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[asmolbirb]

Mumbai, Toronto

thank u for being interested in me darling!! ilu~

Mumbai: What is your favorite scent?

i really like things that smell like “after the rain” or “meadow sweet” or whatever those bullshit nature smells are in candles. i prefer, like, things that are subtle and sweet and fresh, as opposed to things that have sharp and prominent smells.

Toronto: Describe your ideal partner.

boy howdy brace urself anon this is gonna be a ride. under a cut bc i did it in bullet format and it got LONG

tall (5′7″ - 5′11″)

male (mostly bc im pretty sure im heteroromantic although im open to a female partner if im ever romantically attracted to a woman in the future)

kinda soft, like in a non-hypermasculine way

but not overly effeminate or flamboyant

basically just kind and sweet and not super aggressive

a little sassy

memes

knows how to dress well

can cook

curses

speaks another language

musically talented in some way

singing dancing instrument songwriting idgaf

at least somewhat extroverted

but able to enjoy a night in as well

a decent texter

fairly low key but not apathetically low key

like...im not the type of person to make a big deal out of monthiversaries or expensive dinner dates and stuff 

bUT i would want them to, like, remember my birthday and let me be overdramatic when im upset abt things bc that’s how i get over being upset and surprise me every now and then with cute messages telling me they love me and so on

able to take care of me BUT w/ the full understanding that i can take care of myself

like thats super important

i love being taken care of but in a v specific way

dunno that i can articulate it well tbh

kinky (or at least open to trying kinky things)

ambitious

intelligent

doesn’t want kids

vegetarian

this is v much an ideal

i’d settle for someone who’s okay w/ no meat being cooked in house and not eating red meat w/ me

like, pescatarians or people who only eat white meat idk 

adventurous and spontaneous

patient w/ me (esp when i hit a depressive slump bc i know i can be a bit unbearable when i isolate myself and make stupid self-destructive choices)

this list got rly rly rly long but i think basically??? it comes down to 

being a nice, kindhearted, decent human being

who likes a little adventure and spice in their life

who will take care of me when i need to be taken care of but also will treat me as an equal and a formidable person

who is also musically talented and can do the things i can’t

also i low key have a thing for east asian guys

so that’s also part of my ideal rn

partially bc theyre attractive

partially bc of the cultural similarities and the ability to be understood by someone w/o having to explain every little thing

like the whole tiger mom thing for example

white ppl usually dont get it

asian ppl do

but this is V V V much an ideal

and im v flexible abt the types of guys im romantically interested in