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this whole "can trans men be lesbians" tiktok discourse is so funny to me ☠️ wdym WDYM i'm 'policing' you for something that erases your own gender identity ☠️☠️ "pick a book" "educate yourself on queer history" why are yall acting like history is always right. women can't have anything anymore

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hello! i'm new to the whole concept of radical feminism. i've detransitioned a month ago and i'm now a tomboy-ish girl. the idea is that my partner is trans ( mtf ) and ever since, i couldn't rlly feel the same abt her. sorry if i'm getting a bit too personal, but i genuinely feel lost and i have no one else to talk abt this... she's a nice person and all, but i do think that our opposing views will end up clashing and ruin things between the 2 of us. i did try to break up with her, but she ended up guilt tripping me instead, saying things along the lines: "i did all of this so u could stay", "u were the only person who i deemed to be special" and what not. i can't remember precisely. i feel lost. it's not just the fact i started to question things more regarding the whole concept of transness and how i started to see my ex-community's wrongs, but also the fact that i started to lose feelings for her. they weren't rlly that present to begin with. i do feel bad for dragging her into this. i was trans by the time we got together, so i felt understood by her, but i couldn't rlly be happy as trans. that was the problem. no matter how much i tried, i ended up failing regardless at feeling happy with myself. i later realized it was mostly due to my insecurities that have been present for a good amount of years. i felt as if i failed to be a girl, so i had to be a boy instead. dysphoria isn't bothering me as much ever since i ended up detransitioning bcs i have no reason to keep trying to be a boy, so there's that. the question is: what should i do? i do constantly worry abt her mental state, so i feel stuck, knowing that she'll suffer if i end up breaking up with her. do i just continue on distancing myself away from her? again, i don't want people to take it the wrong way. as i said, she's a good person, but i genuinely think she's a bit too "in her own echo chamber" ig u could say. i don't want to make people feel bad for me. as i said, i just feel bad for dragging her into all of this, but i can't help my confusion and dilemmas. i'm not sure if u r going to answer due to how personal it is, but again, i'm not going to force u to respond. i'm just desperate, that's all it rlly is. idk what else i can do. no anonymous bcs yeah, I'M THAT DESPERATE.

HELLO HELLO it's completly fine for u to reach out and ask for help so don't worry !! 🫶

what matters the most are your feelings i'd say, even if your partner might feel hurt by your decision — staying in a relationship that no longer feels good or too complicated isn't the coolest thing u can do for yourself. their mental health isn't your responsibility, staying only out of guilt won't solve anything and it could possibly make you both suffer even more. she shouldn't make you feel bad for growing as a person, whether is means detransitioning or gaining a new opinion on your identity. do what you feel is right but remember that prolonging a relationship you don't feel safe or satisfied in could harmful so please be careful 🙏

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i feel like people often mistake female sexual liberation with poorly made choices that end up harming us in the process even more — mainly when it comes to kink culture. being tugged by your hair, slapped across the face or dragged around isn't exactly bound fo feminism and you do you but displaying this and saying abuse is okay only when you consent to it is wrong. men enjoy harming you, why would you give them free pass to do so in such a vulnerable position 😭🙏

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i think what's holding back the sabrina discourse is that choice feminists do not fundamentally believe in socialization or the choices you make not being in a vacuum.

choice feminists think they're the ones who are free because they believe criticism of pandering to the patriarchy is centering men itself. therefore the natural solution is making "any" choice you want and saying you don't do it for men.

essentially, if you ignore the patriarchy and pretend it's not real, it will go away, and if you point it out YOU are the misogynist because you are "creating" it.

they do not have a concept that they themselves are influenced by society to act in favor of the patriarchy. this logic is only used as an argument against feminism, they understand why it is ridiculous to try to solve other forms of bigotry by accusing people who point it out as people perpetuating it.

additionally, many see modesty as the sole patriarchal standard for women, despite this being historically inaccurate. in reality, it is a double-sided coin. they use porn, buy magazines, the main difference is that they own women privately. what makes it a "sin" is that she is sexually available publicly.

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sorry for my feminist rants lately.

In my city, there is now an AI-powered brothel with realistic dolls for personal gratification. The idea behind it is to protect real women and offer an alternative option…

I feel like throwing up.

The most common requests there are sex dolls wearing torn clothing or covered in blood, and it’s even allowed to inflict wounds and injuries on the dolls yourself.

Anyone who thinks this protects real women has not understood the problem.

It disgusts me so much.

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I cannot stress enough that radical feminism is incredibly important for teenage girls.

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Fuck you dumbass terf

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“gender wars in 2025 is crazy 💀”

and little girls being forced to marry 40 year olds and being raped every day isn’t crazy to you?

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Hating on a woman who made a safe space for other women is insane to me. Her gym has the same equipment as a regular gym does so this post is just a straight up lie. These trans supporters will go to any lengths possible to hate on a woman making a safe space for other women because at their core they’re just misogynistic. Clearly everyone in the comments could see this was just misogynistic bullshit and that’s why they were turned off.

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Hello, it’s me Chanel again.

People keep reblogging my post about autogynephilia, but won’t explain why it’s so bad to me.

As a AFAB unlabeled gynesexual person, maybe it’s because I don’t feel threatened by it as much due to biases or autistic thinking (that’s what I call some of my thinking process towards things like this because it makes an automatic biases that I kind of hate).

Can you please explain to me why autogynephilia is bad. I know what it is already but I don’t understand why it’s so bad.

i'm not really familiar with the term but from what i understood it's usually used by males imagining / fetishizing female bodies ( that can happen while watching lesbian porn or literally anything else too ) so it's probably seen as something strange 😭 but i also saw someone mentioning it's just liking stereotypical "women like" things like idk shopping, cooking, dressing up in pretty dresses, makeup etc and in that case it could be signaling a deep rooted misogyny ( unfortunatelly ) BUT I SRS DON'T KNOW ill have to do my research too

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It’s me from yesterday, from that one post.

Anyways, I wanted to ask you about misandry.

How do you feel about it?

In my opinion, I don’t like how people are calling themselves misandrists while claiming to be feminists.

Misandry, even if misogyny is 100x worse, functions the same way as misogyny as in the meaning of one gender/sex dominating or being “better than” the other gender/sex.

Because of this, I think feminism and misandry doesn’t go along with each other, just like how feminism and misogyny doesn’t go along with each other.

hai hai !! 💝 i would start with saying that misandry doesn't exist as that's a petty name calling usually used against women who dare to speak up against male violence without coddling their feelings

that "misandry" you talk about is a nonexistent "oppression" against the sex that has been violent towards women and oppressing us for thousands of years — men will never be poor oppressed victims as that's impossible. it's not about being "better" it's about crime rates and the history of female endangerment which will men NEVER go through

women are very much entitled to feel hatred after everything we had gone through so i don't think some "misandry" could ever be able to ruin feminism in any kind of way. ( also we're talking about female liberation centered feminism, not the libfem one 😭🙏 ) you can be angry at males for their actions while fighting for your own gender

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Here's why women should be allowed to have woman-only spa-

DELETE YOUR REBLOG

Do you see how easy it is to fall for radical feminism?

Because it is WAY easier than anyone wants to admit.

Radical feminism isn't bad because it's transphobic, or the radfem treats trans women as men. It's bad because they treat men as an inherent evil that cannot be fixed outside eradication.

Early feminism was about how women should have the right to exist in the same spaces as men without risk, why do you want there to suddenly be segregation again?

It's all gender essentialism and an inability to actually fix the core problem. We can demand that society does better in getting rid of abusers but we cannot say that "abuser = man".

Radfems think that transandrophobia isn't real and use mocking terms for it.

Radfems think that a woman is uniquely incapable of being an abuser.

Radfems will doubt a man's ability to control his sexual urges.

Radfems will state that a man's romantic attraction are different from a woman's.

Radfems try to act like sex is a binary and intersex people should just "pick a sex".

Radfems think that the mutilation of intersex people at birth should happen under some circumstance.

Radfems say "cis people can get hormone blockers" as a way to erase intersex people.

Radfems don't believe in nonbinary people if they're AFAB, and if a nonbinary person dare present masc then clearly they're a man.

Radfems believe AFAB nonbinary people are just playing a funny pronoun game

Radfems will ignore WOC

Radfems will see a WOC not fitting the White Woman Beauty Standard, and then treat her as subhuman and evil

Radfems will see a MOC and start throwing slurs such as the n-word because the target is a man

And if you agree with any of those, even performativity, I will call you a radfem. I don't care if you don't think of yourself as one, you are.

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What😃

This is how “feminist” men really feel.

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yall are like .. i can excuse misogynistic slurls 🥰 but i draw the line at misgendering 🤬😠

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MERF:MALE EXCULUSIVE RADICAL FEMINISM

FOF: FEMALE ONLY FEMINISM

AFF:ALL FEMALE FEMINISM

FTFOFF: FOR THE FUTURE OF FEMALES FEMINISM

NMAF: NO MALES ALLOWED FEMINISM

MWASAPOF: MARRIED WOMEN ARE STILL A PART OF FEMINISM

FWDIAWASAPOF: FEMALES WHO DONT ID AS WOMEN ARE STILL A PART OF FEMINISM