saber-monet

[saber-monet]

it can go as easy as i want. its my choice

[saber-monet]

If you ask somebody a direct question, and they don't give you a direct answer!!! That means they don't want to share that information with you!!

not bc They don't trust you but because they're probably still trying to figure some stuff out and how to process certain emotions/topic. That goes for money, religion/spirituality, finances, career goals, family, dating at friends.

If they answer with an indirect response. Your job at that point is to change the conversation. Point out some thing in the room or bring up an unrelated topic etc. etc.

[saber-monet]

[saber-monet]

remember there are people that will view you compassionately instead of competitively.

and its not because the are noncompetitive, its because the don't see value in being competitive.

[saber-monet]

Stop calling it a 'healing journey'. You're not healing you're developing. You're developing into a version of an adult you that you need yourself to be.

You're taking all the things you've learned over the years and trying to figure out what works best for you because you realize the adults in your life are winging it just as much as you are. And society is winging it just as much as you think it is.

It's about developing a sense of authority

[saber-monet]

idk who needs to hear this but:

you are stronger than your shame/ embarrassment

[saber-monet]

Remember to remove the antagonist from your daydream/scenarios!

[saber-monet]

There is always a way for me to feel okay!

There's always a way for things to turn out okay !

[saber-monet]

If i want it, there’s a way

[saber-monet]

[saber-monet]

you’ll find new people to have deep conversations with. you’ll find a new place to feel at home in. you’ll find a reason to be genuinely excited to wake up in the morning. you’ll find someone who will reinvent your tainted version of love. you’ll find a way to reconceptualise your feelings and turn to healthy ways to cope. you’ll find a way to reach your goal and improve yourself. you’ll find a way to live every day with inner peace and appreciation for everything you have.

[saber-monet]

anything for my favorite girl (me)

[saber-monet]

wunmi mosaku - 1986

credit: cynthia

[saber-monet]

faith it till you make it

[saber-monet]

I am easy to like and love

My body is easy to like and love

My passions are easy to like and love

how speak, and the things i speak about are easy to like and love

[saber-monet]

There is no "key"🗝️ because there was never a "lock"🔒

[saber-monet]

update on revision- 3/10/2025

To make a long story short, revision was kind of messing with my perspective on time. As in, I was focusing way too much on the past. And that kind of delayed the future things I had planned. Because most of my focus was going towards revising the past.

I'm so I'm here to say, I've stopped using revision, but I've replaced it now with:

"nothing I have said or done in the past can taint or ruin my current self concept/desired self concept "

" regardless of how I've treated people or behaved in front of people, right now they still love me and see me as smart/funny/responsible/lovely/perfect, etc"

"nothing that I have been through in the past has closed off any doors from my desired future. I still can I have everything I want, regardless of what I've experienced"

this concept is less complicated for me personally, and works out great either way.