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Back in the day, people would become so pissed off, they would anonymously air out their personal larry receipts out of pure pettiness. Good times.

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right after kmm, louis came over to my side and i held rbb high in the air. here is the video of louis pointing at me and rbb 😭

NOT MY VIDEO

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we need to start traumatizing them back

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During the Mexican premiere, Charlie stated that he felt the events that took place between Louis and Freddie were very natural and not forced or orchestrated. Charlie mentioned that it was unclear whether they were going to see Freddie or just covering the event, but either way, nothing was set up or planned. Regarding the specific incident of Louise kissing Freddie on the lips, to the best of my knowledge, I have never witnessed Freddie addressing Louis as "daddy." Instead, it has consistently been Louis who initiates physical contact by kissing Freddie, and it appears that Freddie does not acknowledge or recognize Louis in return.Let me know, what are your thoughts on this?"

Hi friend! I think Louis' AOTV was very carefully orchestrated to further the story that Louis wants to tell. One thing that I pointed out after the movie was that Louis' "brand" during 1D was that he was the perfect, long-term boyfriend. And yet if you watched this movie and didn't know anything about Louis, you'd think he'd never dated anyone in his life. His public GFs were entirely...Danielle'd. Freddie is what Louis has left that makes some people say, "He must be straight." Because we live in a heteronormative society, and people think the default setting on sexuality is straight.

I think it's unlikely Charlie Lightening would know the truth about Babygate. Everyone loves Louis, and he's great at seeming to be completely open, but actually being private. I think few people are on the inner circle. Probably Oli and a small handful of others at most. Even Liam, who became his best friend in 1D, seemed to have no idea what Louis had been struggling with. So Charlie likely just sees Louis interacting with a cute kid that he's told is Louis' son, and he gets some good footage. I think as a videographer he was visually pleased with the sunset footage. It looked nice. But it also looked too perfect to be real. And I agree F seems to like Louis just fine but doesn't really treat him as dad. Louis seems to enjoy being around other people's kids, including F. The kid is cute, so why not? Who wouldn't enjoy flying a kite at sunset and running in the sand? But F never really seems entirely comfortable.

I think Louis has come to an acceptance of the situation with F for the moment at least. It's got to be exhausting to have fought so hard at the start and lost....for now.

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hello i dont want to come off as rude but can you give me a quick rundown of why harry is possibly trans? also is being genderfluid/nonbinary sit under the trans umbrella as well? i hope this isnt too uncomfortable to answer! thank you!

hi! you don’t come off as rude at all! and i’ll try my best to give you as much info as i can off the top of my head!

so, being trans means to identify as a gender other than the one assigned to you at birth. the white stripe in the trans flag actually includes all non-binary genders. there are both binary and non-binary trans people, so while both groups fall under the trans umbrella, non-binary identities (genderfluid, genderqueer, agender, etc.) sit under a small umbrella within the bigger one.

i obviously can’t say this without being clear that i don’t know every single person on tumblr dot com, but i haven’t come across a single person who believes harry is a binary trans woman (an amab who identifies exclusively as a woman). when we say harry is trans, we mean we think that harry has a non-binary gender, which is still considered trans, so we think he’s a non-binary trans person.

he’s spoken about gender, and about femininity/masculinity and his own personal relationship to this with more consideration than you can ever expect from a cis man.

“What’s fem­i­nine and what’s mas­cu­line…it’s like there are no lines any more.” - The Face

“I think ‘Lights Up’ came at the end of a long period of self-reflection, self-acceptance. Through the two years of making the record, I went through a lot of personal changes — I just had the conversations with myself that you don’t always have. And I just feel more comfortable being myself.” - Rolling Stone

“A part of it was having, like, a big moment of self-reflection. And self-acceptance. I think it’s a very free, and freeing, time. I think people are asking, ‘Why not?’ a lot more. Which excites me. It’s not just clothes where lines have been blurred, it’s going across so many things.” - The Guardian

“I think there’s so much masculinity in being vulnerable and allowing yourself to be feminine, and I’m very comfortable with that. Growing up you don’t even know what those things mean. You have this idea of what being masculine is and as you grow up and experience more of the world, you become more comfortable with who you are.” - i-D Magazine

“What women wear. What men wear. For me it’s not a question of that. If I see a nice shirt and get told, ‘But it’s for ladies.’ I think: ‘Okaaaay? Doesn’t make me want to wear it less though.’ I think the moment you feel more comfortable with yourself, it all becomes a lot easier.” - The Guardian

“I don’t think people are still looking for this gender differentiation. Even if the masculine and feminine exist, their limits are the subject of a game. We no longer need to be this or that. I think now, people are just trying to be good.” - L’Officiel

thematically speaking, fine line just screams gender. we know that harry puts a lot of thought into his image, into how he will be perceived. we also know that he loves a good callback, he loves weaving together an intricate narrative (eroda exists), and that he has never met a coincidence in his life. 

the cover of his album has the colors of the trans flag (he’s the white in the flag) while the photos inside have the colors of the non-binary flag (x), which came from a deliberate collaboration between harry and tim walker, a gay photographer who explores queer themes in his work. from the guardian interview:

“In terms of how I wanna dress, and what the album sleeve’s gonna be, I tend to make decisions in terms of collaborators I want to work with. I want things to look a certain way. Not because it makes me look gay, or it makes me look straight, or it makes me look bisexual, but because I think it looks cool. And more than that, I dunno, I just think sexuality’s something that’s fun. Honestly? I can’t say I’ve given it any more thought than that.”

(i’d like to emphasize that at this point, harry was becoming more guarded with his answers as the interviewer got more invasive about his sexuality, and flat out questioned if the album cover was a nod to the trans flag or if harry was just a straight dude sprinkling lgbtq crumbs)

he also sported pink+blue nails both during promo of the album and before, when he wasn’t working.

there are plenty of lyric analyses of she and fine line (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7) though my favorite part about these songs is that in she, he alternates between his normal register and falsetto which happens when he switches between describing the man and woman, and he sings the entirety of fine line in falsetto (though it really hits different from the la one night only show)

he’s grown more comfortable with wearing thinks that lend will to his feminine expression, both for performances/appearances, and his personal life, like his vibrantly colored nails which he’s said he feels naked without now, or his pearl necklace (which he wore under a hoodie during christmas with his family), or his precious pink and lavender shoe strings.

there’s genuinely so many more examples like people close to him using female pronouns and neutral/fluid language to talk about harry, including the lovely harris reed who is genderfluid, or the fact that he can’t seem to shut up about childbirth, plus things i’ll refrain from mentioning because they discuss his body image meaning it’s more speculative than things that have been shown to the public so not necessarily evidence

oh! also he has a mermaid tattoo (which has a connection to the trans community in the UK) and when asked why he got it, he simply said “it’s because i’m a mermaid”

also also honorable mention to the fact that harry idolizes female artists and the fact that stevie nicks has taken him under her wing, which she has only done for budding female artists, and introduced him to the coven, which frankly, when has any man ever

so that’s some of the reasons why we think harry is trans. i’d also like to mention that the majority of us who are comfortable enough to have this conversation are trans ourselves, and we feel a personal connection to him and the signaling he’s done over the years, we see a bit (or a lot) of ourselves in his journey to self-discovery, or he’s made us realize our own identities just be being himself.

“boy or girl, whatever it decides” 💗

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more old photos of one direction here

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he just walks around with the big dick energy and gorgeous blue eyes and soft mussed up hair and a heartbreaker smile and the sharpest cheekbones and i'm here looking at all of this through a phone screen. a miniscule equipment that could never capture how ethereal he truly is. sigh

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“It’s massively important for me, again, from being eighteen years old and being in the industry, that’s how old I was when I started with the band. There’s been an element of wanting to keep your private life private, there’s a reason it’s called a private life. Sometimes that’s more challenging with my job so I like to kind of open up with my lyrics and some of it is kind of open to interpretation in terms of what it specifically means, but my private life— that’s the way that you stay sane in this job. You’ve gotta have those little moments for yourself. Theres amazing— you know like on Christmas day with my family, it’s an incredible time, never would I be putting any of those pictures up on Instagram cause that’s my time.”

— Louis about his private life for Z100 New York 11.11

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Do you ever think about the fact that Louis clearly cares enough about the stag tattoo to have the surgery for his broken arm come as close as possible to the tattoo without damaging it? Like idk if it was much more difficult that way, but it sure doesn’t look like the default angle to try and fix a broken bone, so there was definitely thought that went into that choice.

And then think about the fact that Harry was known as Hershel Azoff around the time Louis got that tattoo.

And that Hershel means deer

Yeah me neither

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Louis “not to be gay on main but” Tomlinson

H: so between me and louis who’s in front and who’s behind? L: I think we kind of share that really. Yeah, sometimes you take the front, and- H: Sometimes I take the front, if he’s a bit tired, I’ll go behind and push him along. L: Yeah, but um, you know we’re both you know quite generous to each other, so we think you know, sometimes he should…get to do what he wants to do and go first. INT: a bit of give and take? Z:*loses it* L: yes

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all the members of one direction singing one direction songs but not getting back together is the slowest slow burn i’ve ever witnessed

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@shippingalongnicely you are so sweet my friend! This is the perfect pin for my blog and I love it so much 💖 😍 thank you thank you!!

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@shippingalongnicely you are so sweet my friend! This is the perfect pin for my blog and I love it so much 💖 😍 thank you thank you!!

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Thank you! I like your new name 🥑

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