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Next time antis are being, well, antis, show them this:

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must a fictional relationship be “healthy” or “functional”? is it not enough to simply watch two made up people destroy each other, hand in unlovable hand???

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y’all remember when people used to make posts on this site complaining about their english teachers requiring them to like, actually do literary analysis

and how now we’ve got people who think all fiction has to be 100% morally upright and hand-holdy or else it will lead people into sin morally astray

i got a hypothesis that those two attitudes might be connected

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Literally fandom discourse largely just comes down to kids taking shit too seriously. It isn’t that deep. It really isn’t that deep. Fandoms aren’t that serious. Stop talking it so seriously. Stop putting so much negative energy into something that literally isn’t even real or that serious. Fandoms are fandoms they’re there purely for enjoyment. Just enjoy what you enjoy, avoid what you don’t, and let others do the same. Stop taking fandoms so seriously it literally isn’t that deep and was never meant to be. Lighten the fuck up kids, life will be so much nicer for you if you do.

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there's legit an osomatsusan anti that made some really manipulative thread of tweets on how if you ship or write/read incest BL, it'll cause either you or those around you who read it to sexually prey upon family members and it'll be the fanfic's fault. the really hypocritical thing is that they gush about a 10 year old osomatsu being groomed and raped by a criminal in graphic detail because "it's only fiction", but it's not okay for others to write problematic fic or ships???

Ship hate suggestion: Practice what you preach

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Why do some people take shipping so seriously?

Like, there’s really people out there who launch whole ass investigations into someone’s blog to find shit on them and then act like the blog owner OWES them information.

You’re not entitled to those peoples lives. If you don’t like what the person makes just block them.

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YOU (the viewer) hate antis!

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positivity for having horror / scary interests ; various mobs

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If you say fiction affects reality in terms of creating and posting “problematic” content, and believe that people will be influenced by said content and think illegal things are ok, then you agree that video games cause violence

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Stuff kids on tumblr better relearn

1. You are responsible for your own media experience. 

2. There is such a thing as a healthy level of avoidance towards topics that make you feel unwell or even (in a real-life clinical definition of the term) trigger you - but you are the one to actively take care of what you view.

3. Avoiding does not mean policing others.

4. You have no right to tell artists to censor themselves - you may criticize what others do, you may dislike it, that’s fine - but actively asking for censorship when you could easily unfollow or block a person just makes you look incompetent in your use of the internet.

5. Do not give people on tumblr or /any/ website the responsibility for your emotional well-being. Because these people do not even know you so no, you have no right to ask them to take care of you.

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the stuff some of y’all find problematic makes me wonder if y’all ever go outside and interact with actual people

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Fandom:

Adults: *create a space for other adults*

Minors*: *come into that space* 

Minors: this isn’t a safe space for kids!!

Adults: …..uhh no, it’s not.

Minors: why are you personally attacking me personally?

Adults: ….????????………… 

Minors: I know you want to fuck children

Me: *looks at fic with one character that’s in his 40′s and another that’s in his 50′s, with no children in sight* 

Me: ………please get out of my house

(I still get a lot of responses to this post calling me a pedo and I am t i r e d of this bottom-of-the-barrel quality discourse)

* this obviously doesn’t apply to all minors, and to all those minors (like me, when I was your age!) that manage to enjoy and participate in fandom without calling everyone a pedophile, I appreciate you.

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Don’t

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Just in, glass.soda and his gang are ableist!