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WARNING!!!!

People, please be careful. There are also people tracking children and people and putting bids on them based on their profile pictures on whatsapp, tracking and kidnapping them. Especially young children, so please be cautious, especially parents who have their children as their profile pictures.

Please pass this on to everyone so that they are aware of the danger. I don’t how it is all around the world but I know it can’t just be here so please please spread the word. Thank you.

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hi pip! can i please request a board for a masc sea monster age regressor, with no paci! preferably between the ages 4-8, but any age is fine too! thank you in advance!!

Sure!!

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Hawpys fathwer days baba!!!! Im lowes you soooo so muchies! *BWIG huggies*

Hey you? Yeah you, the CG trying really hard over there? Come here.

Happy Father's Day.

To all the dad CGs.

To CG's who's littles call them "daddy," "dada," "papa," or any other CG name.

To dadas who are AFAB, Nonbinary, or gender-nonconforming.

To dadas who can't afford to spoil their littles, but love them dearly.

To long distance dadas.

To dadas who have one little, or way more than one.

To first time CG dadas and to experienced CG dadas.

To dadas in systems, or dadas who have a system little/regressor.

To dadas who have babyspace, toddlerspace, kid or teen regressors.

To dadas who's littles age dream.

To dadas who have survived trauma.

To dadas who's littles pet regress.

To dadas who regress themselves.

To dadas who are disabled.

To dadas who have cluster B personality disorders.

To dadas who have chronic pain.

To dadas with autoimmune disorders.

To dadas, no matter what. I see you, you're trying your best. And you're doing great. I am so proud of you and all the things you do. You light up your little's world. Happy father's day to you.

~Crow.

(banner reblogged on my little's account @littleprinceaether )

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It’s okay to have trouble regressing. It’s okay to be afraid of being vulnerable. It’s okay if your regression isn’t pretty. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to let all those big emotions out.

It’s okay to be you.

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Thinking about baby regressors tonight… 💭

Small tiny kiddos, tiny brains that can only think of Papa and being safe <3

“Are you okay sweet thing? Oh, someone’s my tiny baby tonight, huh? C’mere, Papa will keep you safe.”

Bottle feeding them, watching as their tiny hands come up to grip my shirt, and how they wrap their entire fist around one of my fingers..

Calming them down as they get fussy during bedtime, cooing and coddling them <3 “Darling, is someone sleepy? Here, I’ll lay down with you until you fall asleep my little angel, Papa’s here.”

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Ill helps! Mi baba livs faaaaaaaaaar away! No fairs he lives so far!!! ;-; I wants to be abe to giv him BIIIIIIIIIG huggies! ❤️❤️❤️

i make a teleport machine so i can hav mama here right now!!! i don’t like that my mama live far far away i want her right here!!! so i gonna be like a scientist!! n make a machine!!! 🤖⚙️

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Imagine.

You’ve been pushing off regression for weeks now, and its taking a toll on your mental health. Your caregiver notices and has slowly been pushing you to regress, today - you have a breakdown from stress. Your caregiver holds you and rocks you slowly to help you calm down. They hush you and slowly push a pacifier into your mouth, at first you spit it out - not wanting to regress.. but they put it in again and slowly hush you. (Caregiver Title) rubs your back and turns on the TV to your favorite show/movie and sits you on the couch, leaving for a moment to get you a snack and a juice (or water). Your caregiver comes back and you two cuddle for the duration of the movie/show.

(I suck at writing please excuse any mistakez)

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it happened again

age regression is both a blessing and a curse 💔

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Responsibility and Regression

One thing I don’t think is discussed enough in the agere community is regressors who are very responsible and mature outside of headspace. There’s so much infantilism surrounding age regression, even within the community itself, that the maturity of the regressor themself is often left out of the picture.

Even though we regress, plenty of us are perfectly responsible adults outside of headspace. We have jobs. We have families. We have pets, cars, bills, etc—just like the rest of the world. Just because someone is a regressor doesn’t automatically (and most of the time doesn’t!) make them “immature” or “childish.”

Yes, there is some amount of ‘Peter Pan’ in us; we have latched onto a safer, younger headspace for our mental health’s benefit. But that doesn’t make you an incapable adult. Even perma-regressors should be recognized for their maturity; they have to manage their lives even inside of that younger-headspace. And that’s really remarkable. It can be tough trying to fit all these real-life problems into regression. Everyone struggles with the overwhelming sense of insecurity the world has thrown at us, which feels even heavier when you have a child’s headspace. I know I’ve said this for numerous problems before, BUT BE KIND TO YOURSELF! Be patient as you figure it out! You can do it!

So take this as your reminder that (1) You are a valid regressor is you have a mature life outside of Little Space, (2) That regressors don’t have to fit into the boxes of “adults who refused to grow up,” and (3) It’s okay to struggle with that responsibility as well.

Little Space can be an escape from these problems, and that doesn’t:t make you incapable, or less worthy than non-regressors. You’re awesome, alright? Lots of love, everyone, and happy regressing

-Marty

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Love this! I work a full time job (55+ hours some weeks) and am trying to get into nursing school. It is impossible for me to be a full time regresser. As much as I would love to be, it also wouldn’t be good for my mental health. It is more then valid to not regress 24/7. There is no right or wrong way to do it :3

bear and babbles 🧸ྀི⋆˚✿˖°

welcome to bear and babbles!!, teheh! ૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა.

key code │ 🧸 - daddy │ 🍼 - pumpkin.

what is bear & babbles!

bear & babbles is a cute thing that we decided to create to help talk about agere in a safe environment! we will be answering questions (both me & daddy!) and answering some emails!!

i think it'll be fun to see both point of views too, from a little (and someone who struggles with mental health) + a caregiver whose been in the role for a while now.

today's topic: little life vs big life

˗ˏˋ ꒰ ♡ ꒱ ˎˊ˗˗ˏˋ ꒰ ♡ ꒱ ˎˊ˗˗ˏˋ ꒰ ♡ ꒱ ˎˊ˗

🍼 : i think some age regressors worry about validation when it comes to big & little lifestyles. i know i used to worry if i was valid for not being able to regress 24/7.

would it make me less than valid than others who regress more? does it make me a 'fake regressor' since i don't regress every hour of the day? will people think i'm a fraud for going a couple of days without regressing.

now though as times gone on, i think it's more than valid to have that seperation in your life. a lot of people regress to help cope with past trauma or instances, and i think if we allowed our little selves to handle some of the challenging stuff we face we'd end up going backwards instead of forwards in our healing journey <3.

you're allowed to life that big space headspace & experience all those exciting things (both up and down)! & still be a valid little <3 validation comes from you sweetpea, nobody else- remember that <3.

🧸 : I agree with Pumpkin. I can't say much, with not being a regressor myself, but I love both sides of Pumpkin equally, her small headspace and big headspace. She's just Pumpkin to me, no matter what.

˗ˏˋ ꒰ ♡ ꒱ ˎˊ˗˗ˏˋ ꒰ ♡ ꒱ ˎˊ˗˗ˏˋ ꒰ ♡ ꒱ ˎˊ˗

i hoped this helped!! <3

if you want to send an email for us to respond to, or if you have any quick fire questions you wanted answered more in depth, leave a comment or send an email using the address below!!

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*shouting from a rooftop* start making regression content for that character nobody cares about but you ‼️

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🤩 baba!!! Wes do thwis!

While working on a request, I found this image and it made my heart flutter. What a fun night out with a little one! We could go star gazing or just stay at home and cuddle up and 'camp' in the backyard. Snuggles, stuffies and snacks! Of course, if the little one got too tired and fussy, we could always go back inside lol.

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10 days of Agere Pride Month Moodboards day 6: Pansexual!!

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i just wanna sit on a daddy’s lap and play with his hair. thats it, thats the post.

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✿ 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐫𝐬 ✿

Lay on your back, kick your feet and grab for your tiny toes.

Watch sensory videos on YouTube

Listen to Disney music

babbling to your favourite stufffies

Eat baby snacks like soft crisps/chips, mash potatoes and cut up fruits.

go to a park and get pushed on the swings or waited for at the end of the slide.

Listen to a bedtime story on Spotify or YouTube.

Snuggling up with all your stuffies and blankies and watching some comfort movies

sucking on your thumb/paci

Being a sleepy baby and cuddling and being clingy with everything

Remember, your regression doesn’t need to be all sunshine and rainbows, your still completely valid if it isn’t “stereotypical”!!

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𑁯ᰍ Long-distance caregiver tipsꕀꕀ

𑁯ᰍ Set up a naptime during the day. They might protest and argue they're too big for a nap, but a happy baby is an energized one 𑁯ᰍ Remind them to drink water and eat snacks! Babies can be so busy playing that they forget to take care of themselves 𑁯ᰍ Before starting a game or movie, ask if they need to go potty, its not good for a little one to go to long without a potty break!

𑁯ᰍ Suggest calling on discord and listening to music! Find a regression playlist on youtube or spotify, and find a music bot that will play links. Listen to music as they begin to regress 𑁯ᰍ Play games with them that will keep them regressed. Each baby likes different games when regressed, find what they like and suggest they play it with you (if multiplayer) or play for you and show their progress (if single player

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Hi!!! Ummms if you stills dowins it could you makes moodbored for my stuffies Sharky an Jim? It’s oki if you don’t want to! Sorry to be bothers! Hope you havins gwood day!