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🥤AHHHH 👩🏻 HERE'S 👋🏻👋🏻 THE MOTHAFUCKIN 👋🏻👋🏻 TEA 👩🏻 So I wear glasses right? 👓 And uhm🤷🏻‍♀️shoutout to all my other 👓 glasses users 👩🏻We stan a blind bitch 😼 But the other day I saw my friend just recently started to wear 👓 glasses 🤓 And I was like awww 😻 they look really cute 🤭 and adorable 💕 on her 💁🏻‍♀️ So I asked ❓ her 🕵🏻‍♀️ are you near sighted 👓 or far sighted 👓 ? 💃🏻 But then ➡️ the weirdest 🤨 thing is 👩🏻 She tells me 🤷🏻‍♀️ Oh I don't ❌ really need glasses 👓 I just feel 🐭 like wearing 🐣 them 🤓 My 👀 first thought 💭 is 🤬 ARE YOU 🤡 FREAKING 😡 KIDDING ME 👿 I NEED GLASSES 👓 TO SEE 🧐 I NEED GLASSES 👓 FOR EYESIGHT 👀 AND YOU'RE OVER HERE ↗️ LIKE 🙎🏼‍♀️ Oh I think 💭 they're really cute 😻 And I'm like OKAY YEAH THEY CAN BE BUT LIKE 🤷🏻‍♀️ Glasses 👓 ARE NOT AN ACCESSORY‼️They get dirty 💩 They're inconvenient 🧐 AND HONESTLY I 👩🏻 DON'T LIKE 😡 THEM 👓 ON MY 💁🏻‍♀️ FACE ❕💯

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But that’s none of my business…

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Chias are pets not food

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You must be at least 5’11 to ride this ride

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But that’s none of my business…

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YAAASSSSSSSSSS!

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YAAASSSSSSSSSS!

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I can’t believe there are people out there that haven’t seen this before

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Gay men and their Inner black woman?

As a black woman I am disgusted by this. Why do all gay males, especially the white ones, think that they have this inner black woman who is “fierce” inside of them. I know I saw something where Perez Hilton made a comment about all gay men having an inner black woman and then just now I was watching top model cycle 20 and there is this feminine guy on there named Cory. One of the judges, Johnny Wujek wanted this guy to be more masculine and said he knows it’s hard because “we all have this inner black woman” and the guy Cory agreed. And I’m just like WHAT. What is this inner black woman. And it’s not just gay males who think they have this inner black woman. It’s anyone who’s not black who lets their “attitude” come out. Apparently an inner black woman is when you say stereotypical phases such as “aw hellll nawwww” and you add the neck snap or the finger snap and maybe a shake of your pointer finger from side to side and a lip smack. THIS IS RACIST PLEASE STOP NOW. Why can’t black women just be black women without whatever we do or say turning into some sort of label that defines our entire race and who we are as people. I’m not a “sassy black woman” I’m just a woman who is sassy, it has nothing to do with my race. I’m not an overly aggressive fierce loud diva. A lot of the time I’m moody, it’s not an attitude, it’s that I’m depressed. Sometimes I’m quiet, reserved and shy. Black women are not allowed to have emotions other than “fierce and sassy”. The term inner black woman is disrespectful because it paints black women as only having one stereotypical side. And that side is “OOOH HONEY YOU BETTER WORK” or “OH NO YOU DID-INT” I’ve never even said those things.These stereotypes are not who I am. I am many things, I cannot be defined and put into one category and called into play whenever you feel yourself being “sassy” and “fierce.” No you do not have an inner black woman. You do not own me, I am not a part of you. I am my own self, my own personality and you don’t get to try on parts of my personality and say it’s your inner black woman.

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Dear White People

Listen up. 

Especially gay white boys. 

You Do Not Have An Inner Black Woman. 

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In response to anyone who thinks they have an fierce inner black woman in them and is not in fact, a black woman See the thing about that fire and that “fierceness” is that it’s born out of our oppression, out of always being told that we are ugly, that our bodies are too fat or too muscular, that we don’t have the right kind of hair – and having to deconstruct all those things and tell ourselves that we are beautiful even though society is telling us that we are not.   That strength is born out of always having to defend ourselves against white supremacy and anti-black-woman-patriachy. From years of not seeing ourselves represented in anything aligned with beauty, of buying products that are made to make us look like not ourselves. So there is no way you could have an inner black woman in you. You have not experienced our struggle, you don’t know it, you haven’t lived it, and you can’t imagine it.  See, you can’t sit with us, because we haven’t been able to sit at your table since our existence in this country. And while we were being excluded from your table we made our own, and it is fabulous and fly. And of course you now want to try and have a seat at our table, take our table, use it and ignore all the labor that went into creating THAT table. But nah, sorry boo boo. You ain’t never going to be us, you can try to wear your hair like us, you can try to dance like us, talk like us, wish you were us, but know this –  YOU-WILL-NEVER-BE-US