#Divorce Guide

[divorceiswar]

Divorce Is As Devastating As The Death Of A Parent

Marriage is an emotional, physical, and financial commitment that we make to a person that is supposed to last forever.  The dissolution of a marriage, divorce, is like a death.  It is as emotionally devastating as the death of a parent. It is the death of your relationship. In coping with divorce, you should treat the divorce emotionally the same way you would grieve for someone who died.

Consider counseling if you feel you need help with the emotional aspects of divorce and the changes it will bring to your life;

Consider a support group for yourself and your children if you are the parent who has custody;

Be careful about making major decisions immediately after the divorce or separation;

Take care of yourself, do little things to pamper yourself;

Do not be afraid to feel badly.  Some depression is normal—but be careful not to share your negative feelings with your children.  You should seek professional help if you feel it is getting out of control;

Avoid over indulging in drugs, alcohol, or food;

Take the time to accept your part in what caused your relationship to fail.  It is rare for one person to be solely at fault in a divorce.  Forgive yourself and work on forgiving your spouse.  Trying to take some of the anger out of the situation will help you deal with details that have to be taken care of in finalizing a divorce.

Although coping with divorce is devastating, not all aspects of a divorce have to be negative.  Consider the divorce as an opportunity to rediscover yourself.  Take time to do things that you may have enjoyed doing but stopped doing because your spouse did not enjoy them.  Reconnect with friends you have not seen or heard from in a while because your spouse did not like them.  Find new friendships.  Divorce is not just an ending it is a beginning.  Accept mistakes you made learn from them and then move on.

As trite as it sounds, all things do get better with time.  It is hard to believe when you are going through the anger and disappointment of divorce.  It is difficult getting used to being alone again or being afraid that you will always be alone.  One day when you are doing some routine task, you will realize that you are happier now then you were when you were living in a dying relationship.  No one wants a divorce, but it is better than an unhappy marriage.

[anticoquette]

I went thrifting yesterday and found the cutest book on wedding planning but when you flip it over its another book on a guide of divorce. The author lowkey ate that.

[k0mmari]

Endless Abyss Travel Guide — Chapter 4

Matryoshka

[stump-not-found]

Do the Henchmaniacs ever get forced to listen to Bill and Ford bitch about their definitely not situationship?

bro fucking hectorgon has recorded their fights and used it as a sample during his failed stint as a DJ

[kaiii97]

I love her so much

[art-o-gant]

healthiest straight couple in new albion

[straberrymilk-fanfiction]

So; I got a comment the other day and...

(The comment in question)

(I gave up half way if you couldn't tell)

[sleepyminty]

Dante and Vergilius ( Vergil) in original work

Vs Dante and Vergilius (Vergil) in other literations

[divorceiswar]

Treat Your Divorce Like A Business Deal

You need to treat your divorce like a business deal—because that is the way your husband will.  A marriage is nothing more than a contract. Divorce is nothing more than the dissolution of that contract.

Do your research! Read "The Divorce Survival Guide for Women" to learn every aspect of the divorce process. Read the articles and blog posts @www.preparefordivorce.com for even more information.

Consulting with a divorce attorney before you actually need one is the best way to research about what to  expect during the divorce and the divorce process in your state.  This will help you avoid mistakes that could cost you dearly later.

Although it is very important that you hire the best, most experienced divorce attorney that you can afford, you must always remain in control.  Just giving a divorce attorney a retainer and letting him take over is a huge mistake. You need to be involved in every aspect of the divorce process.

Settling your divorce out of court is the ideal situation. You don't want a judge making the decisions that will affect you the rest of your life. Everyone loses in court—from the cost, emotionally and financially—to the chance of getting a bad judge (and most of them are bad). The only winners are the attorneys!

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[arsenicflame]

transparents of the yays from the mysims switch trailer because they were SO Yay! Yippee!!!!!! to me and i needed them (with & without the dropshadow bc i wasnt Sure about it)

Also, one just completely straight one for whatever purposes you might have

[demonir]

So Good Omens fandom, how we doing?

Original under cut ↓

Meet me next year for a fully drawn background <3

[stump-not-found]

If somehow God forbid Bill and Ford end up together at the end of TG. How will the rest of the Pines family react to this?

why god forbid . i think they're pretty healthy . we should structure more relationships around building big doomsday weapons

[zer0point5ive]

lawrence and adam post trap. or whatever you get it

[funkbun]

bugsnax dlc 2: you go to the isle of smallsnax and find out about Cromdo's ex and his kid he's not allowed to see

[codename-adler]

why is Jean so

and Kevin so