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help shawols aren't grasping that confidence's mv is a direct sequel to circle

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This is an all timer photo to me

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CREAM SODA????

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What is the the point of hate watching minho's channel. God forbid a man be at the gym instead of terrorizing the populace.

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being 5th gen has to be so funny bc ur competing with your age cohort and then here comes monsta x starting to get active again and showing cheeks to cause even more competition

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Changmin + Utsuroi MV (2022)

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like these are real yearners begging for one whiff of pussy or they will die, stop playing in their faces

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people are jumping them on twitter trying to talk about svt and ateez and whoever else that has buff men and it's like you guys don't get it. minho and taecyeon are old school pantydroppers. minho to this day makes grown women start giggling like schoolgirls. taecyeon is thee himbo of all time. you can't just have big boobs, they have to be big because they are full of charm.

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Mabe im a bit TOO blackpilled but I have friends who fall head over heels in love with every single newly debuted bg and spend their whole paychecks on them and all I can think about is how definitely at least half of all these dudes are raging misogynists and homophobes. I only like shinee members but even they all have misogynistic friends that they dont care to disown because they dgaf

I don't find it really helpful to start thinking of artists this way because we'd be left with like 15 people globally. Anyone could "probably" be anything so unless they blatantly show an issue, I don't want to know their business. It also makes you start looking for a reason to not like someone and waiting for them to screw up so you can "feel right" about knowing something was up, and at the end of the day, I'm not spending my one wild and precious life ruminating over idols. It's also not helpful bc fans shouldn't have to be responsible like that. If an idol is a weirdo that's on the idol.

And people can spend their money on what they want but the flipside of that is just because you spend your money on something doesn't mean those people are going to say and do and act how you want. I am also 30 years old so a group of teenage guys has no appeal to me so thankfully i don't have to give af most of the time about new debuts. Top 40 music these days, even outside of kpop, is kind of shit tier anyways. I enjoy Shinee bc their music is good and they always put on a good show. Minho is obv my bias and I like to watch his vlogs and see his travel videos bc he and I share interests, but like I fr don't care if someone else doesn't like him and I don't care to buy things bc he does brand deals or brag about that stuff like they're my achievements??? still annoyed at him over mickey d's he's not getting money from me that's for sure. A lot of ppl also act like it's a personal insult if someone doesn't like their fave (kpop or not) and it's like do you have no identity outside of fandom? Just be normal and you will be okay. I kind of don't care what other people are doing either because okay yeah it's deranged behavior to act like that but I have real life problems. I'm not thinking about akgaes.

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Gnarly isn't that bad. Some boygroups have definitely dropped worse shit than that with a beat you can't even throw ass to

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jjong would have hated bubble he'd be like stay tf out of my business. you will know how i feel from my cryptic 2 am tweets and accept this.

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personally, not spending money on stuff for idols really keeps you from getting in too deep.

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your post really got me thinking how fans do have a tendency to go ballistic over dating and then just sweep everything else under the rug as “fake news.” that ft island guy literally preyed on laboum’s yulhee and she got all the fallout for “dating” :( it’s no wonder that creeps like zico and probably others fly under the radar with such a toxic environment

it's very cult like behavior, but celebrity culture is built to be like that so fans will keep spending money no matter what and people act like it's solely a kpop thing but people hated the Beatles for getting married too so it's just age old batshit fan behavior. Swifties act the same even if they don't want to admit it, but it all boils down to owning the celebrity one way or another. Whether it's hating them for dating because they are "yours" or rabidly defending them if they date the "right" person bc then the relationship itself becomes part of it. The fan always has to feel included. Which is why shipping is so encouraged because it's the benefit of that + it's not real so there's no risk posed to the company + it generates a lotttttt of money.

If you add in the misogyny however, female idols will always get the worst of it because they tend to have a more even distribution of male + female fans, so there's the extra layer of possessiveness and the being a slut allegations, where male idols tend to have mostly female fans who kind of play into this double edged sword of being the market for these dudes and having delusions of owning them, but also enabling them to hurt other women by defending them. They usually do this because it's safer to "lust after" or be obsessed with a celeb man (or a character) than a man they know personally, but that then makes them really protective of this image so they're willing to sweep things under the rug or downright ignore them. Add that to the preferential treatment all men get in a patriarchal society (which is most) and it's how you get dudes like Seungri. Who still has shooters :/

Which is why we WHAT? Find somewhere to keep them at arms length so you don't fall into the delusion.

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I bet if you looked at all the idols caught up in solicitation scandals, they'd have producers and directors in common

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why are all these men involved with prostitution. genuinely. why are men in the kr entertainment industry addicted to being pimps

Well it's not just the kr entertainment industry by any means, but I also don't know why ppl are surprised when they jump idols for dating and then they go out and meet escorts on top of the misogyny of it all. That one weirdo from FT Island was at the brothel so often the owners were like bro go home and he still got custody of his kids. Men can get away with all sorts of sex crimes, but don't let ppl be dating oughh. It's a cult mentality to me. Not to mention Burning Sun is probably not the only case like that and yet those freaks are all out wandering around and Zico is just sitting there unscathed.

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MC Mong PROSTITUTION CLAIMS???????? oh he's over.