rabiesqueer-forever

[rabiesqueer-forever]

i keep seeing people on tiktok getting upset over the ethel cain (or however that is spelled) "legalize incest" shirt and in a lot of these tiktoks, people call themselves "victims of incest" but like

youre not a victim of incest, though. youre a victim of abuse that happened to be incestuous. incest itself is not inherently harmful to the people involved

like man im sorry you went through that but the incest didnt abuse you, your abuser did. i dont know if im missing something here but uhm. shrug

[rabiesqueer-forever]

† RADQUEER - SiTES . †

Pt: Radqueer sites.

https://radqueer.net/

https://map-wiki.com/index.php/Radqueer

https://rqemojis.carrd.co/

https://radqueercodesarchive.carrd.co/

https://disboard.org/es/servers/tag/radqueer

https://www.radqueer.org/

https://neocities.org/browse?tag=radqueer

https://transid.org/

[rabiesqueer-forever]

newly realized 🗺️ who’s kind of panicking internally about it… any advice?

preface that im not the best at helping with panicking over being a map- i actually got over my mapphobia before realising i was a map so i never hated myself for it or anything. but i can give you some resources and general tips!

first off i recommend looking through mapresources.info to see if there's anything that might help you- they have a list of support groups, a map friendly therapist finder if you're looking for that, infographics, etc. it can help a lot when you're new to map stuff and realised you're a map.

second i definitely suggest getting / continuing to get involved in pro para or rq communities with other maps! whether that's tumblr, fediverse instances like mapsupport.de or nnia.space, chat groups like map support club, whatever fits you best. making friends who are also maps or just interacting positively with maps can help break down the idea that "all maps are bad" through positive experiences. that way when you feel bad about being a map you can remember other maps you've met who've been kind and friendly to you and that they were still good people even as a map, meaning you can be too!

generally i suggest surrounding yourself with pro para media and resources. reading books about other maps can help too, such as a long dark shadow by allyn walker. it has interviews of other maps about how they cope with their attraction, and it's free to get on anna's archive. you could also check out b4u act, an organisation studying maps and how to help them cope, they sometimes have video conferences you can attend as a map. ive been in one actually and it was amazing getting to listen to other maps and professionals doing research on them. definitely made me feel a lot less alone when i attended it!

overall id just say surround yourself with positivity when you can. obviously some negativity is unavoidable, but especially if you're feeling bad try to actively look for some positivity towards maps if you can. it can take a while to get over internalised mapphobia, so don't worry too much. just try to remind yourself that thought crimes arent a thing and having a stigmatised attraction doesn't make you bad. maybe also journal or draw or make anything else about your minor attraction, personally drawing and making map pride things has helped me a lot (i have a huge map flag in my room for a reason lol).

i hope some of these tips helped, i wish you all the best on learning to cope with your minor attraction anon!! may you too be proud of your mapness eventually 💙🩵💛🤍💛🩷❤️

[rabiesqueer-forever]

Had a wonderful moment today of seeing a systok creator, formerly known to be extremely hateful towards both many traumagenic and non-traumagenic systems, who created a lovely video explaining why they are now 'radically plural positive' (their words!) and how it's helped them in their recovery. It genuinely makes me so happy to see, not for just community reasons, but because we know firsthand how freeing it can be to unlearn so much of the internalized discrimination and hate people are exposed to (especially online). It's such a weight off your shoulders to realize that you can just...be, without adhering to whatever standards are expected of you from the digital masses who have no say in what you're going through.

It makes me hopeful that more will be able to find the same relief, solace, and peace that comes with allowing themselves to exist. We couldn't be happier for them, and we mean that with everything we are.

[rabiesqueer-forever]

we’re transdid n we’ve p much fully transitioned!

🍬 we’re out as a did system 2 our loved ones

🍬 we’re accepted as a system by others in da system community n even in specifically traumagenic/did communities

🍬 we use simplyplural to track switches

🍬 we have a DID DIAGNOSIS YIPPEE!!!!! transid euphoria overload 🩵💚💛🧡

🍬 we have switches, dissociation, amnesia, trauma flashbacks, dpdr, n all sorts of other did symptoms

in total it took us like 3 years 2 reach dis point!

we’re so happy w how far we’ve come!!! we’re happy 2 answer questions for any1 whose curious abt transition or our journey!! if u wanna transition 2 having did it’s totally possible, we promise!!!! u can do it!!!!! n we can help w any advice tips or our own experiences!!!!

[rabiesqueer-forever]

Hello radqueers! Tired of being single? Want another partner for your polycule? Have you ever thought, "damn, is everyone taken already"? Look no further, you're in the right place!

Fill out this form and we'll find the most suitable partner for you.

<3

This blog is intended to be a source of support, a place to vent or basically whatever for rq couples. Asks and DM's open!

[rabiesqueer-forever]

happy pride but specifically to the queers who are into incest, diapers, cum piss shit you name it, furries, cnc that borders on murder, murder, lolisho, cannibalism, and any other fetishes the majority find morally reprehensible. i love you and you are important to the community. never stop being weird

[rabiesqueer-forever]

every time someone says incest is bad, an angel gets burned alive

[rabiesqueer-forever]

rabiesqueer help desk ᘏ ˚★˚ ᘎ

welcome to our introduction !! please read the following introduction for more information if you desire ♡

call us grime , and use he // aer pronouns for us . headmates do not sign off with their names normally , unless they just desire to .

you may know us from coining the term rabiesqueer !! currently working on finding an archived version of the post // recreating it .

used to be “rabiesqueer-center” , though we were t3rmed for no reason . we reached out to tumblr , but got no response .

no DNI , though we block freely

creations ᘏ ˚★˚ ᘎ

radqueer basics video [ OUTDATED ] :

tiktok page :

requests are now on @rabiesqueer-archive

[rabiesqueer-forever]

by the way , lots people arent gonna hate you . ( warning : SH )

we run a discord server , completely unrelated to radqueer and the ideology . we try to keep it all separate as it goes with our career and this kind of stuff tends to be controversial even within the wider queer community .

but one member randomly says they finished up cvtting themselves , specifically for the scars .

obviously , this wasnt the best way to go about it . a lot of people ( including us ) were triggered by it , and we had to delete messages and make sure theyre actually okay , but they just wanted the scars . it wasnt self hate , it wasnt out of anger , it was just because they thought the scars looked cool . they identify as transSHscars .

not only that , but they expressed pro - consang beliefs . we all made fun of them a little bit , but in dms we told them we agreed . people dont always hate us . even if it seems like it , there are more of us than you can believe .

[rabiesqueer-forever]

hello everyone , we are sorry to say but we will be on indefinite hold for requests . maybe in the future we will be able to open back up , but at the moment we cannot find the willpower to .

for the past three - ish months , we have struggled with our mental and physical health . depression has been putting us through the wringer , anxiety has been making it almost impossible to get out of our room , and our quality of life has been steadily declining .

we may still post general radqueer content , but we cant do requests anymore . we are so sorry for this announcement , but its what we have to do .

[rabiesqueer-forever]

Hi, I'm thinking about requesting a headmate pack, but I wanted to know which sources you know :)?

we do pretty much any source , as we use fandom wikis & such to find out info !! ^_^

[rabiesqueer-forever]

WE STARTED PANICKING WELCOME BACK HI — 🎸⭐/ SCOTT

OMG HI SCOTTIE !!!!!!! we missed yall

[rabiesqueer-forever]

it was a long time coming .

hi again everyone , we used to be @rabiesqueer-center . we gave tips , moodboards , headmate packs , etc . we had a lot of followers , we think we did good in the community .

of course , all good things had to come to an end .

the other day , we were t3rmed . not sure why , but it happened . we never broke any TOS , and since emailing we have gotten no response .

if you followed us , please follow us on here now . RIP to all of our requests , hard work , and creations that were stored solely on that blog .