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When the signs feel beautiful

Venus in 1st - when they feel good about themselves and their appearance, when they are complimented by others, when they feel good about life

Venus in 2nd - when they have beautiful possessions, when they realize their own value, when their life is comfortable(financially)

Venus in  3rd - when given opportunity to express themselves, when they write, when they are heard

Venus in 4th - when they are at home, surrounded by the people they love, when they are given the opportunity to take care of people and themselves

Venus in 5th - through practicing their hobbies, doing what they love and having fun, when they are in love, when they can show off

Venus in 6th - through making their routine beautiful and organized, when they help others, when they are healthy, fit and organized.

Venus in 7th- when they have good relationships with others and are liked by others, when they feel appreciated and equal

Venus in 8th - when they feel close and intimate with someone, when they can share secrets without feeling shameful, when they express their sexuality

Venus in 9th - when they discover new things and learn, when they teach others and travel, when people believe in them

Venus in 10th - when their reputation is good and they are respected, when they have success in their career

Venus in 11th - when they are around people, when they help other people and animals and do good for the world

Venus in 12th - when they heal, learn and get over bad past experiences, when they get their spiritual awakening, when they get closure about things that have worried them

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Obsessive Venus

Thinking about Venus in 8th. Whatever the Venus sign is, she is driven by deep and dark themes, she seeks for something beyond, to discover and experience. Colored by Scorpio energy, Venus in 8th house is prone to seek and attract intense relationships, in order to profound her depths of something that resonates with “LOVE”. Being afflicted or not, she would take a risk, go extra mile or provoke reaction in other person that can bring her a feeling of fulfillment. Those things and methods are usually not healthy and often are blended with obsession and manipulation.

This is pumped with any Pluto aspect she has in natal chart. She doesn’t let go easily. Filled with passion, this Venus often feels a “fated” contact is made and she is able to pursue (in quiet) even the contact is not a formal relationship or feelings are not returned.

If you ask what is aspect of stalker - without doubt there is Venus in 8th. She would dig real deep into you, from sources you cannot imagine, in order to find your weakness - yes, she is searching exactly that. 

Mixed with Pluto she would use all info gathered and serve you in gracious manner... and you can either run or be scared. Anyway, you will not be imune.

In synastry Venus from 8th house is pursuer. Whatever planet makes contact with Venus in her 8th red room - she’s going to put her energy into that planet and take it. But not aggressively. More in insidiously manner.

She is pursuing, but her aim is to make you hunt her. She wants to be possessed, dominated, owned. All her sneaky games are gravitating around her need to be loved, rejected, than taken and adored. She likes drama. She measures love by weight of suffering.

If someone’s Pluto makes contact with Venus - she’s the one who is getting slowly, but inseparable infused with obsession. This energy can last for years. 

Conjuncted with Uranus, Venus in 8th house is not the one who is attracted at first. But soon, it is a matter of right words or days, she becomes fascinated and electrified by Uranus. This is on and off energy, but more stable in Venus than in Uranus person.

Venus in contact with Saturn is slave and sacrificial. Being Plutonized in 8th house, she is the one who is ready to take any humiliation in order to keep you by herself. Actually, she is not aware of the amount of sacrifice she’s taking. The standards are melting.

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Synastry and how it feels being planet, angle, house person Part1

Synastry is fusion of energy of two people. The most searched is synastry of couples or sexual chemistry synastry, although it may be applicable to any relationship - business, family or friendship. Here, we’re going to discuss about love affinity synastry based on experience, personal and research over of 150 people (so far).

The most common question in synastry is “HOW IT FEELS... to be planet/angle/house person” and there is a big reason WHY is asked. Since energy is dynamic force and has changeable modality, it absorbs and creates... it is not often too easy to catch it’s true nature described in one synastry. 

We can blame lack of knowledge (astrological) and taking the aspect interpretation for granted. In life all it matters is FLOW. This is a natural order. We can try to understand it not only by mind, but with heart - soul/inner being/gut..whatever. 

That’s why many  astrolovers  don’t understand why, for example,  VENUS 0 MARS (conjunction) doesn’t work as described in many astrological sources, why you don’t feel that intense consuming passion, wild urge that wet your panties, or at least it’s not mutual.

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Boring part for lazy astrolovers but important 

1. - To know the nature or entity of synastry it is important to know yourself. Be assured that EVERY SINGLE aspect in your natal chart - like it or not - you will FEEL in some point of life.  So, our Natal chart is not just screenshot of transit, of energy of the moment or just your life events. It is hermetic principle in it’s whole existence. AS ABOVE - SO BELOW. AS WITHIN SO WITHOUT. So, having in mind that we all contain microcosmos inside of us, the outside world is our reflection. 

2. - know yourself and do it daily. With consciousness, love and acceptance. We change and evolve. 

3. Having in natal chart any notorious aspect as Venus square Saturn, Mars opposition Saturn, Moon square Mercury it is not a same thing if you operate on mundane, primitive level or you have some degree of self consciousness and FEEL the world within and out yourself.

This energy still exists but in different manner.  And I’ll write about that in another topic. 

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Back to the synastry and how someone is feeling having some placement triggered by other’s energy:

1.Basic rule - PLANET has it’s own vibe and being in specific house in Natal chart - it has extra flavor. When that planet jumps into someone’s house it brings that energy mixed with house person energy.

2. CHART ruler extremely important. It must have connection with your essential planets and points in your own chart. 

3. House angles and their rulers too.

4. TRANSITS are triggers. Doesn’t matter if you have perfect synastry if timing is not right.

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EXAMPLE 1:

Someone’s Mars in Gemini in 5th house - player, joyful, easy to arouse person becomes guest in your 6th house (health, duty, job, bypass between fun 5th and marriage/contract/open enemies 7th house), you have a situation:

-house person feels sex vibe from that person, it’s natural expression and wants that energy, but also wants to direct that energy into something with purpose- 6th house ruled by Virgo. Everything must have purpose. IT’s not a consciousness THING, it is our gravity and this is what pulls planet energy out.

- Mars person gets transformed into 6th house. It is still playful, but in manner to be someone that helps you to get in shape, takes genuine care of your health, mental and psychical. This Mars wants you to become better, to improve you. Still, there is some kind of attraction, because he is naturaly in tune with erotic, but he doesn’t accept you in raw manner as he would in 1st or 8th house - here - HE SHAPES YOU. It can be so exciting.

What would be product of that energy exchange depends of other inter aspects and condition of house ruler, in this case Mercury.

EXAMPLE 2:

If you want sexy Mars Venus conjunction it is not enough to just have it in intense Scorpio or sensual Taurus, or in 8th house. I have couple of examples where I couldn’t feel that connection, except in one case:

- His natal Mars in Virgo is in 12th house with Jupiter and NN and all that conjuncts my Venus in my 8th house. So my Venus (being in his deep 12th house) was instantly from the 1st look upon his face mesmerized.  His Venus in conjunct with my ASC (so we both feel nice in each others presence)

Here 8th Venus in conjunction with Mars becomes catcher, or pursuer...but in Virgo terms.. subtle :D Mars is passive, observant. Even the energy is strong and evident - it takes a stroke from Above to move two Earths!

Other guy had Mars in my 8th house which is his chart ruler and he is deeply moved by Venus.  Since my Venus is guest on his 6th house cusp, it’s friendly but here Virgo being amplified - not so turned on. 

If Venus is afflicted it may bring obsession, moodiness, dependency, lack of selfesteem or Venusian characteristics disorted. 

EXAMPLE 3:

. Having someone’s luminary (Sun, Moon) in your 4th house and (or) your 12th house - you will always have some deep connection with that person and forgive him/her more than you would for someone else. 

This angle house is sensitive place, it is your warm place, naturally ruled by Cancer in modern astrology. This is your “feels like home” place - physically or emotionally. Sun or Moon person feels your warmth and acceptance, but surely has it’s way to rub your buttons on the wrong way or even take advantage of your flexibility to forgive them. Even if you break up relationship, even when you’re angry, still this person would have some special place in your heart. Even (s)he hurt you and broke in 1000 pieces, still you would somehow have a nice words for him. This is unconditional love, but you can love and be distant - for your sake :)