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If you receive this, you make someone happy. Go on anonymous and send this to ten of your followers who make you happy or some that you think need cheering up. If you get some back, even better. c:

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🍊 - Soooo talented

I don't know who sent this but yeah, you too.

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Russet

Me too buddy. Me too.

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🥜 - Have a peanut

Yay! Someone sent us a gift~

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Fruits & Vegetables Ask Game

🥝 - I feel the need to protect you 🥥 - Chill vibes 🍇 - Would feed ducks by the lake with you 🍈 - One of the best blogs I follow 🍉 - Cool, calm, and collected 🍊 - Soooo talented 🍋 - You seem bitter 🍌 - Chaos Demon 🍍 - People need to put some respect on your name 🥭 - I'd really like to be friends with you 🍎 - Popular AF 🍏 - A little tart but still sweet 🍐 - Soft vibes 🍑 - Will kick someone's ass if necessary 🍒 - Probably a great kisser 🍓 - Big Brained AF 🍅 - Gender Envy 🍆 - BDE 🥵 🌽 - Corny but we like you anyway 🍄 - You grow on people like a fungus 🥑 - Let's make toast! 🥒 - Great sense of humor 🥦 - Let's take a walk through the woods 🥬 - In love with you tbh 🥕 - Marry me rn or I'll fight you with this carrot 🥔 - I just think you're neat 🧄 - Life of the party 🧅 - I'm so glad we're friends 🌰 - Let's cuddle by the fireplace together 🥜 - Have a peanut

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So um... most of my rp blogs are on hiatus for now. I will be around and possibly do a few things now and then, but largely I feel like I have been dealing with creative burn out. I understand if that sort of thing makes someone uncomfortable, and they choose to either soft or hard block me but I wanted to get it out there.

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BOLD WHICH TROPE YOU PREFER. ( or, in some cases, maybe just hate the least! )

slowburn or love at first sight.

fake dating or secret dating.

enemies to lovers or best friends to lovers.

oh no there’s only one bed or long-distance correspondence.

hurt / comfort or amnesia.

fantasy au or modern au.

mutual pining or domestic bliss.

smut or fluff.

canon-compliant or "fix-it."

reincarnation or character death.

one-shot or multi chapters.

kid fic or road trip fic.

arranged marriage or accidental marriage.

college romance or middle-aged romance.

time travel or isolated together.

neighbors or roommates.

sci-fi au or magic au.

angst or crack.

apocalyptic or mundane.

Tagged by @iriysse and @niveien-hloirelos

Tagging: I have no idea who has and who has not done this so if you want to do it feel free to say I tagged you.

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Sad to see you removed some blogs from your list, everything ok?

In general everything is fine here. April was a hard month for me personally which is why I was around so much less than I typically would be, but it gave me time to think about how make things easier on both myself and those who want to interact with me.

I removed some of the blogs from the list for several reasons, one of which being that I haven't used some of them in several years. I am not sure when or even if I will get those blogs back up and running.

The bigger reason is that I have realized that having all of my blogs listed, or even most of them, is not working well. I have had someone stalking my blogs through others who follow me and having the list as complete as it was made it easier for them to do so. They commented on a blog that literally only had two people following and frankly I am not going to encourage that sort of behavior.

tl;dr I'm fine I just decided that it makes it easier for people who follow my blogs to find active blogs, and it lets me set better boundaries.

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THIS IS THE BEST THING I HAVE EVER SEEN

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Something I made while dealing with my own stuff and hoping drawing this would pick me up somehow. Maybe it worked.

FT my cat. His name is Mischief

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Hello! Ao3 has been part of an unauthorized data scrape for GenAI purposes. If your fic has an ID number between 1 and 63200000, it may be a part of the data set and you can file a DMCA copyright infringement notice on the American sites it was uploaded to. Each of you will need to request a takedown.

Here’s a link to the information.

It is a reddit link, but it has the other links you’ll need in one place.

(Tagging with as many medias as I can remember so it gets to more fandoms)

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I feel like sharing headcanon ideas I have but can't pick for who or on what.

the options

Larcatal (new oc)

Elwing

Miriel

Amaurea (old oc)

Ruinanwa (Feanorion oc)

Lintestel (another oc but not really new nor old)

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//Definitely agree. Personally I prefer to reblog from the source if I don't feel the ask list is something that fits between myself and the receiver. I always try to send things though because nothing is as discouraging as seeing a huge list of reblogs and still getting nothing in the inbox.

REGULAR REMINDER THAT IT IS COMMON COURTESY TO SEND AN ASK TO THE PERSON YOU REBLOGGED AN ASK GAME FROM !! THIS PART OF TUMBLR CULTURE HAS BEEN LOST OVER THE LAST FEW YEARS SO PLEASE KEEP ASKS GAMES ALIVE BY SENDING ASKS !!

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On the topic of block evasion.

Have you ever been blocked? Whether that be over a conflict, an opinion you had, or no known reason, maybe you might be tempted to make a new account or blog and try to contact them on there. Maybe you might be tempted to log out and read their blog as a "guest." Maybe you might be tempted to get a friend to contact them and ask why they blocked you.

Full stop.

If somebody blocks you, that is an indication that they do not want to talk to you, they do not want to interact with you, they do not want you interacting with them, and they do not want to be associated with you in any way. They are putting up a boundary.

It doesn't matter why they blocked you. They can block you for so much as liking apples more than oranges. They don't even need a reason to block you. The only reason needed for blocking someone is that you want to.

You can block anyone and everyone on this site as long as you want to. And if somebody blocks you, you leave them alone. Don't try to get your friend to ask them why. Don't make alternate accounts to ask them why or to continue an argument. Don't even touch their blog in any capacity.

And I can't believe I have to say this, but block evasion isn't limited to interaction. If you're getting a friend to send you screenshots of their posts or making an alt/logging off to read their posts, that also counts as block evasion, because you are circumventing a block so that you could do something that you wouldn't be able to do on an account that was blocked by the person.

People have boundaries for a reason. People don't owe you an explanation, they don't owe you the privilege of reading their posts, and they definitely don't have to interact with or see you online if they don't want to.

Stop block evading. Period.