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#MondayMotivation

7 Excuses You Can Drop Today

Whether the goal is trying to lose weight, build a business, improve our mental health or anything in between - we can achieve anything we set our minds to, but first we have to get rid of our excuses.

1. I’ll do it tomorrow. Nothing in this life is promised, except death, tomorrow may never come and the task will remain incomplete. The only way to achieve our goals is to start taking action right now.

2. I’m not good enough. Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard, we can improve on the skills we already have by training and practicing. Remember - we all have to start from somewhere.

3. I’m tired. It’s important to listen to our bodies and make time to rest, but we must also keep in mind that our goals will never be achieved if we don’t sacrifice. We may have to give up an hour of sleep to fit in that workout or training session that will bring us closer to achieving our goals.

4. Other people are already doing it. Indeed, there are others who are expressing their gifts and talents to the world - but they’re not us. We each have a unique, individual perspective, gift or talent to offer the world that no one else can. 

5. I’ve already tried. To be successful in anything we need to fail and fail often, from each failure we learn a new lesson that we can use to improve our future attempts. It’s important to keep in mind that the only true failure is giving up.

6. What will others say about me? The opinions of others have nothing to do with us, the only opinion that matters is our own. We are the ones who have to live with the regrets of not trying, the validation of others isn’t worth giving up on our dreams.

7. What if it doesn’t work out? If it comes to the point where giving up feels like the only option - which it rarely ever is - at least we can say we tried. If we try we might fail, if we don’t we guarantee it. 

Excuses sound best to the ones making them.

Peace & positive vibes.

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hiiiii !!

will you spend some of your time with me?

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thoughts

why sex is considered as restricted?

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lost

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absurdly vague

Why do i need to constantly fail? Why do i feel synonymous to the broken pieces of shame? I feel so sad and i feel so bad. I want to attain progress rather than sadness. I want to be better, i strive to attain such. Constantly battling with myself, crying for help. Darkness prevails, searching to revive my lost purity. Vainglorious, such imagery that can be seen by the people around me is a mere fallacy. I do not have that self assurance. Cloudy, blurry perspective. I feel so lost. Where shall i go? What happened to my life? Why i became such a broken soul? To the reader, these are the words that repeatedly invading my subconscious self. In a pit of depression, no one understands me. Such confessions are full of hidden conceptions shaped not by tears but rather, pain. In other words, please forgive me as i do not forgive myself. Please understand me when i cannot comprehend the reality of my own existence. I tried to face the odd and be the best version of myself, but i can't. Full of complexities and a quest for self discovery, i felt as if i am not parallel with the cosmos. Morbidly , i am trying to continue my life. As the night sky caress the stars with the moon, i slowly fade within the isolated thoughts. Good night.

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I fear the day you’ll meet another girl and you’ll fall in love with her and forget all about me. I hate the fact that many opportunities that I couldn’t have, she will. She will touch you when I couldn’t, she will be there when I couldn’t and it won’t destroy her. I know I made you happy and you made me happy too but it wasn’t enough my love. Our story is one for the books and I have no idea how we came up to here but we endured a lot. We need each other but certainly not like this, not apart and never being able to meet in the middle. Going the distance and not being able to communicate and meet a lot is like being nothing at all. Though for me, just calling myself yours was enough. I will always love you and I will always be yours.

(via this-sad-story-of-us)

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You don’t understand what it’s like to be mentally abused. You may find me begging to be forgiven because I text you too many times annoying. But I have been manipulated so many times to the point I get upset if you ignore me. You may not understand but I live in constant fear of rejection.

Unsent text messages which were only for you. #5 (via coffeeand-cuddles)

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‘Democracy and markets are both fundamental building blocks for a decent society. But they clash at a fundamental level. We need to balance them.’ -Ha-Joon Chang | Visit BookmarkQuotes.com for more quotes.

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Saturday night

As we part ways, all i can do is to let my mind travel into the world of memories. You are the most valuable treasure in my life, but i lost you. I am losing you. The idea of letting you walk out in my life is devastating in front of my eyes. 4 years have been wasted. 4 years have been a cycle of non stop lies. 4 years is now gone. I will never understand why. I will never accept this tragedy of our love. You became the reason why my blood still flows in my veins. You are the reason why my eyes see the world as a beautiful paradise. You are the reason why i wake up with a huge smile each morning. You are the caffeine that keeps me happy throughout the day. Your voice is such a melody in my ears. Your eyes captured me as i stare into those dreamy green eyes. You are my fairytale that keeps the excitement in life of my inner child spirit. You are my late night wine that keeps the stress from a long day go away. You are the reason for my sleepless nights and planning for the future. You are the reason why my hand learned the art of feelings into words. But now what happened? You are my everything. My whole life revolved around the idea of you, the idea of me and the idea of us. My love for you will always stay despite of the on going chaos between us, i do love you. I am made for you. Honestly, i cannot lose you or else i will lose my whole life.

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Sea water will cleanse my soul

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Things that i realized after turning 18

I wish i can unlove you, but i can’t.

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Love is like a drug... it can cure you and at higher doses, it can kill you.