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Read. I said often. Males have the capacity sure, but do majority of them make the choice not to harm? No. It is widely accepted that women need to be adequately aroused and ready for penetration, do you think majority of human males throughout history took the time to care about that? No, and in the modern world many still don’t.

fyi, when I say "intercourse is a politicized act of aggression and dominance practiced on women by men to reaffirm patriarchy in the private and interpersonal," I'm not saying intercourse is 'inherently' or 'naturally' violent... I am saying intercourse is politicized to be an act of aggression. Similarly, many characteristics have been politicized to be feminine that are not inherently female.

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Intercourse in nature is often a violent act though. There seems to be a big culture of radfems being afraid of calling nature what it is, violent and cruel, with no mercy.

fyi, when I say "intercourse is a politicized act of aggression and dominance practiced on women by men to reaffirm patriarchy in the private and interpersonal," I'm not saying intercourse is 'inherently' or 'naturally' violent... I am saying intercourse is politicized to be an act of aggression. Similarly, many characteristics have been politicized to be feminine that are not inherently female.

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Majority of women are aware I think, they just don’t want to take accountability. It’s cowardly. Women died for your rights, the least you can do is put down the razor and the lipgloss.

I’ve actually just come to the conclusion that majority of women enjoy being dim and submissive for males. In the grand scheme of things there aren’t many of us who reject such a life, majority keep it in existence.

There comes a time when it’s less about socialization and more about do you have a brain or not.

shaving your bush or wearing makeup as a grown ass woman becuase of "socialization" is kinda like when a child of narc never learns to branch out on their own. i say this as someone who grew up with a narc parent. at some point you gotta realize they can't tell you what to do any more. like holy shit did you know you actually control your own life?

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Guys I just found @autisticradfem22 video on this topic. This is what I'm talking about!!!

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Males crying on about how their wives died in childbirth, guess what mate you killed her.

You agreed/decided to put another unborn life above your wife’s.

Childbirth is no joke, it’s a dangerous and often fatal ordeal.

How a person could willingly put someone they allegedly ‘love’ in such a situation is insane to me.

Women who are educated on the dangers of childbirth that still choose to do it are just right chancers. You have to have very little regard for your own life and for what? Another male brought into this world that will cause the same suffering for females? Or alternatively, bringing another female into the world to be preyed upon by males?

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The nuns I mentioned? I talked to one of them, a young woman, she lived in a church together with other women, in what they call "modesty" (we had our little debate about that), they don't shave, wear make-up or anything, just their natural selves, and every day they eat together and do whatever it is nuns do. It's a female only community. She told me that she was going on a trip with the other nuns this summer, to a house on the coast, for some spiritual nonsense I didn't care about, but, I thought, in some way they are closer to radical feminism than a lot of so-called radfems out there. Of course it's all nullified by the fact that they worship the male sex and obey the orders of male representatives, real or fictional, but still. They live among women, they frequent only women, they don't date men and many of them don't trust men romantically. And, to be fair, they idolize a female figure called Mary. And so why can they do that, live among women and separate from men, when so many supposed radical feminists say it's impossible and only leads to gloom and doom, a lonely witch living in the woods with her cats and no orgasms. To me it shows that the problem is not that men are essential to women, it's that feminists lack conviction. These nuns have conviction, faith and a crazy amount of ambition, completely deluded yes, but because they believe so firmly, they can practice what they preach. And I know it's not the case of all nuns, but this group was truly determined and excited about their lives. Many radical feminists lack ambition and don't actually believe liberation will feel good and is worth the change. They also don't believe women are worth the effort. There's also this: the nuns I spoke to were moved by optimism, the hope of greatness, happiness, a wonderful reward. And they enjoyed the process that'll get them there. Most radical feminists don't see this in separatism, they don't envision the joy of liberation, they see only fear and loneliness. And they just don't believe it's doable. They just don't. There's no way out of the patriarchy to them, no way out of the male prism. And finally, a not so negligible point, they don't think women can get along. The best motivator is the prospect of joy and self-fulfilment. That's our job as separatists: to put forward the advantages of separatism. Because goddess knows men put a lot of effort into presenting heterosexual relationships as a blissful prospect. Well the truth is, I love being a separatist. I love caring about myself so much, I've loved discovering who I really am and being able to finally be myself and not trying to please anyone, I love respecting myself, I love all the free time I have for myself, I love learning about and meeting other women, I love being safe. My life has improved so much when I stopped caring about men. I feel incredibly lucky to have become a feminist separatist in my 20s. I'm looking at an entire life of being myself, prioritizing women and girls, being independent, resourceful, it's my money, my place, my hobbies, my time, my energy and it's all for myself, my sister, my niece, my female friends and the women I meet (and my dog, okay she counts too.) Literally the only sad thing about being a separatist is that there's not enough women who are doing the same. What a world it would be. Women loving themselves. So, I guess my point is, separatism needs to be promoted not as fleeing from men, but as building our own freedom, the freedom to be ourselves. Because that's exciting and beautiful to experience. There's joy in the reward and joy in the process.

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So when are women going to start realising when a woman expresses her sexuality through music it always consists of degrading herself for the male gaze and acting sexy. When a man expresses his sexuality through music, it's always about degrading women, exploiting them, and being top dog

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Do I believe every single male is inherently bad and evil?

Short answer: Not treating every male with the same caution is just a one-way ticket to death. However I do believe it’s possible for a human male to live without prejudice toward women, I just wouldn’t ever trust that he actually does, because in order to do so he would have to accept and act in a way males seem unable to do.

If a male understands nature and biology, how nature has made the male the female’s biggest threat, how the only thing all males are made to do biologically is provide females with possible death and pain and how it’s male nature to be inherently more aggressive and dangerous.

If he knows that all religion and current society is patriarchal and inherently harmful to women.

If he has enough emotional intelligence to rise above base male nature and not abuse the power nature has given him over women.

If he simply doesn’t take advantage of the way nature is.

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‘the majority of men are good’

‘It’s only a few bad ones’

Then why have women be oppressed for centuries?

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Young girls from the moment we’re born we rarely see a woman’s real face, just a mask of chemicals they hide behind.

this is not “iconic”, this is sad.

i feel so bad for her.

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I feel so incredibly selfish and guilty saying it but I am so thankful that I was born where I was, in the present time that I was.

To see what my female ancestors had to live through in my country just 50 years ago,

To see all the women and girls in other countries going through those same horrors in the present,

I feel so helpless, even though I am doing all I can personally.

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“It’s not all men”

Then why were (and still are) women kept as slaves and abused for thousands of years? Why did the ‘majority’ of males as you all claim not step forward and put a stop to it?

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If a males reaction to a women telling him the brutalities women face from males is “but not all men”, he is one of those men.

He is more worried about his and other male’s egos than the horrific story or statistic a woman just told him.

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Can you send me proof of this? I see you all saying so yet when I ask I don’t receive any evidence that women were in control.

Nature in humans/most mammals;

Females= Must be hunted and penetrated by males, must carry all the reproductive burden, all the pain of our bodies ripping itself apart to create life, must nurture offspring, repeat.

Males= Maybe get in a scrap, hunt females and penetrate.

Why were we the ones subjected to all the suffering?

Coming to terms with the fact that we can’t change the dynamic of nature is hitting a brick wall.

The only way we will have freedom is if the power imbalance doesn’t exist, which means extinction is the only route to true freedom.

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Ireland trying to impose mandatory sentencing for carrying knives for all people.

Ban males from carrying knives, they’re the danger.

Women need to be able to carry protection from males.

Punishing women for carrying knives would enable the assault, rape and murder of women.

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If you as a woman try to find a male partner and are lucky enough to find one that at the bare minimum won’t kill or abuse you,

You are reinforcing other women and girls to take that risk and risk their lives for a male.

Surround yourself with women and girls, reject males, reject more female lives lost at the hands of males.