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i don’t think people understand how much of life is grief. not just people dying, but losing the version of yourself you thought you’d become. grieving the city you had to leave. the friends you lost not in argument, but in silence. the summer that will never come back. the feeling that maybe you peaked at 12 when you were reading books under the covers and believing in forever

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it's so funny how we as a person can have different personalities

My God, my God, whose performance am I watching? How many people am I? Who am I? What is this space between myself and myself?

-Fernando Pessoa, The Book of Disquiet

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Pretty face, haunted mind

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Oh Lord...

Ease my heart to let go of something that isn't destined to be mine.

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Its always two dumb bitches telling each other 'exactlyyyy'!!

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Private, demanding, very high standards, clearly not for everyone

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the goal in life is to be the most well dressed, educated, sophisticated, emotionally intelligent and wise woman you have ever met

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are love letters still a thing? I want one

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DREAM HOUSEE INDEED!!

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Don't sabotage your future peace because familiar chaos is comfortable.

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I saw those old pictures, i think i miss you, the sunset, the beach, the way your hair fall from the breeze, your little hand wrapped in mine, the fireworks sparkles that evening sky... I swear to God, I miss your head on my shoulders. Wish I was brave enough to admit how intense my feelings are for you.

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Would things be better if I believe in myself a little more?

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Between the glimpse of light and darkness, now you're standing in the middle, and the question spinning around your head asks you, 'Where would you throw yourself to?'

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The gray color crossed my path, blue and brown as few times sent me drown, humid breeze and the sound of waves that unravel every shade of my being, maybe just maybe, should be grateful for every raw emotion...

-Srikandiescapism

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How to Be The ✨Main Character✨ of Your Life 👑

Being the main character of your life means taking charge of your own narrative, making intentional choices, and living authentically. This doesn't mean life will be perfect. It means you're actively participating in your journey, making choices that align with your values, and striving to live a fulfilling life.

Understand yourself. Your desires, strengths, weaknesses, and emotions. What you like and do not like. Reflect on your actions and decisions regularly.

Figure out, decide and commit to the life you want.Both short term and long term. Break these goals down into small steps.

Take action. Don't wait for things to happen; make them happen.

Every main character faces obstacles. They build you. They show you, and others, how bad you want it. Instead of avoiding challenges, face them head-on. They're opportunities for growth.

Physical, emotional, and mental well-being are crucial. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, meditation, and adequate sleep can make a huge difference. How you treat yourself is how much you do or do not love yourself.

Surround yourself with positive influences and people who uplift you. Limit exposure to negative media or toxic individuals.

The world is full of knowledge. Always be curious. Read books and take courses. Always learn.

Connect deeply with others. Genuine relationships add richness to life.

Be true to yourself. Don't live to meet others' expectations. Celebrate your uniqueness.

Regularly acknowledge and appreciate the good in your life. There is always something to be grateful for. It shifts your focus from what's lacking to what's abundant. How you look at life is what you will attract.

Find balance in work, relationships, and personal time. Create a life that is fulfilling. You are not just one aspect of your life.

Imagine yourself succeeding and achieving your goals. This positive visualization can be a powerful motivator. Live your life as if it is already done.

Life will have its ups and downs. Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks and keep moving forward.

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Between the glimpse of light and darkness, now you're standing in the middle, and the question spinning around your head asks you, 'Where would you throw yourself to?'

Between the certainty  of light and darkness  there’s a play of shadows,  a question. Between self and other  there’s an encounter  called distance.