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man-squared · 10 months

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People really think when you talk about lesbians being men or having relationships with men means you want them personally to go sleep with every man and not that you want every lesbian to have their own autonomy to decide what lesbianism means to them personally.

Like literally, the people who make large ass call out posts or posts that whine that there are people who are mspec lesbians or lesbian men or just that some lesbians have sex with men always make it so personal no matter if they are a lesbian or not. They seem to not be able to remove themselves from someone else's lesbianism and autonomy.

No one (seriously, no one besides actual lesbophobes) are claiming that you, a lesbian, has to have any relation to men. You do not have to date or have sex with lesbian men (or mspec lesbians), and guess what! We don't want to do those things with you either. No one is saying that because a small percentage of lesbians might have sex with men and/or be attracted to men, you as a lesbian have to. I don't know why you decided that you have to live in a world with communal absolutes. Not all lesbians are you, and you are not all lesbians (like really do you like the same women as every other lesbian? No, because you aren't other lesbians). Let lesbians have autonomy. Let lesbians live. Let queer people be!

Tldr: you don't have to do what other lesbians do. Just because a lesbian has any kind of relationship with men doesn't mean you have to. Other lesbians existing do not negate your lesbianism.

#long #lesbian #men #like you all do realize lesbianism is as much personal as it is communal. you dont have to fit in a lesbian box based on a gold star-#-lesbian who sees herself as the perfect gay.#and its always like 'well no nonbinary lesbians or butch lesbians... well maybe they are ok but they are on thin ice... but not these-#-other lesbians. those ones are demons on earth sent to hurt the saints that are lesbians“ like ppl keep moving the goal post and if you-#-arent rhe 'perfect image of x' then you arent an x or queer. just a faker who actively harms the whole community somehow despite not-#-having access to said community 🤷🏻‍♂️.#also pay attention to posts like the one that just popped up. there tends to be a lot of aphobes and queerphobes. (and usually a ton of-#-transphobes). like i saw a lot of this discourse on twitter and the amount of t women pushing back against it every time was wonderful-#-and then they would be called fake t women and the extreme transphobes would call them terrible names and misgendering them. (v similar to-#-the transfemmes who support trans ppl talking abt their own specific transphobia. and also similar to the ppl who call any-#-lesbian who is not the perf lesbian who agrees w them a non-lesbian. it happens every fucking time.)#queer #man²

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