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this really does sum them up doesnt it

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The thing is that most women are more than willing to call people by their preferred names and pronouns. We’re agreeable, we’ve been socialized to be (that’s why individualistic guilt-based “activism” works so well on us). But when it gets to the point where we aren’t allowed to talk about our bodies, how inhabiting these bodies is a specific experience with specific consequences in the world, specific consequences for our psyches, that’s when it’s clear that we’re being asked too much. We’re being asked to silence the truth of our lives for someone else’s benefit. So ask yourself: why is validation of anyone’s viewpoints and experiences more important than my own? Why is anyone’s perspective more worthy of mention, appropriate, “inclusive”, than a woman’s? 

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custodial rape and production of child pornography. all cops must die.

So grown men forcibly gave a minor in custody an erection? Sounds like custodial rape to me

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literally all we have to do to combat this is speak the fuck up

its immensely hard because it puts us at risk for violence and backlash but honest to god if you see a man in your local womens only space literally just call him the fuck out, the narcissistic injury might kill him on the spot lol

So there will be a “Gender Fluid” pool area - a “mixed” pool area & a “male” pool area. 🤔 fascinating.

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no i dont wish they wanted me because im a lesbian and only attracted to women lmfao

Anon submitted this and I’m screaming

-Aiden

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this is literally the exact same 2000s era straight guy argument of “if lesbians use strap ons then why wont they fuck my dick??” (which we incedentally see a lot of in the MTT community lmfao)

fujoshis are a nasty mess

cis bottoms be puttin all kinds of shit up their bootyholes like dildos, wine bottles, hairbrushes, bananas, etc. but then can’t fathom the idea of a trans man toppin them.

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honestly not to be a rüdfem but all the men who got up in arms that discussion surrounding the horrifically violent rape of a BABY girl didn’t include their transwoman feelings should absolutely kill themselves.

Today in peak trans… Journalist posts article about man raping female infant. Journalist quickly attacked by trans activists and branded a TERF for mentioning that the infant was female. Also featuring Katelyn Burns, notable trans activist, with a charming and not at all disgusting comment.

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is anyone else really grossed out by this?

cant interact with the stranger things fanbase here because theyre so fucking obsessed with turning mike into a ~trans girl~ so he and eleven can be ~cute baby dykes UvU~ and its just really fucking gross to me, as a lesbian? like annoying forced transing of a normal masculine boy character aside, its so fucking insidious that theyre doing it so he and eleven are “”lesbians”“ like does that not set off everybody’s child sexualization/lesbian fetishism detectors??? its fucking weird and extremely fetishy??? look id be fucking thrilled to have young teens having cute lesbian relationships in media, middle school romances etc but changing a characters “gender” for the sole purpose of creating a forced lesbian couple is weird as fuck and doesnt sit well with me at all. can anyone voice this better than how i have? i feel like i cant quite explain why it skeeves me out so much.

also whomst else is noticing that the “sapphic wooluhwoo” who perpetuate this weird fuckin headcanons are the same people who say that like... harry styles and steve harrington are “honorary lesbians uwu”. bihets are crazy

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“Being with a prostitute is like having a cup of coffee- once you’re done with it, you throw it out.” Source

“I have an easier time treating them worse.” Source

“For gods sake woman…I just want you to get naked and suck my cock!…If you like big tits, she is your girl. Too much like hard work for me.” Source

“Some of the girls are lovely but most are just holes to f*ck.” Source

“She’s a sad waste of good girl flesh.” Source

“If you want an attractive receptacle for your semen she will do.” Source

“LOL what beautiful girls OMG! WTF are you talking about dogg??? They are all old as fuck and the only young ones are ugly junkies lol rather fuck a blow up doll lol” Source

A sense of entitlement to sex any way they want it with no regard for the woman they exploit

“I don’t want them to get any pleasure. I am paying for it and it is her job to give me pleasure. If she enjoys it I would feel cheated.“ Source

“…She said “NO!” Sorry, what do you mean NO, this is what I paid for.” Source

“Well, she certainly knows what she’s doing and how to please a man. And there’s no damn nonsense about ‘don’t do this’ and ‘I don’t want it in there’ either. So, in a word, a perfect whore.” Source

“She was definitely on something…her oral (covered) was mechanical to say the least…No interaction at all. I know not all the girls enjoy it, but I’m not paying them to enjoy it- just to pretend that they are.” Source

“I took the lead and it was like shagging a corpse…Someone should inform her that a part of the job is to show some enjoyment and give some pleasure back to the punter.” Source

An opportunity to control and dominate a woman and perform degrading sex acts on her that their female partners refuse

“THERE ARE NO BOUNDARIES” Source

“If my fiancée won’t give me anal, I know someone who will.” Source

“You get to treat a ho like a ho…you can find a ho for any type of need - slapping, choking, aggressive sex beyond what your girlfriend will do - you won’t do stuff to your girlfriend that will make her lose her self esteem.” Source

“I guess the big thing is the control aspect of it. When you’re with a prostitute you have control over what happens. You get to have control over what you do, when, how, in what order, and I like that.” Source

“I would have no issue making a girl do what I want, after all that is what I pay for. 60 minutes of HER time to make ME happy doing whatever I want. If she doesn’t like it she is in the wrong game. I never spit on a girl but I have raised my hand to a girl.” Source

Recognising that the women they buy are unwilling participants

“I wish she had loosened up or pretended to be into it more. She grimaced as I came on her which was a turn off…Would recommend for those interested in ethnic girls, big boobs…just wish she’d lighten up a bit.” Source

“[She] pulled away, which really put me off. She didn’t seem to like her hair being touched…she just seemed really on edge for the whole, short time I was with her.” Source

“She had the gagging expression on her face…again she just lay there and complained about it hurting.” Source

“I got the impression she was somewhere else, and even though she looked, she wouldn’t make eye contact. Total waste of cash. The management should starve girls like this to make them perform.” Source

“Overall, she is quite attractive, but doesn’t have a great attitude and gives the impression that she doesn’t really want to be here.” Source

Describing signs of women who have been trafficked for sexual exploitation

“Onto the sex which was the best part as Hana was tight and able to take instuctions [sic] well. Her English is non existant [sic] in April but may be better now. Lucky for me i was able to converse in some Korean with her.”- ‘Might and Power’, Punter Planet, 19 June 2011

“The thing that struck me was the absence of the usual cheerful welcoming manner I enjoy with most other Thai girls. She did flash a pretty smile once or twice but mostly made it glumly obvious that my visit was just a chore for her. So although I got my semen extracted, I couldn’t call that a joyful hour.” Source

“Cold and passive. I tried to talk to her to understand if there was an issue: homesickness, personal event? Unfortunately with her poor English, I could barely get a few words as an answer…She remained passive and distant.” Source

“Ukrainian brunette in her teenage years…She seemed disinterested and took off her clothes as if she was merely doing a duty, alarm bells started ringing as she lay down on the bed without a word, no attempt at trying to warm up and break the ice…Her English is poor…[she] seemed nervous and fidgety.” Source

“Unenthusiastic, dispassionate…she claimed afterwards that she was “just tired” but I suspect she’s not cut out for being a WG [Working Girl]. I wonder if it would be stretching a thought too far to question if she had in any way been coerced?”

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Really Makes You Think

Trans activism reinforces gender roles.

Imagine a society where there were no gender roles, and men were free to wear dresses and makeup and women were free to look like lumberjacks if we wanted and nobody associated any type of behaviors or aesthetics or jobs or hobbies or any single fucking thing with being a man or being a woman.

Imagine a society where womanhood was only about the experiences related to the female body and had nothing to do with your personality, because all women have different personalities even if we have similar bodies and can relate to the experiences our bodies give us.

You could not be trans in such a society, because if there is no social construct of gender roles to mark and separate men and women, then you have no social construct to show others, “see, I am a woman because I am conforming to femininity!”

There is nothing wrong with being a man in a dress.

The whole point of feminism is to abolish the gender stereotypes, not to reinforce them. But trans activism is inherently and fundamentally anti-feminist, because trans activism relies on gender roles. You can’t be trans without the oppressive system of gender still being in place, if feminism was successful and everyone could be free, there would be no way for men to call themselves women because womanhood would strictly be about physiology.

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heres to hoping that juniper kid can see now what real violence is like, and that its coming from her own community.

A transgender campaign against the Bloodroot Vegetarian Restaurant and Feminist Bookstore in Connecticut was launched over the holidays by a young person named Juniper, who is apparently a teenage girl who identifies as ‘non-binary’. (Non-binary individuals are members of a subculture who believe that reproductive sex does not exist as an objective dimorphism in mammals, and consider themselves to be reproductively intersex or neuter, although absent any evidence of such.)

Juniper kicked off the campaign to shut down the restaurant with the following Facebook post:

Hundreds of transactivists responded by flooding the restaurant, owned and operated by Lesbian Feminists for over forty years, with hostile phone calls and emails and negative ratings and comments on their Facebook and Yelp sites, along with the requisite rape and death threats that have come to typify modern transgender activism.

Now Juniper is apologizing.

“I never intended to elicit threats of harm or death to the women of Bloodroot. I do not wish violence upon anyone- that’s the opposite of why I posted this. I greatly apologize for the unintended consequences of the situation…I agree that the use of the word “violence” to describe the Bloodroot owners was dramatic and out of place. I agree that folks (me included) tend to use the word “violence” frivolously, which can dehumanize the person we are accusing and unwittingly cause real violence to occur…Also, most of the businesses that we shop at are probably owned by shitty cis men who do real harm to women, unlike the owners of Bloodroot”

Owners Selma and Noel (credit: Connecticut Post)

Read the full statement from Bloodroot Vegetarian Restaurant and Feminist Bookstore here:

Bloodroot Vegetarian Restaurant

December 31, 2017 at 9:26am

As many of you know, Bloodroot has recently come under attack and is currently being trolled by a number of people in the transgender community and their supporters. We felt it was time to make an official statement. Because it seems whenever we try and explain what happened and our stance on this issue, it only serves to inspire more hatred, we will not be replying to comments.

Bloodroot and her owners are not transphobic – far from it! Bloodroot has always welcomed and respected everyone – especially people who might feel uncomfortable in a public space. Whether that be people from other countries, people of color, people of every type of sexuality, and yes, people who are transgender. Our long-time customers know that, many who are transgender, which is why they have been rallying to our defense.

One of our relatively new customers was enthusiastically telling us about a space in Massachusetts that catered to trans people and asked if we knew about it. We didn’t but since we are not trans, it wasn’t all that interesting to us personally and stated that for us, we prefer women only spaces. This comes from our history. When Bloodroot first started in the 70’s we were trying to create a space specifically safe for women, since there were so few places like that at the time. Of course even back then we were open and welcoming to everyone, not just women. This customer misunderstood what was really an off-hand comment and perceived that to mean that we were anti-trans. She then wrote a post slamming us. That post was seen and shared. Then some in the trans community – most of whom have never been to Bloodroot – started trolling us. We find it ironic that of all the many businesses that you probably buy things from, it’s hard to imagine any of them being as supportive of not only trans people, but all people who are “different” from societal norms as Bloodroot has been and continues to be. But Bloodroot, a Vegetarian (mostly vegan) Restaurant and Feminist bookstore, that has been in business for 40+ years and is owned and run by two lesbians aged 73 and 83, is the place they decide to attack. Women who through their activism as second wave feminists help pave the way for the rights and freedoms that the trans community today enjoy!

The woman who wrote the original post has since removed it because as she said “I never intended to elicit threats of harm or death to the women of Bloodroot. I do not wish violence upon anyone- that’s the opposite of why I posted this. I greatly apologize for the unintended consequences of the situation…I agree that the use of the word “violence” to describe the Bloodroot owners was dramatic and out of place. I agree that folks (me included) tend to use the word “violence” frivolously, which can dehumanize the person we are accusing and unwittingly cause real violence to occur…Also, most of the businesses that we shop at are probably owned by shitty cis men who do real harm to women, unlike the owners of Bloodroot”

Imagine for a minute if hundreds of people who don’t know you started to attack you online, spewing lies about you that go against your core values, and trying to destroy you. Better yet, imagine them doing that to someone you love – your mother or grandmother for example. We understand this is a subject matter that many people are passionate about, but we feel this anger is misguided and misplaced.

Regardless of how you feel about Bloodroot’s stand on this, we will continue to be a welcoming space for all types of people, including those that are transgender, and treat everyone with respect. If you feel our explanation and response is inadequate for you, then you should not patronize us.

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Terfs kill LITERALLY thousands of trans whombyn EVERY DAY y'all.. every year 50,000 trans wumben DIE because TERFS misgender them to DEATH........ it's not males killing nonwhite sex workers out of homophobic/abusive/racist rage it's ACTUALLY terfs MURDERING a BILLION tumblr using transbians every 5 SECONDS... u want a source just GOOGLE it...

trans women exterminatory radical feminists should feel like social pariahs. if a terf becomes too scared or ashamed to speak their views, well, good. 

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yall heard it here first folks, lesbians arent even allowed to have boundaries at all now without being called a terf

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Tbh, I feel that f*gg*t is more of a transmisogynistic slur then a homophobic one

Like, I’ve heard it used towards trans women like me waaaay too many times, and that word has always carried abuse and the threat of violence with it.

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Love that hat solution by Upyours 😂😂😂

http://amp.dailycaller.com/2018/01/10/pensacola-womens-march-bans-py-hats-because-theyre-transphobic/

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do you ever wonder how many strangers hate you because of how someone else described you to them

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Honestly fucking this

That $5000 you spent on a designer dress to wear once would ACTUALLY genuinely help fund resources for traumatised, abused women but no, you choose to "raise awareness" instead.

Rich people choosing to "raise awareness" when they have fucktons of money that they'll never even need is infuriating. You can actively fund the thing you're protesting for/about. You could save someone's life with your money but you'd rather just wear black while still covertly supporting the very spaces that movement is so critical of by choosing to participate.

Wearing super expensive black clothes ain’t doing shit for abused women, just give your millions to shelters and charity u dumbasses!! Who cares that you felt “woke” on the red carpet. You shouldn’t feel any pride if all you did was wearing some Armani black suit and twitting about it omg i hate Hollywood, and i hate 99% of celebs

You wanna change shit ??!! GIVE YOUR MILLIONS!!!