Patch ~ he/him/they/them ~ mid 20s ~ languages enthusiast ~ queer, tme, white ~ writing blog @lovenliterature
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There's this t-girl you're friends with and well you don't want to be friends with her anymore. She's clingy and needy and you don't like that. Plus, she reminds you of your abuser (he wasn't clingy and needy, but you know what I mean). So instead of discussing the fact you don't want to talk to her anymore through open communication (she might become hysterical and crazy!), you accuse her of something to your shared group of friends so they remove her from your shared social space. You don't want to talk to her you just want her to disappear, so you make a false accusation. Something untrue - that you know is untrue - and you don't give them evidence for it. It's just your luck! They believe you right away. After all they wouldn't need evidence... it's a self-evident reality that a t-girl would do something like this.
Then what comes next is this girl's entire social safety network collapses and gets severed from her. You know you said something untrue. Are you going to go back on it? No, and in her absence you're going to keep fanning the flames of the rumours and the shit-talking behind her back. You rip a vulnerable woman out from her social safety network and force everyone including her own friends to discard her. Because if they're seen with her they're also perpetrators, by virtue of being seen as accomplices.
Despite all the suffering you put this girl through, you still think YOU'RE the victim here. Despite the fact you lied to get here, despite the fact you insist you're a victim because you've experienced abuse before and had to relive it when someone tried to communicate with you openly. And you know what? You're right. "Victim" is a social category label given to people who are sympathetic targets of violence, whether social or physical. And to society, trans women are not - they are rightful and just targets of violence. T-girls can't be the victims of abuse, only the right people can.
TL;DR: if you've ever made a false accusation against a transfem (yes this includes exaggerating real events), then I hope you die painfully, or kill yourself. Pick your poison.
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I think subreddits like r/ftm shows that you cannot really have "spaces" for marginalized men without them turning them into rallies for reactionary movements against equivalent marginalized women.
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Deadbeat fathers don’t deserve roadkill deer
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left a couple of used teabags in a little dish on the counter to dry out (to minimise bin juice in the compost bin) and also left the window open to cool the house down and in the morning found a free roaming snail on my kitchen counter who had apparently been eating the teabags because they had holes in and a big snail slime mark
i am not really sure if tea is good for snails
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WHQT THE GUCK WHAT THE FUCK WHATBTHE FUCK WHATVTHE FUCK WHAT THE GUVK WHAT THE ACYUAK FUCK WHAT THE FUCK


📸 bikewontgo_wtf
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END OF MY LIFE DIWOWNEBWIW W WVEYS VEST SLEEVES VEST VEIEJEJRJWJWWa ARE WE ALL SEEING THE VEST FJDJDJEJW WOW ONO JOSSNEIQ. US ZICHEOW
🎥 freedommortgagepavilion
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i’m having a fucking full body reaction i’m shaking i’m like flushed i feel like i have a fever
#I was about to get out of bed and I just collapsed like a fucking puppet wirh their strings cut#hozier
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bye

📸 psychopompmike
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ABSTRACT RETURNS
#i’m the poor thing in the fucking road end my suffering#<- real#abstract in the waistcoat Andrew are you trying to do me in#making up for yesterdays migraine fr#hozier
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de selby part 1!


📸 hozierpng (twt)
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my BABY my HOZIER

📸 i_am_sky_bound
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HOZIER TONIGHT IN CAMDEN





📸 hozierpng (twt) THESE PICTURES ARE SO GORGEOUS MY JAW DROPPED
#holy#I need a minute#I’m gonna be spending the whole effing day recovering from all this I can tell#Hozier
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it was also murts (his techs) birthday today!!! they sang for him <3


📸 bikewontgo_wtf (twt)
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i’m like actually. not. functions.

📸 momsloveharry (insta)
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My uncle just sent this to me

He understands my level of humor
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Walk in the garden and nearby woods last week (Lohja, Finland).
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