Happy Agender Pride Day, my fellow Agender gremlins and beings and blorbos!
You're a valid agender if you: present androgynous, present fem, present masc, are an agender boy, and agender girl, use multiple labels to describe your gender, use he/him or she/her or they/them or it/its or any neopronoun, you're valid if you still semi relate to a gender or not at all! And, you're valid if you change your name or not, or if you choose to transition medically/socially or not!
You define who you are as an agender person and no one can take that from you or say it's invalid
Wear what you want, call yourself what you like, use whatever pronouns - whatever fits you best and if people don't like it, they can pry your Agender identity from our cold, dead hands.
I went to the coast for my Bff's mom's funeral service & memorial. It was not good times.
My Bff's brother seems like a good guy, to everyone else, but a long while back, my brother said some bs to him, and I've been persona non grata, for no good reason, ever since.
I went through so many damned old photos. So many shitty photos lol.
Please, I beg you, have your parents and grandparents LABLE YOUR FAMILY PHOTOS. I went through so many photos of people that my friend had NO IDEA who they were. Just some ancestors.
Also, have your parents and grandparents make wills that clearly designate their final wishes about everything. All their burial wishes, money, and THINGS. Fighting over stuff is so stupid after a death.
Being made to feel like you're not valuable is really shitty. Please don't make your friends and family feel that way. Also, transactional relationships are bullshit.
And seven because - As you can probably tell I had a shite time this week. Please tell those you love, whether they're real or chosen family, that you love them, and mean it.