked about the deeply deadening effect of porn on empathy and the ability to recognize women as people. Porn crept ever further into the mainstream and it has totally saturated our culture, from the ‘arts’—not just streaming/TV or Lars Von Trier films, but I’m thinking of stuff as small as frames of comic books traced from porn, art distributed online traced from porn—to the personal intimate lives of human beings, women being choked, spat on, beaten—then again, even back in the 80s, men were using porn to abuse women, and the most widely available stuff was still not as vile as the porn you can find with a 2sec Google search from any phone or computer today. Deepfake porn turns all women existing in public into potential victims of violent and degrading misogynist fetishism and sexuality. OF and its ilk makes it possible for any woman to monetize herself in the form of porn and in a time of increasing economic instability, inflation, high food and gas prices, the upcoming potential loss of health insurance for millions, I’m sure it’s more appealing than ever. Porn terminology is everywhere, “MILF,” “ebony,” etc. And all of this is done under the guise of sexual liberation and free speech, and to argue against it is seen as puritanical, condescending at best, hateful, antifeminist, “SWERF”/“TERF”-y at worst. It is a demonstrated fact of the research done into porn that it shuts off vital abilities to connect with women as human beings, to empathize with women and to reject violence against us; that porn usage conditions the user into seeking out ever more intense, bizarre, violent content to use in order to achieve the same pleasure and orgasm that “vanilla” content used to do for them. What must it be doing to all of us, collectively, to have porn on every level of our culture now? What is it doing to the position of women in our society, already half citizens at best, earning significantly less than men, with our bodily autonomy stripped away in many states, being denied life-saving procedures and medications—not just mifepristone etc but even things like lupus medication and anti-inflammatories that may potentially affect us and our bodies if we chose at some point to maybe get pregnant—even being arrested for drinking or taking drugs while decidedly not pregnant because it could affect a potential fetus at some point? Are we not degraded objects already? What does it mean for us to be reduced to “cumsocks” and pornographic objects on top of all this? How deeply destructive is this society, how much further will it go to enforce the category of woman as hole, woman as receptacle, woman as vessel, woman as meat?

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a TRA talking point about "cis privilege" that drives me absolutely insane is the idea that "cis" women (ie. adult human females), who "ID with the gender that aligns with their birth sex, have never had to think critically about their identity as women and take their womanhood for granted, while trans women, who do not have the same privilege, have had to critically think about and dissect their identity as women, and therefore understand the nuances and complexities of womanhood more intimately than cis women ever will."

it's just completely nonsensical, for multiple reasons.

firstly, the idea that trans women appreciate and understand their "womanhood" more intimately than "cis" women ever will is downright laughable when you realize that gender ideology is built upon a post-modern faith-based spiritual belief that identifying as something actually does indeed make you that thing. like by that logic, Rachel Delezol, who identifies as a black woman even though she's ethnically caucasian, understands and appreciates her identity as a black woman more than actual black women because she wasn't granted with "race privilege," despite being born as a white woman (this is also a funny parallel to how statistically, most "trans women" are white, heterosexual males; people who by all accounts are born with the epitome of privilege).

that besides, how can trans-identified males understand womanhood more than actual women, when they've never and will never know what it's like to be a woman (ie. adult human female), and all of the stages of development and embodiment that entails, from birth all the way until death? how does a trans-identified male appreciate his "womanhood" more than an actual woman, when, when asked how he knew he was even a woman in the first place, can only come up with sexist, regressive stereotypes that align with the fake, man-made, misogynistic version of womanhood we call "femininity"?

secondly, the insane idea that "cis" women haven't had to critically dissect or think about our "gender identity" and therefore don't appreciate or understand womanhood like trans women do is such a blatant form of gaslighting and rewriting of base reality.

the reality is, actual women do not "identify" as women. your first mistake was believing that we all buy into the dissociative, disembodied concept of "gender identity." your second mistake was believing that being a woman means being content with the sexist, regressive, misogynistic gender roles that have been placed on the female sex in the form of femininity. what makes women women is not identifying with harmful, patriarchal stereotypes of gender; it's being female. women don't "identify" as women any more than people identify as blonde or brunette, 5'2 or 5'6, far-sighted or near-sighted, etc. you either ARE those things or you aren't. you either ARE an adult human female or you're not. your body is EITHER oriented around producing large, immobile gametes (despite the lack or ability of proper functionality) or it's not. you either ARE a woman or you're not. we do not use the term 'woman' as a form of gender self-identification. we use it as a form of class identification and categorization to describe the material differences in humans based on biological sex. that's literally it.

women don't need to "appreciate" or "critically dissect" our existence as women to be women, because we simply ARE. end of.

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its so dumb when you come across a gender haver who is like “yes gender abolition is the eventual goal but unfortunately I’m living in Current Times where gender is still important and i’m just doing what i need to do to make it through my life which is why im he/they/xe/bug/it.” like….thats such a weak argument. this isnt like you being forced to partake in capitaliism to keep a roof over your head…(also you are not a gnc person feeling pressured to be gender conforming for safety reasons). you can literally just take a small step in your personal life and stop applying meaningless labels to yourself. you can just acknowledge your sex and move forward. you can acknowledge that your personality is your personality. the power is in your hands. you say its a good idea but refuse to put it into practice because its “too hard.” why is it hard. just say you love gender. you love labeling things and creating more boxes. you love throwing women under the bus. stop pretending you want to abolish anything

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isn't it so much fun how people say "feminism should focus on solving racism and homophobia and transphobia and ableism and classism because patriarchy won't end until all these other issues are solved" all the time but absolutely no one ever says any other movement should try to solve misogyny. almost like it isn't about ending patriarchy at all and is actually a strategy to devalue and deprioritize activism that centers women's rights