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I just noticed the bracelet seyeon was wearing when he committed is the EXACT same as the chain seojun lost & was worried to find before semi returned it. could it be something the three of them shared? does suho have one too/still? somehow I feel it will play a big role.

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About the final scene of ep 10, there is something I notice, and I want to talk about that.

You could see on their faces the emotions when the car approached them.

Seojun didn’t want to die, but Suho? He did. It was like at that moment, after so many things he went through, he just wanted to give up on his life.

After the death of his friend and the witness of his father’s infidelity, he was emotionally broken. The scene where he had a panic attack in ep 5 explained my point here.

He did blame his father, but he blamed himself the most. He thought that he didn’t deserve to be happy after all, he hesitated about whether or not he should confess to Jugyeong and isolated himself (you could notice that Seojun still had a group of friends who, even though are annoying sometimes, support him with their whole hearts, but Suho didn’t).

Speaking of this, I would like to mention what the teacher told the class in ep 2:

“Having a friend is like having a second life, I hope you kids will have many lives”

Suho lost his two lives, one was when Seyeon died, the other was when Seojun ended their friendship. His own life, however, is suffocating. He really lived like a ghost after all that happened.

In conclusion: HE NEEDS THERAPY ASAP. PLEASE GIVE HIM ONE. THANK YOU.

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I know it’s not my position to say this, but Cheer Up.

I’m sure he wouldn’t want you to suffer for too long.

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Se Yeon and Leo are only 18. You have a son yourself. If you feel bad for doing this to these kids, who are young enough to be your son, you should set things straight.

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TRUE BEAUTY; TRUE SCARS VS FALSE MASKS

I’m actually surprised I have a new Korean drama to fall for before the end of the year. After testing out what’s available, True Beauty feels like the one for me. I was going to watch it regardless of if it made me analyse because it’s directed by Extraordinary You PD. I love how he shows the plot of his shows, his romances are always soft yet angsty, and they make you feel so many emotions whilst laughing and smiling and perhaps swooning over certain second leads and protagonists. After Start-Up I swore of love triangles, and yet True Beauty comes with just that, yet I’m having so much fun watching this show for the past 3 weeks, and it’s been a ride. It’s precisely what the title says it’s focused on True Beauty. The actual meaning of beauty and perspectives on what is truly beautiful and what’s not, the psychological trauma of being someone perceived as not socially pleasing to the world, and being forced to hide to survive the harsh environment. It’s an emotional look into another teenage drama, full of angst, romance, self-love, and self-acceptance. I’m enjoying it a lot, and my heart has been tugged at each episode, so I’m not saying True Beauty is my full focus, but I have spoken about it here, and from episode 5 and 6, I somehow have a lot to say.  So let’s get into it

True Scars vs False Masks

True Beauty episode 5 and 6 focus on the effect of PTSD and trauma symptoms which each of our main characters have to go through. Apart from Seojun, who has his own frustrations and pains connected to the overarching plot, but not as pronounced as these three.

Kyung, Suho and Soojin are triggered by certain parts of their memories, making them afraid, broken down, and self-hating. The first thing to mention when focusing on Kyung’s ideology of true beauty. Kyung may think that being seen as beautiful is the only way to make her self survive her own past traumas, but the two perceived beautiful people who are praised and known for having everything by their peers,  are just as scared, suffering and hurt by the world as she is. All by the cruelty and insensitiveness of different people in their lives.

Ju Kyung: The mask of Beauty

Kyung is forced to relieve yet again her trauma as a bully victim when she bumps into the girl. The very bully that caused her to finally break down and wear her mask for protection. One thing to notice in episode 5/6  as she takes care of Seojuns sister; she realised that wearing a mask isn’t the right way to live comfortably and she questions why she can’t have the same confidence and inspiration in her self to be brave.  Which is what people would quickly want to say about her situation, just love your self, only trust your self, just be your self. Still, as we’ve seen from the past episodes, the reason is that when her mask is uncovered, and she’s her true self, her past comes to find her and the people who cruelly lowered her down to nothing before their eyes, who proceeded to hurt and abuse her because of how she looks. The girl who likes to emotionally have control over Kyung’s self-esteem like a leash she can’t escape from,  people like her that can’t stand to see Kyung be happy with her skin,  is why it’s even more painful when Suho tells her that he’s doing all he does for her as pity it’s heart-breaking. It makes her feel even more inferior because she’s being a burden to the guy, she’s come to have feelings for, and it’s still because of her looks in a way. Because he’s the first person who knows her real face under her mask of makeup.

It’s not just the bullies that do this to her, that make her feel so ashamed and guilty for wanting to just be her self. People who she’s close to, her ex best friend betrayed her because of this issue, (to avoid being bullied) and her mother is harsh and cruel beyond words, always breaking her self esteem, ignoring her child’s plight when she could actually be of help to her, and mocking her every time just cause she isn’t smart. Her mother proceeds to not understand the real trauma in her daughter’s life, not even knowing or taking it seriously that there was a time where Kyung almost gave up everything and took her life, just because of how exhausted she was by what society was making her think about her true self. 

When Suho said that I was so agitated and disappointed. When cruel and forced to wear his own mask of coldness, Suho can be harsh and ruthless. However, it still felt problematic to me because he knows how sensitive Kyung is about her looks, how much she suffered because of it, he’s the one who saw her almost choose to take her own life because of it and he’s also seen her try desperate attempts to avoid it. To cruelly say it’s because of pity that he’s been doing all he did by her side and she’s being a bother; it’s upsetting and just annoying. I’m annoyed that he still refuses to communicate with her properly about it, tell her it’s not because of pity and she’s not a problem.

To come to her house/ accept her mother’s invitation and act like he’s not told her she’s a burden is just upsetting and it’s exhausting because she doesn’t want to keep on feeling like she owes him because he’s hiding her secret about her looks. It’s also sad because you realise that it must have broken her heart more because when she felt she had someone on her team who saw her without her mask and chose to be there for her, help her and understand her, this same person threw her away saying she was a weight to him. When she finally felt she was able to be herself and like her self without her mask, she deserved to be free without making up, especially his last words to her before he switched himself off, was that she was beautiful without makeup. That one quote, that one stance, and one act of support for her meant everything. Yet her one source of defence and her foundation to bounce back from her worries and fears rejected her and told her she wasn’t important; her presence was upsetting him.

Again Kyung is forced to think that what she needs to do to survive is to be beautiful to wear her mask; it’s the only way she will be accepted. That’s what Suho harsh words did to her, and despite that, she still ran to him to be his defence and protection. They both do the same thing for each other; if you notice Suho protects her always when she’s at her worst broken down and without her mask of beauty. Suho is protected by her finding him and literally shielding him with her warmth and comfort letting him know he’s not alone and he’s understood.

Suho: The mask of Coldness

Before I focus on their dynamic though back to masks and scars. The reason why Kyung runs to Suho is where the plot for his PTSD symptoms comes in. Suho without the act is also broken, guilty and tired of people refusing to listen to him. His issue is that whilst people see his richness and privileges as a positive for him, they’re his source of guilt and pain. His mask is to push people off and not expect or trust things with people, because of this he’s seen as the guy who’s unreachable in a good way, attractive and has it all and everyone wants his attention and needs to beg for it. His mask works for him, so he doesn’t seem vulnerable, and he doesn’t let people easily break him.

But we know he’s exceptionally vulnerable because of the guilt of Seyeon having symptoms of PTSD, panic attacks, broken and self-hating. The cruelness of the world isn’t attacking him like Kyung, but it’s using him as a tool to hurt others well that’s what he believes anyway. His dad is powerful and intense and leads to people feeling broken as Seyeon, and they take drastic measures to end it. The school praises him and lets him get away with stuff if he gets in a scuffle but they hurt others more harshly just by looking at their background and status, they did this to Seojun when they got in a fight in episode 4.

No matter what happened, Suho has never been able to get away from the price that came with his reputation and status. It cost him so much at the end it made him lose his closest friend, and it made him lose himself to the guilt of not being able to be the person everyone wanted him to be for not being able to reach that ‘divine’’ Suho reputation people give him.

For him, being with him hurts people, and so he pushes Kyung away harshly and wears a mask of coldness and harshness to prevent people wanting or expecting things from him and to make sure he wallows in his guilt alone. Without his mask, Suho is just a boy lost, frightened and traumatised. He’s broken by what’s happened, and with Kyung not only does she help him, but she also does when they first meet.

 She unintentionally provides him with a way to speak out his feelings and save her the way he couldn’t do to his friend, but also she’s there for him even during times she shouldn’t be; she runs and finds him, she lets him cry and breakdown, and she understands him with a few words. She knows what it’s like to be afraid and broken, and she knows why it’s like to feel like no one understands your pain.

Both she and Suho understand each other because they’ve been hurt and exhausted each time something from the past comes to remind them of the guilt of being who they are and wallowing in self-hate and disgust. It’s so heartbreaking, but they both run to each other time and time again at their most needed moment.

Soo Jin: The mask of Strength

Someone else with the same issues that also proves to Kyung that the beauty she craves/ the reputation to be seen as having it all isn’t great; is Soo Jin. Whilst on the surface she’s incredible, she’s powerful, fights for everyone, protects Kyung like a knight in shining armour, is protective of all her friends, uses her strengths to help others, and ensure people aren’t looked down on, or broken down. 

Soo-Jin is also put into the same situation as Kyung and Suho, she’s also broken down mentally, physically and emotionally. She’s had her self esteem be destroyed repeatedly; for never getting to the top except she is always on top. She’s the girl who has everything, like Suho her mask is the girl who has everything sorted, she’s kind but harsh to the right people, she’s protective because she doesn’t like bullies and cruelty. She’s intelligent and also beautiful naturally as Kyung puts it.

Still, her mask of strength is unveiled when you realise she’s forced to put up with a bigger bully her own father, he’s cruel, abusive and degrades her by physical violence. It’s heart-breaking. To have the control, she repeatedly tries to wash her hands clean to the point they’re raw and dry when she stressed and terrified. When she’s broken and scared, she tries to restart again, washes her hands clean and starts again making her self anew, making her mind anew, and becoming stronger. 

Her washing her hands mindlessly is the only time we see her without her mask, and no one can see her scars on the apparent parts they’re hidden on her hands dry and cracked and easily misunderstood as dryness or mistake. Easily the part of the body that’s not noticed at first.

Cruelty, Scars and Trauma

That’s the thing with scars in this show and PTSD.  Kyung’s mask covers up the acne scars that people have hurt her because of.  Yet now those scars are actively hidden under her makeup and guise of beauty, she has those external scars but also mental scars about how she looks she’s been forced to a mindset where seeing her self in the mirror automatically gives her shivers, makes her terrified and go into self-hating phase. She’s been forced to hide who she truly is because that was taken away from her by bullies because of her looks.’ it just sucks and hurts.

Suho’s mask covers his internal scars and burdens placed on him, you won’t think he’s broken or hurting from his past because his mask of coldness which makes everyone think he uses the status and reputation for his strength instead of loathing it. Suho’s internal scars have made him become someone who’s closed off, distrustful and harsh sometimes and no one understands it, they take it the wrong way, staying away from him. For example Seojun it’s Suho’s mask that made him think Suho was despicable and felt guiltless when in reality every single word SeoJun said to Suho about wanting him to never be happy until after he dies, about making sure he never has a good time because of Seoyeon just drives deeper with that self-hate. Disgust, Suho has for himself; it’s like Seojun keeps repeatedly stabbing his wounds all over again. When he appears the issues increase even more if you’ve noticed, Suho’s symptoms of PTSD increased because Seojun had started to actively make him go back to feeling guilty and remind him of the choice he made to push people away. Seojun playing a role in this is so upsetting, and it’s made it hard for me to like his character as much as I did before.

The masks may cover up their scars in their minds and to others, but it won’t make them free the way they want to be. These characters break my heart and have been through so much.

I’m loving this show. I think it gets better and more painful each episode, but it has the light moments, it touches your heart, and it makes you smile and cry so much. The romance between Suho and Kyung is also precious despite certain pauses in their growth because of their masks and miscommunications. However, the fact that they’re each other’s refuge to be free without their masks, to breath and to see each other the way others can’t it’s beautiful. Seojun’s feelings for Kyung are also growing. I’m torn because I like his moments so much but thinking about emotional torment and pain he causes Suho, especially in these episodes isn’t my cup of tea. Kyung sees him as a sibling right now, and I wonder if that’s all she’s ever goanna accept him as I actually want him and Soojin to be together at the end and Soojin is slowly getting into her role of second lead for Suho. I hope they don’t use her hurt as a way to make her a villain. That’s be sick if she breaks down because Suho likes Kyung not her like no let’s avoid this storyline.

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TRUE BEAUTY; TRUE TRAUMAS AND UNSETTLING REGRESSIONS

The anger, the anguish, and upset I feel from the last moments of episode 10 are unspeakable. I can not believe how flawed and disgusting some of the parents are in this show. And I’m not particularly eager to write when I’m emotional and entirely overtaken by anger and sadness, but I also wanted to address immediately because this essay isn’t about the love triangle. I couldn’t give a hoot about the love triangle; I don’t care what side people are on, because I think it’s ridiculous that, that’s what people came out of this week’s episodes and focusing on. Like really, we’re still doing this Suho vs Seojun nonsense, like make it make sense? Like no one is perfect, no one is a monster, all of them are just characters and yes Suho is problematic, Seojun also is, Jukyung this week was even more so, everybody likes to focus on their bias and forget that it’s not that deep, it’s okay to call out Suho on his mistakes but to sit there and fangirl about Seojun as the best hero boyfriend or whatever, when this episode had so much more depth to it, that’s ridiculous. Anyway everyone is free to have their own opinions, but I can’t believe that this tag is still full of Suho hate, absolutely absurd.  Back to the actual focus of this essay, what can I say True Beauty has always been about PTSD, trauma and the pain and suffering of our main characters, how that has shaped them, changed their mindsets on themselves, hindered them from growth, love and happiness. In Episode 9 and 10 all our characters with masks apart from Seojun who just kept growing regressed and fell apart because of past reminders of their traumas. Let me explain more as we get into it.

First of all, one of the most critical vital themes of this episode is about Secrets, especially how secrets can cause disconcert, miscommunication and chaos. All of the characters hold some kind of secret from their respective partners, family, friends, etc., and in hiding these secrets, they lose their positive attributes because of how stressed they are by the secrets, how ashamed they feel from the secrets and how afraid they are about what the reveal of the secrets would cause. Most importantly, we see Suho, Soojin and Ju Kyung spiral into regression because of the consequences of their masks and secrets.

Ju Kyung: A flashback to the past

Truthfully I was very peeved of by Ju Kyung these two episodes, but I mean it’s evident that this was going to happen as mentioned before, Ju Kyung has severe PTSD from her past with bullying and suffering because the world made her feel inadequate and worthless because of what she lacks. Although Kyung ends up with someone who completely sees her for who she is, is supportive and by her side completely, Kyung can’t help but question this blessing as a curse. This is what self hate, and self-deprecation does, immediately she receives something good for her, Kyung starts to withdraw in fear because some part of her can’t believe she deserves to be happy and satisfied with Suho. Now, as I said, I was annoyed, but also I saw her reasons loud and clear and I understood them because I related to them as well. Let’s first look at the situation that occurs to cause her to spiral.

Her secret is that she’s dating Suho. Pause. Now at first she’s hesistant because of the fear of bullying and being noticed and being pushed into the spotlight because of his reputation. However, because of him being him, taking care of her, making her feel brave and loving herself (he does so much to show her she’s okay being her self), she decides she doesn’t care if the secret is out. Unfortunately for Kyung, another secret is revealed; Soojin her new best friend someone, who she’s so close to has feelings for Suho. In fact, she also has really fascinating and important reasons for why she believes Suho should be hers. Now, this is what truly causes Kyung’s trauma to appear again, and she becomes a mess of emotions because she has spiralled back into self-hate and self-deprecation. Let me explain.

Losses and Fears

In order to understand why Kyung’s trauma is actually more profound than it seems because it does feel quite dramatic and unimportant with the reveal of other people’s secrets and situations, her crying about Suho not understanding her and why she’s struggling seems really overdramatic and not needed. But let me take you back to episode 1, Kyung has been in this situation before, and this situation led her to want to take her life. Let’s review

In episode 1,  Kyung was confident and happy in her self; she had a crush on a guy who made her smile, comfortable, and one of the people who paid attention to her and cared for her. Now this guy she had feelings for, as she confessed; she discovered he had feelings for another person, someone more prettier, popular and matched for him as people put it. This led to her confession with this guy bringing out the worst side of him; it led to her also losing her best friend who she relied on because she went to the popular girl out of fear, it led to her being taunted and broken by people making her feel like how dare she even think she could confess. You have to realise what they’re saying to her, one she’s not worth having a guy pay attention to her because of her looks, two she shouldn’t try even to get someone’s attention because the right person will find that person and they’ll realise their mistake in associating with her, three, friendship and people are fickle, and she’ll always be alone if she tries to do what she wants.

So back to our situation, Kyung has finally found a safe space. The beginning of episode 9 she reveals one of her secrets (part of her growth) to Soojin who completely protects and stays by her side. Soojin becomes the best friend she could ever have, she relies on her and is happy because of her. So she’s regained a new best friend, but also she’s found, love. A guy has thoroughly chosen to be with her despite her looks and whatnot (she thinks), this guy is a complete package, he’s a prince, he’s too good to be true, he protects, he’s warm, and he makes her feel safe. (Just like the other guy did), lastly, she’s also now found a place with her peers, she’s no longer looked down on, and everyone likes her. There’s a lot in her mind at stake if she chooses to reveal to Soojin the truth. It just makes her vulnerable, and it makes her more likely to lose everything, she finally regained by wearing her mask. It makes her return to that mindset in episode 1, where she felt she was worthless, and useless, a burden, and she should take her life. So her trauma is ingrained in her and causes her to spiral into self-doubt, fear, and hate just because she’s gone through this before.

Lies and Masks

Now the past situation made her feel one thing; people are fickle. No matter how much Suho is here for her and says he wants her, his love is fickle. It can change, he just needs to find the right person, the smarter person, the prettier person, the more affluent person who matches him. Soojin is that. But even more from what Soojin is saying to her, Suho is just exactly like how he is with Kyung. He’s protective, he’s apparently warm, and he goes out of his way to make Soojin feel safe when he doesn’t do that for anyone. In her head, he just hasn’t realised he wants her the same way he wants Kyung cause she makes him care. And we all know what happened when someone else found another opportunity where the girl of his dreams wanted him, the cruel words he said, the way he pushed her away, Kyung feels like Suho has every right to do the same because she feels like she’s not in his league. Because people; her mum, her bullies, her ex-friends, even strangers have made her feel like she’s not meant to be perfect for him because she’s dumb, ugly and has nothing to offer apart from makeup. And that’s just painful and heartbreaking. What is she to do in this situation, losing Soojin is already painful because that’s someone who she also holds in high regards in her life, someone who she depends on as a friend.

But it’s not just that. As I said, she believes people’s love and care for her is fickle. Actually, Soojin is proving her right without her knowing, Soojin isn’t being a good friend. She’s going behind the scenes to manipulate Kyung, making her feel listless knowing she’s dating Suho. But the issue is Soojin also knows her without her mask, her deepest fears, her deepest secret, she has a weapon if Kyung tells her she’s dating Suho. If Soojin switches, Kyung reverts back to her episode 1 self where the whole school sides with the popular girl, and she reveals the truth about how she looks without makeup. She loses not just her best friend but also her new safe space and she regresses back into the girl on the rooftop broken and exhausted of being alive.

Real vs Fake

And that’s the painful thing because the reason why Kyung believes people are on her side is because of her mask of makeup and beauty, Suho thinks he likes her because she is pretty with her makeup at least, Soojin became her friend because she felt she was different and prettier, and people in the school rate her high because she’s pretty. It’s all about how much her mask has helped her be reborn as she said to Selena. But because she knows her mask isn’t real, these people’s feelings, and loyalty, friendship also isn’t real, she has to keep up this facade to keep it accurate, and to stay in this lie she’s created as long as she’s safe, happy and able to walk around freely being her self. Something people refused her to do before because she had no right to be satisfied being ugly and dumb. So you see it’s actually genuinely traumatic and painful what she’s dealing with.

However, the painful thing about the fickleness of feelings is that Kyung has Suho and Suho has been in love with her and has been consistent with his care for her from the time he knew her without her mask. Since they were kids. Suho spent the whole episodes being grateful that he had her as his girlfriend, wanting to show her to the world, wanting to be with her, and Kyung’s need to keep secrets was pushing his feelings, and his fears and his worries aside because she was more focused on prevention and protection. Now Suho doesn’t care for other people or see other people the way he sees Kyung, for him Soojin is barging into his life without needing to be there, he told her this, but he doesn’t see it as a big issue to tell Kyung she’s there because she’s not important. But Seojun is important, Seojun has already told him how he feels for Kyung, and Kyung seems pretty reliant and close to Seojun who keeps crossing the line sometimes (like coming to her house and staying when her boyfriend is there, competing and what not) this is what causes him to get agitated and tell her the way he knows how. 

He’s had no parental care, no training, no nurturing to know what’s wrong and right, he’s been forced to deal with his issues on his own, and he isolated himself from people, we can see he struggles with relationships, and he’s trying to navigate it. So it’s not okay for him to act possessive and controlling over who she should be with, but it also makes sense with his character when he doesn’t know how to show emotions appropriately, and he’s jealous and worried because she’s being happy and close with Seojun in one corner and avoiding his calls and him in the other. It doesn’t make sense. This is what I was peeved off at her for. Both Kyung and Suho are in the wrong in this situation, not just Suho.

Speaking of Suho, let’s talk about this episode, his secrets as Leo and the reveal of how Seoyeon got set up.

Suho; A memory of regrets

Now the frustrating thing about this situation is; I can’t fathom humans that do this, I can’t understand how cold and heartless someone can be that he drives someone to take their life, and he still acts nonchalant and cold about that person because he doesn’t care about rookies. Suho’s father is incredibly disgusting as a human, and I completely can’t stand him. The reveal that Seoyeon’s demise was because he wanted to cover up a dating scandal, his son’s best friend, who his son is literally suffering PTSD because he believed he was the reason his friend jumped. It’s so disgusting when you think about it. This episode does an excellent job in showing us how much Suho has struggled with emotions and life because of his father’s reputation, personality, and upbringing. And that’s why I don’t understand how people can come into this episode and come out with hate for Suho. Make it make sense.

The first thing episode 9 shows about Suho, which was actually foreshadowing the final conflict in episode 10 is his lack of a fatherly figure despite the fact he had a father. We see him interact with his father when he goes to have dinner with Soojin’s own disgusting family, and we realise this is all his father does for him. He makes little quips about why he and Suho can’t spend time together, and we all know Suho holds resentment at his father for cheating and sleeping with women, but also the trauma he had from dealing with paparazzi because of his father’s fame, and the fact his father was barely in his life to show him emotional support and care. This is even worse when you realise again why Seoyeon got set up because his father wanted to protect his reputation, to sleep with someone, and because he didn’t care about people’s emotions and wellbeing.

Warmth and Comfort

Now the only thing that helped him deal with his father at first was Seoyeon and Seojun; it’s making me cry again. The thing that got him through his tough upbringing was his friends, they brought purpose through music (another secret he’s Leo), they brought happiness and care through friendship, and they brought comfort through their presence. They were loyal, close, and ready to help each other no matter what. His father took that away from him. Not just took that away from him but broke his mindset about how he views himself, damaged his relationship and trust with people, and pulled him into a spiral of self hate and self deprecation and regrets because he set Seoyeon up. How messed up can someone be? It’s even worse because he knows he’s the reason why Suho lost his friend, and he still had the guts, the confidence, the heart to plagiarise the person he ruined’s song. Even not knowing that his son is the one he’s plagiarising from.  His father took it all from him. He made Suho think he’s a burden, his reputation is a curse, and he’s doomed to be alone to protect people away from him. It’s funny because this is how Kyung also feels in her own regression. Both Suho and Kyung believe that they shouldn’t be worth interacting with people because they’re burdens and problematic for just being born. For Suho it’s being born into his family, for Kyung it’s being born with her looks and brains.  It’s incredibly heartbreaking and frustrating.

That’s why it’s even more painful because episode 9, Suho gets to stay in a lie for a while with Kyung’s father staying with him, showing him the warmth, care and support he didn’t have with his father. That’s why we got that scene; it was to make you compare how different Suho’s father is to him, compared to a flawed father like Kyung who’s a headache but is also a good source of comfort and love. Suho finally got to feel that care that he was lacking. But still, Suho’s father’s coldness and heartlessness also shadow to let us know why Suho is the way he is when he has a go at Kyung and tells her to stop hanging out with Seojun; when he is posessive and protective over her without listening to what she’s saying. He hasn’t had a significant role model/ influence to look up to. He also became like his father on the surface and withdrawn from emotions because he doesn’t receive that. It’s honestly upsetting. I am so angry at Suho’s father.

Regrets and Resent

But let’s talk about the regression. Suho finding out his father is the one who caused Seoyeon’s demise. First of all, just think about how much Suho has suffered the past ten episodes because of this issue, he’s had PTSD, actual PTSD, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, isolation, just because of this issue, because Seojun told him repeatedly he was the reason for why Seoyeon jumped. Because his reputation could not save Seoyeon, because he didn’t answer the phone because of his callousness and also because he fought with the very reason for why this happened; his father.

Seojun made Suho feel like he was a monster, and he was never going to be any different because his father was his father. And the thing is, this has been going for a long time, Seojun kept showing up in Suho’s life ensuring he never got to be happy (at the beginning not now), he never got to feel worthy of peace, love, friendship because of what he did to Seoyeon. In a way, if you actually think about Seojun’s role in Suho’s life for a while, he’s been like the bullys who ensured Kyung didn’t feel happy being her self the way she was because of how she looked. Now he’s not as bad because he’s not doing it purposely with that intention of psychological harm and breakdown, because he also doesn’t think Suho feels any guilt or issue with Seoyeon’s demise. But it’s pretty messed up that the person everyone is hailing to be this perfect specimen was literally playing the same roles as the bullies you claim to hate in Suho’s life.

Like I keep repeating all these characters are flawed, have made mistakes because they’re human, but the hate and the bias towards some of them is insane and makes no sense to me.

But now Suho has entirely as Kyung went back to a flash to the past, he’s spiralled again into self hate, self deprecation and trauma because he found out the truth. If he’s already been struggling with not answering the phone to help Seoyeon; imagine how much of a monster he’ll feel because it’s his dad who set Seoyeon up to fail. Imagine the pain and suffering, the self-hate, the same things Seojun kept telling him will keep repeating in his head, his reputation hurts people, his dad hurts people, and his lifestyle hurts people. He shouldn’t be loved, have friends, or have people around him because he doesn’t deserve that when they can end up like Seoyeon. All of his bottled down secret; self-hate is now released because the reason is connected to him from the start, it was his father. So Kyung and Suho found themselves with their masks unveiled, broken and scared and terrified about the consequences of choosing to be happy and free. Now, both of them hold this burden and weight making them feel like they don’t deserve to want to be happy, in love and confident in what they deserve because of what society has done to them. And that’s insane.

Soojin- A journey of a villain 

Before I stop, we also need to speak about Soojin and her regression. Her regression is very fascinating and upsetting. I have been on edge about her character, and it was excruciating to see her become manipulative, sly and a full second lead this episode. But what can I say. It was going to happen. Soojin’s secrets revealed this episode to Kyung is about the abuse she suffers, we also see a snippet again of her fathers sexist, heartless mindset about controlling her to ensure she makes the grades. We also see her regress back to hand washing and self-harm because of the news that Suho is dating Kyung. Now, her mindset in the last episodes have been noticing the warmth, and comfort Suho brings into her life. There’s no one else who sees her, knows her, and can protect her without her mask. Suho has known her for ten years. They’ve been each other’s support system to deal with their family, now for Suho, he cut the importance of her presence in his life because he pushed everyone away after, but for her, Suho has been a consistent person to rely on.

A safe space

Kyung showing up and making Suho open and caring made her feel fear and anxiety that the only source of happiness and warmth was being taken away from her. Suho is the only thing that makes her breath, everything else is a mask that makes her feel suffocated, even her friendships; she’s not been her real self with them, she’s been a perfectionist. Even her revealing her truth to Kyung this episode wasn’t for friendship but for emotional manipulation, and it wasn’t right. Like Kyung, Soojin regresses because she’s afraid to go back to who she has to be without Suho’s presence, which is protection, warmth and care compared to her actual home, cold, harsh and volatile. She had to latch onto something to stay sane and to stop breaking down. Suho, unfortunately, is what she latched onto. And it is a regression on her part because Kyung is her best friend, she’s emotionally manipulating and hurting her best friend to make her self feel good and get what she wants.

Still, she’s not even getting what she wants because Suho isn’t going to pay attention to her apart from protecting her from her father as someone should do. Soojin has been a girls girl, supportive, protective, and kind to everyone she meets but now she’s regressed to being petty, conniving and mean to her own friends because she can’t lose her own safe space. Kyung regressed not to lose her safe space and for Soojin her safe space became Suho. Her regression is really unsettling because how far would she go to keep her safe space, and how far will she sacrifice Kyung’s wellbeing and emotions for her own gain. She’s dangerous because she knows Kyung’s secret, she can unload the truth about Kyung pettily and get some kind of one up on her, which is sad because she’s slowly regressing into those bullies that made Kyung’s life hell.

Volatile Mindsets

In fact, she shadows like I said the popular girl in episode 1, she wants to get her way, and she feels slighted by Kyung taking it away from her. Also her self esteem, her ego is being bruised because she’s meant to be the one for Suho as society keeps telling her, she’s the prettiest, the smartest, his equal, why would he choose Kyung who is so far not that close to her level in any way. These are the kind of thoughts that happens when trauma makes you regress. Whilst Suho and Kyung are regressing into self-hate, and self deprecation Soojins regression is the opposite direction, it’s regressing into self privilege and self-obsession, it’s unfortunate.

There’s so much more about this episode that we can discuss like I said everyone has a secret, but when it comes to these three, their secrets and unfortunate reveals causes them to spiral into a whirl of self-hate and pain, trauma and suffering. This has been building up for a while because their mindsets have been shaped and made this way because of all the hurts and attacks by society to them, not just society that affects them this way; with these three family affects them this way, Kyung’s mum, Suho’s dad, and Soojin’s dad their nonchalant, and cold attitudes towards their children cause them to feel unstable and worthless, and also friends also causes them to spiral this way, For Kyung, Soojin has brought back a lot of fear and anxiety about where her life is going, and Seojun’s past problematic actions have returned along with Suho’s guilt to make him also spiral into self-hate and regret. Kyung, Soojin’s best friend, has caused her to lose her safe space. These characters have been pushed into this by people they thought they could rely on, and that’s what painful.

Anyway, if anyone wants to know my opinions on this love triangle,  I appreciate Seojun he’s a great second lead. Still, he’s not the one for Kyung or the right person as people keep trying to say, he and Suho are still equal on terms with who she should be with. The person she cares about is Suho; the person she loves/wants is Suho. She’s not thought of Seojun in that way so respect it. There is so much more going on in this show than this love triangle, so much more to discuss and fight for, each character is human and makes their mistakes, but they’re all so understandable and relatable, and the pain they suffer is just insane, the psychological trauma they all hold is too much to bare, and I really hope they find their way out of this. Because right now, Suho is not going to be okay, and Kyung is in danger of her past finding her.  I’m scared for them so much. This stuff may seem overdramatic and chaotic but with trauma and pain, and self-hate and psychological distress, it’s not easy to overcome emotional abuse, trauma and mindsets that make you feel you’re not meant to be alive, and all these characters are going through that. And it’s so painful. Let’s hope we find a way out of this: love triangle or no love triangle.

[sighhra]

TRUE BEAUTY; TRUE TRAUMAS AND UNSETTLING REGRESSIONS

The anger, the anguish, and upset I feel from the last moments of episode 10 are unspeakable. I can not believe how flawed and disgusting some of the parents are in this show. And I’m not particularly eager to write when I’m emotional and entirely overtaken by anger and sadness, but I also wanted to address immediately because this essay isn’t about the love triangle. I couldn’t give a hoot about the love triangle; I don’t care what side people are on, because I think it’s ridiculous that, that’s what people came out of this week’s episodes and focusing on. Like really, we’re still doing this Suho vs Seojun nonsense, like make it make sense? Like no one is perfect, no one is a monster, all of them are just characters and yes Suho is problematic, Seojun also is, Jukyung this week was even more so, everybody likes to focus on their bias and forget that it’s not that deep, it’s okay to call out Suho on his mistakes but to sit there and fangirl about Seojun as the best hero boyfriend or whatever, when this episode had so much more depth to it, that’s ridiculous. Anyway everyone is free to have their own opinions, but I can’t believe that this tag is still full of Suho hate, absolutely absurd.  Back to the actual focus of this essay, what can I say True Beauty has always been about PTSD, trauma and the pain and suffering of our main characters, how that has shaped them, changed their mindsets on themselves, hindered them from growth, love and happiness. In Episode 9 and 10 all our characters with masks apart from Seojun who just kept growing regressed and fell apart because of past reminders of their traumas. Let me explain more as we get into it.

First of all, one of the most critical vital themes of this episode is about Secrets, especially how secrets can cause disconcert, miscommunication and chaos. All of the characters hold some kind of secret from their respective partners, family, friends, etc., and in hiding these secrets, they lose their positive attributes because of how stressed they are by the secrets, how ashamed they feel from the secrets and how afraid they are about what the reveal of the secrets would cause. Most importantly, we see Suho, Soojin and Ju Kyung spiral into regression because of the consequences of their masks and secrets.

Ju Kyung: A flashback to the past

Truthfully I was very peeved of by Ju Kyung these two episodes, but I mean it’s evident that this was going to happen as mentioned before, Ju Kyung has severe PTSD from her past with bullying and suffering because the world made her feel inadequate and worthless because of what she lacks. Although Kyung ends up with someone who completely sees her for who she is, is supportive and by her side completely, Kyung can’t help but question this blessing as a curse. This is what self hate, and self-deprecation does, immediately she receives something good for her, Kyung starts to withdraw in fear because some part of her can’t believe she deserves to be happy and satisfied with Suho. Now, as I said, I was annoyed, but also I saw her reasons loud and clear and I understood them because I related to them as well. Let’s first look at the situation that occurs to cause her to spiral.

Her secret is that she’s dating Suho. Pause. Now at first she’s hesistant because of the fear of bullying and being noticed and being pushed into the spotlight because of his reputation. However, because of him being him, taking care of her, making her feel brave and loving herself (he does so much to show her she’s okay being her self), she decides she doesn’t care if the secret is out. Unfortunately for Kyung, another secret is revealed; Soojin her new best friend someone, who she’s so close to has feelings for Suho. In fact, she also has really fascinating and important reasons for why she believes Suho should be hers. Now, this is what truly causes Kyung’s trauma to appear again, and she becomes a mess of emotions because she has spiralled back into self-hate and self-deprecation. Let me explain.

Losses and Fears

In order to understand why Kyung’s trauma is actually more profound than it seems because it does feel quite dramatic and unimportant with the reveal of other people’s secrets and situations, her crying about Suho not understanding her and why she’s struggling seems really overdramatic and not needed. But let me take you back to episode 1, Kyung has been in this situation before, and this situation led her to want to take her life. Let’s review

In episode 1,  Kyung was confident and happy in her self; she had a crush on a guy who made her smile, comfortable, and one of the people who paid attention to her and cared for her. Now this guy she had feelings for, as she confessed; she discovered he had feelings for another person, someone more prettier, popular and matched for him as people put it. This led to her confession with this guy bringing out the worst side of him; it led to her also losing her best friend who she relied on because she went to the popular girl out of fear, it led to her being taunted and broken by people making her feel like how dare she even think she could confess. You have to realise what they’re saying to her, one she’s not worth having a guy pay attention to her because of her looks, two she shouldn’t try even to get someone’s attention because the right person will find that person and they’ll realise their mistake in associating with her, three, friendship and people are fickle, and she’ll always be alone if she tries to do what she wants.

So back to our situation, Kyung has finally found a safe space. The beginning of episode 9 she reveals one of her secrets (part of her growth) to Soojin who completely protects and stays by her side. Soojin becomes the best friend she could ever have, she relies on her and is happy because of her. So she’s regained a new best friend, but also she’s found, love. A guy has thoroughly chosen to be with her despite her looks and whatnot (she thinks), this guy is a complete package, he’s a prince, he’s too good to be true, he protects, he’s warm, and he makes her feel safe. (Just like the other guy did), lastly, she’s also now found a place with her peers, she’s no longer looked down on, and everyone likes her. There’s a lot in her mind at stake if she chooses to reveal to Soojin the truth. It just makes her vulnerable, and it makes her more likely to lose everything, she finally regained by wearing her mask. It makes her return to that mindset in episode 1, where she felt she was worthless, and useless, a burden, and she should take her life. So her trauma is ingrained in her and causes her to spiral into self-doubt, fear, and hate just because she’s gone through this before.

Lies and Masks

Now the past situation made her feel one thing; people are fickle. No matter how much Suho is here for her and says he wants her, his love is fickle. It can change, he just needs to find the right person, the smarter person, the prettier person, the more affluent person who matches him. Soojin is that. But even more from what Soojin is saying to her, Suho is just exactly like how he is with Kyung. He’s protective, he’s apparently warm, and he goes out of his way to make Soojin feel safe when he doesn’t do that for anyone. In her head, he just hasn’t realised he wants her the same way he wants Kyung cause she makes him care. And we all know what happened when someone else found another opportunity where the girl of his dreams wanted him, the cruel words he said, the way he pushed her away, Kyung feels like Suho has every right to do the same because she feels like she’s not in his league. Because people; her mum, her bullies, her ex-friends, even strangers have made her feel like she’s not meant to be perfect for him because she’s dumb, ugly and has nothing to offer apart from makeup. And that’s just painful and heartbreaking. What is she to do in this situation, losing Soojin is already painful because that’s someone who she also holds in high regards in her life, someone who she depends on as a friend.

But it’s not just that. As I said, she believes people’s love and care for her is fickle. Actually, Soojin is proving her right without her knowing, Soojin isn’t being a good friend. She’s going behind the scenes to manipulate Kyung, making her feel listless knowing she’s dating Suho. But the issue is Soojin also knows her without her mask, her deepest fears, her deepest secret, she has a weapon if Kyung tells her she’s dating Suho. If Soojin switches, Kyung reverts back to her episode 1 self where the whole school sides with the popular girl, and she reveals the truth about how she looks without makeup. She loses not just her best friend but also her new safe space and she regresses back into the girl on the rooftop broken and exhausted of being alive.

Real vs Fake

And that’s the painful thing because the reason why Kyung believes people are on her side is because of her mask of makeup and beauty, Suho thinks he likes her because she is pretty with her makeup at least, Soojin became her friend because she felt she was different and prettier, and people in the school rate her high because she’s pretty. It’s all about how much her mask has helped her be reborn as she said to Selena. But because she knows her mask isn’t real, these people’s feelings, and loyalty, friendship also isn’t real, she has to keep up this facade to keep it accurate, and to stay in this lie she’s created as long as she’s safe, happy and able to walk around freely being her self. Something people refused her to do before because she had no right to be satisfied being ugly and dumb. So you see it’s actually genuinely traumatic and painful what she’s dealing with.

However, the painful thing about the fickleness of feelings is that Kyung has Suho and Suho has been in love with her and has been consistent with his care for her from the time he knew her without her mask. Since they were kids. Suho spent the whole episodes being grateful that he had her as his girlfriend, wanting to show her to the world, wanting to be with her, and Kyung’s need to keep secrets was pushing his feelings, and his fears and his worries aside because she was more focused on prevention and protection. Now Suho doesn’t care for other people or see other people the way he sees Kyung, for him Soojin is barging into his life without needing to be there, he told her this, but he doesn’t see it as a big issue to tell Kyung she’s there because she’s not important. But Seojun is important, Seojun has already told him how he feels for Kyung, and Kyung seems pretty reliant and close to Seojun who keeps crossing the line sometimes (like coming to her house and staying when her boyfriend is there, competing and what not) this is what causes him to get agitated and tell her the way he knows how. 

He’s had no parental care, no training, no nurturing to know what’s wrong and right, he’s been forced to deal with his issues on his own, and he isolated himself from people, we can see he struggles with relationships, and he’s trying to navigate it. So it’s not okay for him to act possessive and controlling over who she should be with, but it also makes sense with his character when he doesn’t know how to show emotions appropriately, and he’s jealous and worried because she’s being happy and close with Seojun in one corner and avoiding his calls and him in the other. It doesn’t make sense. This is what I was peeved off at her for. Both Kyung and Suho are in the wrong in this situation, not just Suho.

Speaking of Suho, let’s talk about this episode, his secrets as Leo and the reveal of how Seoyeon got set up.

Suho; A memory of regrets

Now the frustrating thing about this situation is; I can’t fathom humans that do this, I can’t understand how cold and heartless someone can be that he drives someone to take their life, and he still acts nonchalant and cold about that person because he doesn’t care about rookies. Suho’s father is incredibly disgusting as a human, and I completely can’t stand him. The reveal that Seoyeon’s demise was because he wanted to cover up a dating scandal, his son’s best friend, who his son is literally suffering PTSD because he believed he was the reason his friend jumped. It’s so disgusting when you think about it. This episode does an excellent job in showing us how much Suho has struggled with emotions and life because of his father’s reputation, personality, and upbringing. And that’s why I don’t understand how people can come into this episode and come out with hate for Suho. Make it make sense.

The first thing episode 9 shows about Suho, which was actually foreshadowing the final conflict in episode 10 is his lack of a fatherly figure despite the fact he had a father. We see him interact with his father when he goes to have dinner with Soojin’s own disgusting family, and we realise this is all his father does for him. He makes little quips about why he and Suho can’t spend time together, and we all know Suho holds resentment at his father for cheating and sleeping with women, but also the trauma he had from dealing with paparazzi because of his father’s fame, and the fact his father was barely in his life to show him emotional support and care. This is even worse when you realise again why Seoyeon got set up because his father wanted to protect his reputation, to sleep with someone, and because he didn’t care about people’s emotions and wellbeing.

Warmth and Comfort

Now the only thing that helped him deal with his father at first was Seoyeon and Seojun; it’s making me cry again. The thing that got him through his tough upbringing was his friends, they brought purpose through music (another secret he’s Leo), they brought happiness and care through friendship, and they brought comfort through their presence. They were loyal, close, and ready to help each other no matter what. His father took that away from him. Not just took that away from him but broke his mindset about how he views himself, damaged his relationship and trust with people, and pulled him into a spiral of self hate and self deprecation and regrets because he set Seoyeon up. How messed up can someone be? It’s even worse because he knows he’s the reason why Suho lost his friend, and he still had the guts, the confidence, the heart to plagiarise the person he ruined’s song. Even not knowing that his son is the one he’s plagiarising from.  His father took it all from him. He made Suho think he’s a burden, his reputation is a curse, and he’s doomed to be alone to protect people away from him. It’s funny because this is how Kyung also feels in her own regression. Both Suho and Kyung believe that they shouldn’t be worth interacting with people because they’re burdens and problematic for just being born. For Suho it’s being born into his family, for Kyung it’s being born with her looks and brains.  It’s incredibly heartbreaking and frustrating.

That’s why it’s even more painful because episode 9, Suho gets to stay in a lie for a while with Kyung’s father staying with him, showing him the warmth, care and support he didn’t have with his father. That’s why we got that scene; it was to make you compare how different Suho’s father is to him, compared to a flawed father like Kyung who’s a headache but is also a good source of comfort and love. Suho finally got to feel that care that he was lacking. But still, Suho’s father’s coldness and heartlessness also shadow to let us know why Suho is the way he is when he has a go at Kyung and tells her to stop hanging out with Seojun; when he is posessive and protective over her without listening to what she’s saying. He hasn’t had a significant role model/ influence to look up to. He also became like his father on the surface and withdrawn from emotions because he doesn’t receive that. It’s honestly upsetting. I am so angry at Suho’s father.

Regrets and Resent

But let’s talk about the regression. Suho finding out his father is the one who caused Seoyeon’s demise. First of all, just think about how much Suho has suffered the past ten episodes because of this issue, he’s had PTSD, actual PTSD, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, isolation, just because of this issue, because Seojun told him repeatedly he was the reason for why Seoyeon jumped. Because his reputation could not save Seoyeon, because he didn’t answer the phone because of his callousness and also because he fought with the very reason for why this happened; his father.

Seojun made Suho feel like he was a monster, and he was never going to be any different because his father was his father. And the thing is, this has been going for a long time, Seojun kept showing up in Suho’s life ensuring he never got to be happy (at the beginning not now), he never got to feel worthy of peace, love, friendship because of what he did to Seoyeon. In a way, if you actually think about Seojun’s role in Suho’s life for a while, he’s been like the bullys who ensured Kyung didn’t feel happy being her self the way she was because of how she looked. Now he’s not as bad because he’s not doing it purposely with that intention of psychological harm and breakdown, because he also doesn’t think Suho feels any guilt or issue with Seoyeon’s demise. But it’s pretty messed up that the person everyone is hailing to be this perfect specimen was literally playing the same roles as the bullies you claim to hate in Suho’s life.

Like I keep repeating all these characters are flawed, have made mistakes because they’re human, but the hate and the bias towards some of them is insane and makes no sense to me.

But now Suho has entirely as Kyung went back to a flash to the past, he’s spiralled again into self hate, self deprecation and trauma because he found out the truth. If he’s already been struggling with not answering the phone to help Seoyeon; imagine how much of a monster he’ll feel because it’s his dad who set Seoyeon up to fail. Imagine the pain and suffering, the self-hate, the same things Seojun kept telling him will keep repeating in his head, his reputation hurts people, his dad hurts people, and his lifestyle hurts people. He shouldn’t be loved, have friends, or have people around him because he doesn’t deserve that when they can end up like Seoyeon. All of his bottled down secret; self-hate is now released because the reason is connected to him from the start, it was his father. So Kyung and Suho found themselves with their masks unveiled, broken and scared and terrified about the consequences of choosing to be happy and free. Now, both of them hold this burden and weight making them feel like they don’t deserve to want to be happy, in love and confident in what they deserve because of what society has done to them. And that’s insane.

Soojin- A journey of a villain 

Before I stop, we also need to speak about Soojin and her regression. Her regression is very fascinating and upsetting. I have been on edge about her character, and it was excruciating to see her become manipulative, sly and a full second lead this episode. But what can I say. It was going to happen. Soojin’s secrets revealed this episode to Kyung is about the abuse she suffers, we also see a snippet again of her fathers sexist, heartless mindset about controlling her to ensure she makes the grades. We also see her regress back to hand washing and self-harm because of the news that Suho is dating Kyung. Now, her mindset in the last episodes have been noticing the warmth, and comfort Suho brings into her life. There’s no one else who sees her, knows her, and can protect her without her mask. Suho has known her for ten years. They’ve been each other’s support system to deal with their family, now for Suho, he cut the importance of her presence in his life because he pushed everyone away after, but for her, Suho has been a consistent person to rely on.

A safe space

Kyung showing up and making Suho open and caring made her feel fear and anxiety that the only source of happiness and warmth was being taken away from her. Suho is the only thing that makes her breath, everything else is a mask that makes her feel suffocated, even her friendships; she’s not been her real self with them, she’s been a perfectionist. Even her revealing her truth to Kyung this episode wasn’t for friendship but for emotional manipulation, and it wasn’t right. Like Kyung, Soojin regresses because she’s afraid to go back to who she has to be without Suho’s presence, which is protection, warmth and care compared to her actual home, cold, harsh and volatile. She had to latch onto something to stay sane and to stop breaking down. Suho, unfortunately, is what she latched onto. And it is a regression on her part because Kyung is her best friend, she’s emotionally manipulating and hurting her best friend to make her self feel good and get what she wants.

Still, she’s not even getting what she wants because Suho isn’t going to pay attention to her apart from protecting her from her father as someone should do. Soojin has been a girls girl, supportive, protective, and kind to everyone she meets but now she’s regressed to being petty, conniving and mean to her own friends because she can’t lose her own safe space. Kyung regressed not to lose her safe space and for Soojin her safe space became Suho. Her regression is really unsettling because how far would she go to keep her safe space, and how far will she sacrifice Kyung’s wellbeing and emotions for her own gain. She’s dangerous because she knows Kyung’s secret, she can unload the truth about Kyung pettily and get some kind of one up on her, which is sad because she’s slowly regressing into those bullies that made Kyung’s life hell.

Volatile Mindsets

In fact, she shadows like I said the popular girl in episode 1, she wants to get her way, and she feels slighted by Kyung taking it away from her. Also her self esteem, her ego is being bruised because she’s meant to be the one for Suho as society keeps telling her, she’s the prettiest, the smartest, his equal, why would he choose Kyung who is so far not that close to her level in any way. These are the kind of thoughts that happens when trauma makes you regress. Whilst Suho and Kyung are regressing into self-hate, and self deprecation Soojins regression is the opposite direction, it’s regressing into self privilege and self-obsession, it’s unfortunate.

There’s so much more about this episode that we can discuss like I said everyone has a secret, but when it comes to these three, their secrets and unfortunate reveals causes them to spiral into a whirl of self-hate and pain, trauma and suffering. This has been building up for a while because their mindsets have been shaped and made this way because of all the hurts and attacks by society to them, not just society that affects them this way; with these three family affects them this way, Kyung’s mum, Suho’s dad, and Soojin’s dad their nonchalant, and cold attitudes towards their children cause them to feel unstable and worthless, and also friends also causes them to spiral this way, For Kyung, Soojin has brought back a lot of fear and anxiety about where her life is going, and Seojun’s past problematic actions have returned along with Suho’s guilt to make him also spiral into self-hate and regret. Kyung, Soojin’s best friend, has caused her to lose her safe space. These characters have been pushed into this by people they thought they could rely on, and that’s what painful.

Anyway, if anyone wants to know my opinions on this love triangle,  I appreciate Seojun he’s a great second lead. Still, he’s not the one for Kyung or the right person as people keep trying to say, he and Suho are still equal on terms with who she should be with. The person she cares about is Suho; the person she loves/wants is Suho. She’s not thought of Seojun in that way so respect it. There is so much more going on in this show than this love triangle, so much more to discuss and fight for, each character is human and makes their mistakes, but they’re all so understandable and relatable, and the pain they suffer is just insane, the psychological trauma they all hold is too much to bare, and I really hope they find their way out of this. Because right now, Suho is not going to be okay, and Kyung is in danger of her past finding her.  I’m scared for them so much. This stuff may seem overdramatic and chaotic but with trauma and pain, and self-hate and psychological distress, it’s not easy to overcome emotional abuse, trauma and mindsets that make you feel you’re not meant to be alive, and all these characters are going through that. And it’s so painful. Let’s hope we find a way out of this: love triangle or no love triangle.

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TRUE BEAUTY; TRUE TRAUMAS AND UNSETTLING REGRESSIONS

The anger, the anguish, and upset I feel from the last moments of episode 10 are unspeakable. I can not believe how flawed and disgusting some of the parents are in this show. And I’m not particularly eager to write when I’m emotional and entirely overtaken by anger and sadness, but I also wanted to address immediately because this essay isn’t about the love triangle. I couldn’t give a hoot about the love triangle; I don’t care what side people are on, because I think it’s ridiculous that, that’s what people came out of this week’s episodes and focusing on. Like really, we’re still doing this Suho vs Seojun nonsense, like make it make sense? Like no one is perfect, no one is a monster, all of them are just characters and yes Suho is problematic, Seojun also is, Jukyung this week was even more so, everybody likes to focus on their bias and forget that it’s not that deep, it’s okay to call out Suho on his mistakes but to sit there and fangirl about Seojun as the best hero boyfriend or whatever, when this episode had so much more depth to it, that’s ridiculous. Anyway everyone is free to have their own opinions, but I can’t believe that this tag is still full of Suho hate, absolutely absurd.  Back to the actual focus of this essay, what can I say True Beauty has always been about PTSD, trauma and the pain and suffering of our main characters, how that has shaped them, changed their mindsets on themselves, hindered them from growth, love and happiness. In Episode 9 and 10 all our characters with masks apart from Seojun who just kept growing regressed and fell apart because of past reminders of their traumas. Let me explain more as we get into it.

First of all, one of the most critical vital themes of this episode is about Secrets, especially how secrets can cause disconcert, miscommunication and chaos. All of the characters hold some kind of secret from their respective partners, family, friends, etc., and in hiding these secrets, they lose their positive attributes because of how stressed they are by the secrets, how ashamed they feel from the secrets and how afraid they are about what the reveal of the secrets would cause. Most importantly, we see Suho, Soojin and Ju Kyung spiral into regression because of the consequences of their masks and secrets.

Ju Kyung: A flashback to the past

Truthfully I was very peeved of by Ju Kyung these two episodes, but I mean it’s evident that this was going to happen as mentioned before, Ju Kyung has severe PTSD from her past with bullying and suffering because the world made her feel inadequate and worthless because of what she lacks. Although Kyung ends up with someone who completely sees her for who she is, is supportive and by her side completely, Kyung can’t help but question this blessing as a curse. This is what self hate, and self-deprecation does, immediately she receives something good for her, Kyung starts to withdraw in fear because some part of her can’t believe she deserves to be happy and satisfied with Suho. Now, as I said, I was annoyed, but also I saw her reasons loud and clear and I understood them because I related to them as well. Let’s first look at the situation that occurs to cause her to spiral.

Her secret is that she’s dating Suho. Pause. Now at first she’s hesistant because of the fear of bullying and being noticed and being pushed into the spotlight because of his reputation. However, because of him being him, taking care of her, making her feel brave and loving herself (he does so much to show her she’s okay being her self), she decides she doesn’t care if the secret is out. Unfortunately for Kyung, another secret is revealed; Soojin her new best friend someone, who she’s so close to has feelings for Suho. In fact, she also has really fascinating and important reasons for why she believes Suho should be hers. Now, this is what truly causes Kyung’s trauma to appear again, and she becomes a mess of emotions because she has spiralled back into self-hate and self-deprecation. Let me explain.

Losses and Fears

In order to understand why Kyung’s trauma is actually more profound than it seems because it does feel quite dramatic and unimportant with the reveal of other people’s secrets and situations, her crying about Suho not understanding her and why she’s struggling seems really overdramatic and not needed. But let me take you back to episode 1, Kyung has been in this situation before, and this situation led her to want to take her life. Let’s review

In episode 1,  Kyung was confident and happy in her self; she had a crush on a guy who made her smile, comfortable, and one of the people who paid attention to her and cared for her. Now this guy she had feelings for, as she confessed; she discovered he had feelings for another person, someone more prettier, popular and matched for him as people put it. This led to her confession with this guy bringing out the worst side of him; it led to her also losing her best friend who she relied on because she went to the popular girl out of fear, it led to her being taunted and broken by people making her feel like how dare she even think she could confess. You have to realise what they’re saying to her, one she’s not worth having a guy pay attention to her because of her looks, two she shouldn’t try even to get someone’s attention because the right person will find that person and they’ll realise their mistake in associating with her, three, friendship and people are fickle, and she’ll always be alone if she tries to do what she wants.

So back to our situation, Kyung has finally found a safe space. The beginning of episode 9 she reveals one of her secrets (part of her growth) to Soojin who completely protects and stays by her side. Soojin becomes the best friend she could ever have, she relies on her and is happy because of her. So she’s regained a new best friend, but also she’s found, love. A guy has thoroughly chosen to be with her despite her looks and whatnot (she thinks), this guy is a complete package, he’s a prince, he’s too good to be true, he protects, he’s warm, and he makes her feel safe. (Just like the other guy did), lastly, she’s also now found a place with her peers, she’s no longer looked down on, and everyone likes her. There’s a lot in her mind at stake if she chooses to reveal to Soojin the truth. It just makes her vulnerable, and it makes her more likely to lose everything, she finally regained by wearing her mask. It makes her return to that mindset in episode 1, where she felt she was worthless, and useless, a burden, and she should take her life. So her trauma is ingrained in her and causes her to spiral into self-doubt, fear, and hate just because she’s gone through this before.

Lies and Masks

Now the past situation made her feel one thing; people are fickle. No matter how much Suho is here for her and says he wants her, his love is fickle. It can change, he just needs to find the right person, the smarter person, the prettier person, the more affluent person who matches him. Soojin is that. But even more from what Soojin is saying to her, Suho is just exactly like how he is with Kyung. He’s protective, he’s apparently warm, and he goes out of his way to make Soojin feel safe when he doesn’t do that for anyone. In her head, he just hasn’t realised he wants her the same way he wants Kyung cause she makes him care. And we all know what happened when someone else found another opportunity where the girl of his dreams wanted him, the cruel words he said, the way he pushed her away, Kyung feels like Suho has every right to do the same because she feels like she’s not in his league. Because people; her mum, her bullies, her ex-friends, even strangers have made her feel like she’s not meant to be perfect for him because she’s dumb, ugly and has nothing to offer apart from makeup. And that’s just painful and heartbreaking. What is she to do in this situation, losing Soojin is already painful because that’s someone who she also holds in high regards in her life, someone who she depends on as a friend.

But it’s not just that. As I said, she believes people’s love and care for her is fickle. Actually, Soojin is proving her right without her knowing, Soojin isn’t being a good friend. She’s going behind the scenes to manipulate Kyung, making her feel listless knowing she’s dating Suho. But the issue is Soojin also knows her without her mask, her deepest fears, her deepest secret, she has a weapon if Kyung tells her she’s dating Suho. If Soojin switches, Kyung reverts back to her episode 1 self where the whole school sides with the popular girl, and she reveals the truth about how she looks without makeup. She loses not just her best friend but also her new safe space and she regresses back into the girl on the rooftop broken and exhausted of being alive.

Real vs Fake

And that’s the painful thing because the reason why Kyung believes people are on her side is because of her mask of makeup and beauty, Suho thinks he likes her because she is pretty with her makeup at least, Soojin became her friend because she felt she was different and prettier, and people in the school rate her high because she’s pretty. It’s all about how much her mask has helped her be reborn as she said to Selena. But because she knows her mask isn’t real, these people’s feelings, and loyalty, friendship also isn’t real, she has to keep up this facade to keep it accurate, and to stay in this lie she’s created as long as she’s safe, happy and able to walk around freely being her self. Something people refused her to do before because she had no right to be satisfied being ugly and dumb. So you see it’s actually genuinely traumatic and painful what she’s dealing with.

However, the painful thing about the fickleness of feelings is that Kyung has Suho and Suho has been in love with her and has been consistent with his care for her from the time he knew her without her mask. Since they were kids. Suho spent the whole episodes being grateful that he had her as his girlfriend, wanting to show her to the world, wanting to be with her, and Kyung’s need to keep secrets was pushing his feelings, and his fears and his worries aside because she was more focused on prevention and protection. Now Suho doesn’t care for other people or see other people the way he sees Kyung, for him Soojin is barging into his life without needing to be there, he told her this, but he doesn’t see it as a big issue to tell Kyung she’s there because she’s not important. But Seojun is important, Seojun has already told him how he feels for Kyung, and Kyung seems pretty reliant and close to Seojun who keeps crossing the line sometimes (like coming to her house and staying when her boyfriend is there, competing and what not) this is what causes him to get agitated and tell her the way he knows how. 

He’s had no parental care, no training, no nurturing to know what’s wrong and right, he’s been forced to deal with his issues on his own, and he isolated himself from people, we can see he struggles with relationships, and he’s trying to navigate it. So it’s not okay for him to act possessive and controlling over who she should be with, but it also makes sense with his character when he doesn’t know how to show emotions appropriately, and he’s jealous and worried because she’s being happy and close with Seojun in one corner and avoiding his calls and him in the other. It doesn’t make sense. This is what I was peeved off at her for. Both Kyung and Suho are in the wrong in this situation, not just Suho.

Speaking of Suho, let’s talk about this episode, his secrets as Leo and the reveal of how Seoyeon got set up.

Suho; A memory of regrets

Now the frustrating thing about this situation is; I can’t fathom humans that do this, I can’t understand how cold and heartless someone can be that he drives someone to take their life, and he still acts nonchalant and cold about that person because he doesn’t care about rookies. Suho’s father is incredibly disgusting as a human, and I completely can’t stand him. The reveal that Seoyeon’s demise was because he wanted to cover up a dating scandal, his son’s best friend, who his son is literally suffering PTSD because he believed he was the reason his friend jumped. It’s so disgusting when you think about it. This episode does an excellent job in showing us how much Suho has struggled with emotions and life because of his father’s reputation, personality, and upbringing. And that’s why I don’t understand how people can come into this episode and come out with hate for Suho. Make it make sense.

The first thing episode 9 shows about Suho, which was actually foreshadowing the final conflict in episode 10 is his lack of a fatherly figure despite the fact he had a father. We see him interact with his father when he goes to have dinner with Soojin’s own disgusting family, and we realise this is all his father does for him. He makes little quips about why he and Suho can’t spend time together, and we all know Suho holds resentment at his father for cheating and sleeping with women, but also the trauma he had from dealing with paparazzi because of his father’s fame, and the fact his father was barely in his life to show him emotional support and care. This is even worse when you realise again why Seoyeon got set up because his father wanted to protect his reputation, to sleep with someone, and because he didn’t care about people’s emotions and wellbeing.

Warmth and Comfort

Now the only thing that helped him deal with his father at first was Seoyeon and Seojun; it’s making me cry again. The thing that got him through his tough upbringing was his friends, they brought purpose through music (another secret he’s Leo), they brought happiness and care through friendship, and they brought comfort through their presence. They were loyal, close, and ready to help each other no matter what. His father took that away from him. Not just took that away from him but broke his mindset about how he views himself, damaged his relationship and trust with people, and pulled him into a spiral of self hate and self deprecation and regrets because he set Seoyeon up. How messed up can someone be? It’s even worse because he knows he’s the reason why Suho lost his friend, and he still had the guts, the confidence, the heart to plagiarise the person he ruined’s song. Even not knowing that his son is the one he’s plagiarising from.  His father took it all from him. He made Suho think he’s a burden, his reputation is a curse, and he’s doomed to be alone to protect people away from him. It’s funny because this is how Kyung also feels in her own regression. Both Suho and Kyung believe that they shouldn’t be worth interacting with people because they’re burdens and problematic for just being born. For Suho it’s being born into his family, for Kyung it’s being born with her looks and brains.  It’s incredibly heartbreaking and frustrating.

That’s why it’s even more painful because episode 9, Suho gets to stay in a lie for a while with Kyung’s father staying with him, showing him the warmth, care and support he didn’t have with his father. That’s why we got that scene; it was to make you compare how different Suho’s father is to him, compared to a flawed father like Kyung who’s a headache but is also a good source of comfort and love. Suho finally got to feel that care that he was lacking. But still, Suho’s father’s coldness and heartlessness also shadow to let us know why Suho is the way he is when he has a go at Kyung and tells her to stop hanging out with Seojun; when he is posessive and protective over her without listening to what she’s saying. He hasn’t had a significant role model/ influence to look up to. He also became like his father on the surface and withdrawn from emotions because he doesn’t receive that. It’s honestly upsetting. I am so angry at Suho’s father.

Regrets and Resent

But let’s talk about the regression. Suho finding out his father is the one who caused Seoyeon’s demise. First of all, just think about how much Suho has suffered the past ten episodes because of this issue, he’s had PTSD, actual PTSD, panic attacks, depression, anxiety, isolation, just because of this issue, because Seojun told him repeatedly he was the reason for why Seoyeon jumped. Because his reputation could not save Seoyeon, because he didn’t answer the phone because of his callousness and also because he fought with the very reason for why this happened; his father.

Seojun made Suho feel like he was a monster, and he was never going to be any different because his father was his father. And the thing is, this has been going for a long time, Seojun kept showing up in Suho’s life ensuring he never got to be happy (at the beginning not now), he never got to feel worthy of peace, love, friendship because of what he did to Seoyeon. In a way, if you actually think about Seojun’s role in Suho’s life for a while, he’s been like the bullys who ensured Kyung didn’t feel happy being her self the way she was because of how she looked. Now he’s not as bad because he’s not doing it purposely with that intention of psychological harm and breakdown, because he also doesn’t think Suho feels any guilt or issue with Seoyeon’s demise. But it’s pretty messed up that the person everyone is hailing to be this perfect specimen was literally playing the same roles as the bullies you claim to hate in Suho’s life.

Like I keep repeating all these characters are flawed, have made mistakes because they’re human, but the hate and the bias towards some of them is insane and makes no sense to me.

But now Suho has entirely as Kyung went back to a flash to the past, he’s spiralled again into self hate, self deprecation and trauma because he found out the truth. If he’s already been struggling with not answering the phone to help Seoyeon; imagine how much of a monster he’ll feel because it’s his dad who set Seoyeon up to fail. Imagine the pain and suffering, the self-hate, the same things Seojun kept telling him will keep repeating in his head, his reputation hurts people, his dad hurts people, and his lifestyle hurts people. He shouldn’t be loved, have friends, or have people around him because he doesn’t deserve that when they can end up like Seoyeon. All of his bottled down secret; self-hate is now released because the reason is connected to him from the start, it was his father. So Kyung and Suho found themselves with their masks unveiled, broken and scared and terrified about the consequences of choosing to be happy and free. Now, both of them hold this burden and weight making them feel like they don’t deserve to want to be happy, in love and confident in what they deserve because of what society has done to them. And that’s insane.

Soojin- A journey of a villain 

Before I stop, we also need to speak about Soojin and her regression. Her regression is very fascinating and upsetting. I have been on edge about her character, and it was excruciating to see her become manipulative, sly and a full second lead this episode. But what can I say. It was going to happen. Soojin’s secrets revealed this episode to Kyung is about the abuse she suffers, we also see a snippet again of her fathers sexist, heartless mindset about controlling her to ensure she makes the grades. We also see her regress back to hand washing and self-harm because of the news that Suho is dating Kyung. Now, her mindset in the last episodes have been noticing the warmth, and comfort Suho brings into her life. There’s no one else who sees her, knows her, and can protect her without her mask. Suho has known her for ten years. They’ve been each other’s support system to deal with their family, now for Suho, he cut the importance of her presence in his life because he pushed everyone away after, but for her, Suho has been a consistent person to rely on.

A safe space

Kyung showing up and making Suho open and caring made her feel fear and anxiety that the only source of happiness and warmth was being taken away from her. Suho is the only thing that makes her breath, everything else is a mask that makes her feel suffocated, even her friendships; she’s not been her real self with them, she’s been a perfectionist. Even her revealing her truth to Kyung this episode wasn’t for friendship but for emotional manipulation, and it wasn’t right. Like Kyung, Soojin regresses because she’s afraid to go back to who she has to be without Suho’s presence, which is protection, warmth and care compared to her actual home, cold, harsh and volatile. She had to latch onto something to stay sane and to stop breaking down. Suho, unfortunately, is what she latched onto. And it is a regression on her part because Kyung is her best friend, she’s emotionally manipulating and hurting her best friend to make her self feel good and get what she wants.

Still, she’s not even getting what she wants because Suho isn’t going to pay attention to her apart from protecting her from her father as someone should do. Soojin has been a girls girl, supportive, protective, and kind to everyone she meets but now she’s regressed to being petty, conniving and mean to her own friends because she can’t lose her own safe space. Kyung regressed not to lose her safe space and for Soojin her safe space became Suho. Her regression is really unsettling because how far would she go to keep her safe space, and how far will she sacrifice Kyung’s wellbeing and emotions for her own gain. She’s dangerous because she knows Kyung’s secret, she can unload the truth about Kyung pettily and get some kind of one up on her, which is sad because she’s slowly regressing into those bullies that made Kyung’s life hell.

Volatile Mindsets

In fact, she shadows like I said the popular girl in episode 1, she wants to get her way, and she feels slighted by Kyung taking it away from her. Also her self esteem, her ego is being bruised because she’s meant to be the one for Suho as society keeps telling her, she’s the prettiest, the smartest, his equal, why would he choose Kyung who is so far not that close to her level in any way. These are the kind of thoughts that happens when trauma makes you regress. Whilst Suho and Kyung are regressing into self-hate, and self deprecation Soojins regression is the opposite direction, it’s regressing into self privilege and self-obsession, it’s unfortunate.

There’s so much more about this episode that we can discuss like I said everyone has a secret, but when it comes to these three, their secrets and unfortunate reveals causes them to spiral into a whirl of self-hate and pain, trauma and suffering. This has been building up for a while because their mindsets have been shaped and made this way because of all the hurts and attacks by society to them, not just society that affects them this way; with these three family affects them this way, Kyung’s mum, Suho’s dad, and Soojin’s dad their nonchalant, and cold attitudes towards their children cause them to feel unstable and worthless, and also friends also causes them to spiral this way, For Kyung, Soojin has brought back a lot of fear and anxiety about where her life is going, and Seojun’s past problematic actions have returned along with Suho’s guilt to make him also spiral into self-hate and regret. Kyung, Soojin’s best friend, has caused her to lose her safe space. These characters have been pushed into this by people they thought they could rely on, and that’s what painful.

Anyway, if anyone wants to know my opinions on this love triangle,  I appreciate Seojun he’s a great second lead. Still, he’s not the one for Kyung or the right person as people keep trying to say, he and Suho are still equal on terms with who she should be with. The person she cares about is Suho; the person she loves/wants is Suho. She’s not thought of Seojun in that way so respect it. There is so much more going on in this show than this love triangle, so much more to discuss and fight for, each character is human and makes their mistakes, but they’re all so understandable and relatable, and the pain they suffer is just insane, the psychological trauma they all hold is too much to bare, and I really hope they find their way out of this. Because right now, Suho is not going to be okay, and Kyung is in danger of her past finding her.  I’m scared for them so much. This stuff may seem overdramatic and chaotic but with trauma and pain, and self-hate and psychological distress, it’s not easy to overcome emotional abuse, trauma and mindsets that make you feel you’re not meant to be alive, and all these characters are going through that. And it’s so painful. Let’s hope we find a way out of this: love triangle or no love triangle.

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A YEAR IN REVIEW: 2020 — KOREAN DRAMAS

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“don’t worry. i’ll protect you.”

SWEET HOME (2020), netflix.

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theories of what may happen if there were a s2 for sweet home

SPOILERS AHEAD !

ah here we are to discuss about the ending of sweet home . most people may have found it confusing and weird . thus , I have gathered up some rlly good theories that may explain the ending and what we could expect in future s2 of the drama . some may ask, is it necessary for the drama to come up with a s2 ? honestly, I'd answer with a resounding ,yes. this is because unlike the webtoon , the live-action's plot is pretty different with how it ended so even readers of the famous webtoon would not know what will happen next . I also think that it would be quite wrong to leave it like that bc they left the ending quite open . in fact , too open , for there not to be a s2 . no complains about this tho since I rlly enjoyed this first season. anyways on to the theories !

1. SANGWOOK AND HYUN SU

let's just start with one of the most pressed qns of the drama ; what was going on with sangwook and hyunsu and where is he bringing him to ? before we dive deep into theorising, let's start with what we can see from ep10 and how it may lead to a s2. at the first half of the ep , we see hyun su turning into his monstrous form fighting against this other monster that has the ability to shape - shift even after 'dying' in its shell (not quite sure how to explain that LOL SORRY) but even then , hyun su can be seen burning him to ash and we can see a clump of slime moving towards a tank / vehicle . this slime is the monster . After escaping out of the shell hyun su burnt to ash, it escaped and went towards the vehicle . from here , we can theorise that the monster is alive and will find another shell to use that is in this case , sangwooks corpse . reason for choosing sangwook ? not sure . may be of pure coincidence that it found him of all people to turn into . but even then , we can tell it really isn't sangwook at the end bc he did not have his burn marks on his cheeks . even saying the phrase "long time no see " . this could mean that the monster is full on forcing hyun su into joining his army of special monsters who can control themselves like the both of them . thus , 'sangwook' can be seen driving them to maybe the base of this army .

2.WHO COULD THIS SHAPE SHIFTING MONSTER ACTUALLY BE ?

the drama did not cover who it is but this is my theory ! it is in fact , hyun su's high school bully . he is the one that made hyun su the way he is now ; depressed and a social recluse. the drama didn't show who it may be maybe to provide info later on in a s2 but by how the monster has been treating him since they first met and esp the "long time no see " made me have the shivers that it rlly might be the bully . it is a groundless theory ngl since there's not that much evidence but we can sort of see how it fits in place sort of ! this can lead to an epic boss fight in the end of s2 maybe who knows 😀😀😀

3.WHAT HAPPENS TO THE RESIDENTS OF GREEN HOME ?

sigh. frankly I have no other choice but to say that they have gone to the 'safe camp' the military mentions . I'm not sure who or what may be there , but it really might be a worse option on going there than leaving green home . what will they do or accomplish there ? I'm not sure .

4. LEE EUNHYEOK ??

at ep10, we can see eunhyeok having something like a nosebleed before the walls of green home fall to the ground . this is a symptom of monsterization. I DOUBT hyuk died in the end as he will have a 'golden time 'and regenerate quickly . though if he is dead, that is truly a sad way to kill his charc off like that . if he is alive , he might control himself like hyun su and fight with him OR fight against him if things go south , as they say.

5.YI KIUNG ?

at ep10, we can see yi kiung dressed up as a soldier , helping the military, sending off the residents and telling them to survive . from here , we can theorise that she is still on the deal with the military and now might be off to track hyun su , as she had failed to do so earlier on , to find her fiance , sangwon . tbh, I think she would trade hyun su for her fiance as there would be quite a few benefits to trading him in for the experiments ; finding out the truth abt the disease through her fiance and MAYBE saving humanity by doing so . its all abt give and take if we see it from her perspective so it must be quite hard for her to choose . tho , will believe and root for her throughout as she's a wise , independent and smart woman !!!! yi kiung fighting !!!

thats all the theories I have for now about the ending . some may be wrong and nonsensical but I kind of want to believe in them 😀😀😀

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