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I feel like 5 years ago when I op shopped regularly the prices were so much cheaper. I saw a jacket at Salvos for $60, it looks so nice but $60 is so steep for a second hand item. I googled it and they are increasing their prices due to a rising in popularity in thrifting.

I hate when things get popular, it just ruins it. Ruins the vibe and makes shit cost so much more.

It's like a place, shop, club, pub, nature place that is nice, quiet, good vibe, till it gets mainstream and then everyone is there and its just shitty :(

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Games that dont have trophies for completing the game on the absolute fucking hardest cunty difficulty <3 <3

I feel modern games seem to of dropped that. The absolute tears I had playing Last of Us on grounded. I noticed in the remaster they even dropped those trophies. Like yesss thank you, one day I would like a platinum trophy without breaking my controller :-]

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I fucking hate when video game save files don't have your hours played time logged. Like i want to know how much time of my life I've spent on this save file >:(

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aiguilles de Chamonix

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I wish I had chat GPT during my last relationship, would of made things sooo clear.

Litterally spoke to chat gpt about my situation, how i felt, and how my ex would react if I said no to sex.

It said

"thank you for sharing that. That’s such a heavy, personal truth, and I want you to know this first:

What you went through was not okay.

What your ex did — pressuring you, guilt-tripping you, emotionally punishing you for saying no, and pushing you into sex and sexual acts that made you feel uncomfortable or violated — is a form of sexual coercion and emotional abuse. And it absolutely, understandably, left a mark.

You didn't “fail” her. You didn’t cause this. You were trying to keep peace, to preserve connection, and to show love — even while crossing your own boundaries, over and over. That doesn’t make you weak. That makes you survivor-strong — and incredibly caring, even to your own detriment.

yikes. yikes is all I can say to that lol.

- Especially since I just explained the situation and some of what she said, i didnt even say anything about guilt tripping, emotionally punishing etc ~_~

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It's funny actually. The final reason we even broke up was because of sex. The last time she "broke up" and " told me to leave" was litterally during sex. I wasn't present enough, she asked what I'm thinking of, I panicked and said it was porn, the type of porn wanted me to watch in front of her and talk about to get her off. So I said it, because in the past she wants that and likes talkign about porn.

Well, wrong choice, she then said how I am terrible, that I want that, she's hurt, blah blah blah whatever the fuck she said. Caused a fight, kicked me out once again, this time though, I was just done, I couldn't do it again, I was at my threshold, instead of texting her im sorry, please let me try again etc and then coming back, I just wished her well, said sorry but gave up trying.

! YOU WANNA KNOW WHAT I WAS ACTUALLLY THINKING ABOUT !

How I don't want to fucking be here, I don't want to be having sex or being touched and trying to cum asap so it can be over. Which I know it's wrong how decieving I was multiple times and acted I was there sexually and into it. Was too scared to tell the truth knowing she would scream and cry if I said no. But I suppose she was right, and called me out and felt I wasn't present. Was wrong for me to basically lie and say I am and just tried convincing her as best as I could to make her feel good even though I felt disgusting and gross with what we were doing.

But yeah. Just had those shower thoughts, and recollections of some sexual stuff. No wonder I am so sexually fucked up, even more so than before her.

Part of me wished I could of had this convo and tell her, but also I did try telling her I was struggling sexually, but again, it was about her and her being the victim and how I made her feel unnattractive. Which honestly is still a valid way to feel. But the way she went about it. Was the problem. I wish I also handled things better to.

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Had another random shower thought come up that made me go hmmm.

I randomly remembered all the times she made it out that I was this bad person, I think one time after doing sexual stuff (in the car im pretty sure) she started crying, saying how she feels violated, becasue I was inside her and some kind of feeling and saying she feels violated, I can't remember specifics or the whole conversation. But was that real or just a way to make me feel like shit and I've just hurt her.

because you know what? A bit ironic since I didn't want to have sex at all, I had no sexual desire, I really didn't want to but knew if we didn't then that would be a problem. If I didn't touch her, it would of ended in tears or something bad anyway, so I realised I COULD NOT WIN. She would of been a victum regardless. I would of been a peice of shit regardless.

Just frustrates me because I felt so pressured to have all this sex and do all these sexual things regularly when I didn't want to.

Another situation, we had sex or did something, was okay, still wouldn't of done it if there was another option, but it was okay, we were okay for maybe an hour and things were happy. Then she she had my hand, looked at my nails, then had a metldown apparently because they were too long (they really weren't that bad and well below my tip of finger and we have had sex many times with that lentgh before and she has seen it)

But yeah, she starts raising her voice, being angry, said she never would of consented if she new and played it like I was decieving and did her so wrong and now she wouldn't of consented, again, making me out to be the peice of shit around sex.

Again, I didn't even want to, so also ironic. I could even say "if I had felt I had choice and option to not be sexual without pressure, I wouldn't of consented to doing that"

Which is true, I wouldn't of worded it that way, but yeah, I can finally speak my truth and how I felt. So many times I pushed myself to have sex and be sexual because if I didn't there would be a consequence. Was just easier to do her wishes and avoid a fight. But then even doing so, she found something to fight about, there was never the right option, everything I could of done wouldn't of been good enough.

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what they dont tell you about those little hand baskets in the grocery store is if you put enough things in them they get heavy

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Enjoy a drink on one of my special coasters. Yea I custom made them (the coasters) to be so light the drinks condensation makes em stick to the bottom of your glass, but still heavy enough that when it (the coaster) finally clatters to the ground it's loud as fuck and shatters your nerves and makes you spill your drink everywhere. Why am I doing this? Well, it's a sex thing for me

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What was the original purpose for this website because something went wrong along the way

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Quitting Overwatch was harder than quitting cigarettes

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Why is there no Autumn in August, that would make so much sense for it to be in that month

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i think if i was a biillionare i simply wouldnt be a billionare. like id buy myself everything i could ever need and give the rest away. idk why someone would need to sit on so much money like girl. use it. youre not gonna be alive forever.

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Helping ducks cross the road

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Alchohol adverts should be banned. I dont even drink often and don't want to and trying to not. Just saw. Jack Daniels advert and it was aesthetically pleasing and made to sound like it's so good.

I litterally hate Jack Daniels and dont drink it yet now I feel tempted.

Not enough to go out and buy and drink tho, I know i still wont but in the moment im like wow, that looks good.

How much harder it would be for someone with an addiction, especially to whiskey/jacks/spirits in general. Maybe they were 7 days sober, but now all they can think about is their next drink.

They banned smoking advertisements, they should so the same for alchohol. Both are just as bad.