#Hindu Crematorium

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Cultural Practices: Banyan-Grove Tree Pt. 1

The Foggy Swamp’s banyan-grove tree is hybrid of a banyan tree and a mangrove tree; the banyan aspect stems from the aerial roots descending from its branches, while the mangrove aspect stems from its ability to thrive in a wetland environment. Both trees are also native to Vietnam, which was a huge inspiration for the Foggy Swamp and its surrounding areas.

@tuktukpodfics​ did an amazing analysis of the banyan-tree’s ecological symbolism, so I won’t go any more in-depth into the botany of these plants.

The banyan tree is significant in Buddhism, Hinduism, and Vietnamese culture. In Buddhism, Siddhartha Gautama (the Buddha) achieved enlightenment after meditating under a species of banyan tree; this is even referenced in the episode by Huu, who reached enlightenment the exact same way. Fun fact: The banyan species that the Buddha meditates under is colloquially known as a “bodhi tree”, due to its cultural significance.

In Hindu culture, the tree is believed to attract ghosts and is often planted near crematoriums. This is because the tree simultaneously symbolizes both immortality and death. The tree itself is perceived as immortal due to its many deeply ingrained and expansive roots. At the same time, where ever the tree grows, no other plant life can live. In other words, Immortality + Death = Ghosts.

These cultural undertones are why the Foggy Swamp inspires both great wisdom and fear from those who visit it. Similarly, this is also why banyan trees are so prominent in the spirit world. They’re basically the physical embodiment of the spirit world.

In Part 2, I’ll discuss the banyan tree’s significance in Vietnamese culture.

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So I saw a lot of criticism by the Sanghis that Hindu mythology is not something one should write fanfiction about or that it's a religion, and therefore people shouldn't interpret and create stories of their own. But let me tell you something: the culture of fanfiction and re-interpretation of Hindu mythology is not at all new; it has been going on for decades.

So, as I said before in the blog, I am a Bengali, so most of the examples I will give are from Bengali literature. So Krishna is a huge part of these fandoms, and a lot of people write and draw things related to him. But this is definitely not a new thing; it has been going on since the time of Joydev's Geeta Govinda and Vidyapati's Vaishnav Padabali. There is a famous poem by Rabindranath Tagore:

শুধু বৈকুণ্ঠের তরে বৈষ্ণবের গান!

পূর্বরাগ, অনুরাগ, মান অভিমান,

অভিসার, প্রেমলীলা, বিরহ মিলন,

বৃন্দাবন-গাথা,—এই প্রণয়-স্বপন

শ্রাবণের শর্ব্বরীতে কালিন্দীর কূলে,

চারি চক্ষে চেয়ে দেখা কদম্বের মূলে

সরমে সম্ভ্রমে, —এ কি শুধু দেবতার!

Which translates to

"Are the songs of Vaishnav for Baikuntha alone?

Courting, attachment, sulkiness, sensitiveness,

Tryst, dalliances, parting and union, theme of,

The songs of Brindaban – this dream of love,

In the Shraban night on the bank of the Kalindi

The meeting of the four eyes under the Kadambatree

In blushing adoration - are these all for the Lord?

Most of the Vaishnav Padaboli and Radha Krishna Leela poets were very much influenced by their personal lives, which makes sense because they never really saw Radha Krishna with their own eyes, so obviously they need some kind of reference and muse for their works. For example, it is said that Vidyapati drew inspiration from the real relationship between a man and woman in that contemporary period for Radha and Krishna. He created the character of Radha from the very image of an adolescent, joyous young girl of that time period. His radha has a lot of human qualities. Then Chandidas, another important poet, apparently based Radha on his own lover, Rami. Rami was a lower-caste woman with whom Chandidas had an affair, but he couldn't marry her because it was not socially acceptable. Chandidas's Radha is portrayed as a sad woman, mourning for her lover from the very beginning, even before she meets Krishna, and it didn't change even when she was united with Krishna, as she was based on Rami, a woman who could never be with the man she loved due to society. Apart from them, the poets who composed Radha Krishna hymns during and after the rise of Sri Chaitanya in Bengal started including Chaitanya in their poetry. They wrote hymns dedicated to Chaitanya alongside Krishna; some of them even started crafting similar descriptions and personalities for both Radha and Chaitanya. It's from their narrative that Radha's love for Krishna symbolises devotees love for god; it was literally Krishna x Chaitanya. CHAITANYA FANFIC!!)

Apart from Vaishnav Padabali, we can also find examples of such works in Sakhta Padabali. For example, the whole concept of Durga pujo in Bengali is inspired by married women visiting their paternal family once a year with their children. The poets basically localised the mighty goddess Durga as a young girl married to Shiva, who is old and penniless. Several poets, like Ramprasad Sen and Kamalakanto (I don't remember his title), wrote hymns from the point of view of Menaka (Parvathi's mother) as she begged Giriraj (Parvati's father) to bring her daughter back. She chides Giriraj for marrying her young daughter to Shiva, who is old and penniless and roams in the crematorium with his ghost acquaintances. She worries about her young daughter suffering all alone in the Himalaya with no one to take care of. Isn't this also a kind of fanfiction? Where goddesses are made into normal women?

Also, if we talk about Mahabharat and the Ramayana, they also had fanfiction even before the rise of Wattpad and Tumblr. All the translations (except a few) adopted these epics in such a way that they could fit into their culture and contemporary society. It's a known fact that Tulsidas's Ramayan deviates a lot from the original one (Maya Sita, vegetarianism, etc.).

So in a way, it can be a retelling of some sort. So if we are shitting upon the culture of retelling and fanfiction, we should also talk about these examples, not only the modern ones. The truth is that retellings and fanfictions are necessary for these types of stories to survive. It makes sense that one modifies these age-old stories so they can fit into contemporary society. Every piece of ancient literature, be it the Greek epics, the Bible, or Hindu mythology, has its own share of retelling and fanfiction. These are not owned by a certain group of people; they don't have the right to gatekeep. People can and should explore these stories from their own point of view. They have the right to rewrite and retell the stories from a modern perspective. So before you chide a blog on Tumblr for writing Mahabharata-inspired fanfiction or incorrect quotes or bully them for writing a canonically incorrect ship,or critices them for writing self insert fic with Krishna stop and think for a second.

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Everytime I visit any historical ruins (there are plenty for someone living in दिल्ली)

I'm somehow reminded of the impermanence of life.

The words "जीवन का एक ही सत्य म्रत्यु है" just make so much sense.

I begin to go down a rabbithole of how things would've been in the past when those buildings were getting made. When each person wanted something grander to be built for their rememberance (some still stand today) yet when they died, they had no one but themselves. Yet when they were making peace with death, which was standing at their doorstep, everyone begged for forgiveness, for one more day, for one more moment to be a changed person.

As a Hindu, I really like how we deal with the concept of death. As someone who studies Advaita philosophy, I love how it approaches death not as this giant entity to be scared of, but as something to just accept as a part of the journey of your eternal soul.

As someone who has dealt with the death of her grandmother and is seeing her ailing, ageing grandparents everyday, it gives me a certain solace to know that she is safe out there, that she is not her body, no body is their physical bodies but their आत्मन which is eternal, forever living. I find solace in knowing that by my actions, my words and my values I can keep her spirit alive.

When we were performing the rituals for her in the body form, I couldn't help but notice how each of them teaches a different value.

When we bathed her for the final time, I was taught the value of having your families as साथि to help you complete your journey.

When we lit the fire that would follow her till the crematorium, it reminded me how the true purpose in life is to follow the flame of knowledge. None of your material possessions follow you, but only the eternal flame of knowledge.

When we performed her 13th day pooja, and the days leading up to it, where we fed her soul with भोजन, it reminded me of how the families are gradually taught to let go of the mortal and remember their values through good deeds and actions (like feeding the needy, donating the clothes to people who are homeless).

When I saw my father go to the crematorium, as a dutiful son in law, despite his disagreements with my mother on various issues, I was taught what co existence means.

When all us cousins flew in from different parts of the country, it taught my love. Love, which is unconditional, which transcends mortal statuses. I had my exam in 2 days, my cousin had her interview the next day, my other cousin brother had his book launch scheduled while my eldest sister had just gotten engaged.

So when I see people fight and wreck havoc due to ideological differences and political gains, I feel like reminding them of the ONLY TRUTH THAT IS PERHAPS नित्य WHICH IS म्रत्यु. I urge them to go to Benaras/काशी, where you see what truly matters in life is - Love and the eternal quest of knowledge.

P.s. if anyone belongs to any other religion please please tell me how you all deal with death, the concept of death and the ritualistic significance. I would really really love to know.

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How Funeral Directors Ensure a Respectful Final Journey

Saying goodbye to a loved one is one of the hardest things we face in life. It's a moment filled with profound emotions, memories, and the need for closure. But amidst the grief, a quiet, compassionate presence ensures everything is handled with dignity and care. That’s where funeral directors come in—a profession that blends empathy with meticulous attention to detail, helping families navigate the most difficult times.

In this blog, we'll explore how top rated Funeral directors in Brisbaneensure your loved one’s final journey is a respectful, meaningful, and heartfelt farewell.

Understanding the Role of Funeral Directors

Funeral directors are much more than funeral organisers; they are caretakers of memories and guardians of traditions. In Brisbane, these professionals are well-versed in the cultural and personal nuances that make each funeral unique. From planning every detail to offering emotional support, funeral directors in Brisbane ensure that each ceremony reflects the wishes of the departed and their families.

Offering Support and Compassion

When a loved one passes away, emotions run high, and making decisions can feel overwhelming. Funeral directors in Brisbane understand this better than anyone. They serve as emotional anchors, guiding families through the necessary steps with sensitivity and care. Whether helping to choose the right flowers, arranging transportation, or simply lending a listening ear, their presence brings a sense of calm in the storm.

Crafting a Personalised Farewell

Every life is unique, and so should be every farewell. Funeral directors in Brisbane excel in crafting personalised ceremonies that truly reflect the individuality of the departed. Whether it’s a favourite song, a special reading, or a specific cultural ritual, they ensure that these elements are thoughtfully included, making the ceremony a goodbye and a celebration of life.

Navigating the Complexities

Planning a funeral involves a lot of logistics, and it’s easy to feel lost amidst all the paperwork and arrangements. This is where the expertise of funeral directors in Brisbane truly shines. They handle all the details, from coordinating with cemeteries and crematoriums to ensuring legal requirements are met, allowing families to focus on what matters—saying goodbye.

Providing a Sense of Closure

One of the most challenging aspects of losing a loved one is finding closure. A well-conducted funeral can be an essential step in the grieving process, helping family and friends to begin the healing journey. Funeral directors in Brisbane are skilled in creating an atmosphere that allows for this emotional release. Through their careful ceremony orchestration, they provide a space where memories can be shared, tears can be shed, and goodbyes can be said respectfully and healingly.

Cultural Sensitivity: Respecting Traditions and Beliefs

Funerals are as diverse as those who call a multicultural city like Brisbane home. Funeral directors are attuned to the various cultural and religious practices that may influence a funeral ceremony. Whether it’s a traditional Christian service, a Hindu cremation, or a non-religious celebration of life, they ensure that the ceremony aligns with the family’s beliefs and customs, honouring the deceased in a manner that is both respectful and appropriate.

Support Beyond the Ceremony

The funeral director's role doesn’t end once the ceremony is over. Many funeral directors in Brisbane offer continued support, helping families navigate their grief in the following weeks and months. 

Conclusion

In a world where death is often seen as a taboo topic, funeral directors in Brisbane stand out as compassionate professionals who bring dignity, respect and care to the final journey of our loved ones. Their dedication to ensuring a respectful farewell and their deep understanding of human emotions make them invaluable in our times of need. So, the next time you think of funerals, remember the quiet heroes who make it all possible, ensuring that every life is honoured and every journey is respected.

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Gauri Khan, Karisma Kapoor, Arjun Kapoor, Arhaan Khan among others visit Malaika Arora's mother's home to offer emotional support | Hindi Movie News

Malaika Arora‘s father Anil Mehta tragically passed away at 62 on Wednesday, September 11, in what is being reported as a suicide. He was laid to rest the following day at the Santacruz Hindu Crematorium in Mumbai, where members of the film industry gathered to pay their respects.Following the prayer meet held on Friday night, September 13, celebrities including Gauri Khan, Bhavana Panday, Seema…

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Salman Khan Visits Malaika Arora To Offer Condolences After Her Father Anil Mehta's Demise | People News

Mumbai: Bollywood superstar Salman Khan was seen visiting Malaika Arora’s father, Anil Mehta’s residence to offer his condolences following Mehta’s tragic death. Anil Mehta allegedly died by suicide on Wednesday. Salman was spotted stepping out of his car under tight security. Earlier in the day, Malaika’s father was laid to rest at the Santacruz Hindu Crematorium in Mumbai, where members of the…

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Everything You Should Know About the Professional Hindu Funeral Service London

Death is the ultimate truth, and no one can escape its claws. However, families have to perform funeral rituals when someone dies in their family. Though this is the most painful moment, as relatives, it is our duty to maintain such piousness. With a professional Hindu funeral service in London, the task becomes easier. Here is all about the Hindu funeral service.

Hindu Death Rituals

Hinduism believes in reincarnation. It means that once the death happens, the sound of the person leaves the body and never returns to it; however, it travels to another body, which is known as the birth of a baby. This is the reason the dead body gets burned at the crematorium. Since the process is complex and there are certain rituals that have to be followed in different beliefs, it is important to know the exact death rituals in Hinduism.

Washing- The ritual starts by washing the body with several ingredients like milk, honey, yogurt, and ghee.

Applying Essential Oils-  Applying essential oils is another part of the ritual. Sandalwood mainly applied for men and turmeric for women.

Dressing- No dead body left naked till it is on the fire. A simple white cloth sheet is worn to the person who has died. There are some stylish and pricy clothes are also used to perform this ritual.

Flowers and Rice- In some funeral process, the attendees are allowed to place a garland of flowers and rice balls around the loved once. Several leaves like basil also used to adorn the body.

Lighting Lamp- Lamp is important to place near the head as it signifies the purity and assists the safe journey of the soul.

Sprinkling Water- Sprinkling water on the body is a symbol of cleansing the dead body, and it is part of the ritual.

Conducting Hindu Cremation Process

According to the scriptures, the cremation should be done as soon as possible. It is ideal to take place within the first day. Meanwhile, friends and family come to the home to offer their last respects, and then the cremation process starts.

While carrying the body to the crematorium, it is important to bring the body from the side of the feet. Priests and mourners recite hymns that are believed to make the path of liberation easier for the deceased person.

Hindu funeral is complex and there are a number of rituals to follow. Asian Funeral Services offers professional Hindu funeral service London that can mitigate the hassle of funeral of your loved one. Avail of this service to simplify the process!

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Hindon River Cremation Ground Hindu Crematorium

In Ghaziabad, Hindon Shamshan Ghat For each rite, you don't have to go around hunting for a separate service provider. To ensure a seamless ceremony, Hindon Cremation provides a reserved location for the funeral: the Hindon Shamshan Ghat in Ghaziabad.

The following paperwork must be submitted by the deceased's relatives in order for them to use Hindon Shamshan Ghat in Ghaziabad services:

A death certificate from an approved physician is an official document of identity from the Indian government.

Enrollment figure.

Form 4 documentation

In the event of an early or unexpected death, the police will issue a "No Objection Certificate".

The cremation form and the payment receipt if completed earlier.

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🕊️ Exploring the Journey: Cremation Services in Modern Times 🕊️

Cremation, once a niche practice, has become an increasingly popular choice for end-of-life arrangements in many cultures around the world. As society evolves, so too do our customs surrounding death and mourning. In this article, we delve into the significance of cremation services in contemporary society, shedding light on the process and its emotional and practical implications.

🔥 Understanding Cremation: A Sacred Transformation 🔥

At its core, cremation is a sacred ritual of transformation, symbolizing the release of the spirit from the physical body. The process involves the careful incineration of the deceased's remains, typically within a specialized facility known as a crematorium. While cremation has ancient roots, modern technology has refined the process, ensuring dignity and respect for the departed.

💫 Embracing Choice: The Rise of Cremation Services 💫

In recent decades, there has been a notable shift towards cremation as a preferred method of disposition. Factors such as cost-effectiveness, environmental concerns, and changing religious attitudes have contributed to this trend. Cremation services offer families the flexibility to personalize their loved one's farewell, whether through traditional ceremonies or contemporary celebrations of life. To explore cremation services in London and beyond, visit Coffins Direct.

🌱 Eco-Friendly Alternatives: Honoring the Earth 🌱

As environmental awareness grows, so does the demand for eco-friendly cremation options. Green cremation, also known as alkaline hydrolysis or water cremation, uses water and a gentle alkaline solution to break down the body, leaving behind only bone fragments. This innovative approach minimizes carbon emissions and preserves natural resources, offering a sustainable choice for eco-conscious individuals.

🌺 Celebrating Life: Personalized Ceremonies and Memorials 🌺

Cremation services provide families with the opportunity to design meaningful tributes that reflect the unique life and personality of their loved one. From intimate ash scattering ceremonies in serene natural settings to vibrant memorial services filled with music, art, and storytelling, the possibilities are endless. Cremation empowers families to honor their loved one's legacy in a way that resonates deeply with their values and beliefs.

💔 Navigating Grief: Support and Compassion 💔

Losing a loved one is never easy, and the grieving process can be overwhelming. Cremation services offer more than just logistical support; they provide compassionate guidance and emotional solace to families during their time of need. Experienced funeral directors and bereavement counselors are available to assist with every aspect of the cremation process, offering comfort and reassurance along the way.

🌟 Honoring Heritage: Cultural Perspectives on Cremation 🌟

Cremation practices vary widely across different cultures and religions, each with its own unique customs and beliefs surrounding death and the afterlife. From the elaborate cremation pyres of Hindu tradition to the serene simplicity of Japanese Buddhist rites, cremation serves as a poignant expression of cultural identity and spiritual reverence. By honoring these diverse traditions, cremation services foster inclusivity and respect for cultural heritage. To learn more about cremation practices around the world, visit this blog.

🤝 A Compassionate Commitment: Cremation Services Today 🤝

In an ever-changing world, cremation services remain a steadfast source of comfort and support for families facing loss. Whether seeking solace in nature's embrace or finding strength in shared memories, cremation offers a deeply personal and meaningful way to honor the departed. With compassion, dignity, and reverence, cremation services uphold the sacred bond between the living and the dead, guiding us through the journey of grief with grace and resilience.

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Honoring Tradition: Hindu Crematorium Services in Bangalore by Kumar Funeral Services - The Pinnacle of Compassionate Farewell

In times of bereavement, having access to compassionate and reliable funeral services is paramount for families to navigate through the complexities of bidding farewell to their loved ones. Kumar Funeral Services in Bangalore emerges as a beacon of support, offering comprehensive funeral solutions tailored to the diverse needs of the community. From Hindu crematorium and funeral services to Christian funeral arrangements and mortuary services, Kumar Funeral Services stands as a pillar of empathy, professionalism, and reverence, providing solace to grieving families during their most challenging times. For more details please visit here : https://www.bloglovin.com/@kumarfuneralservices8/honoring-tradition-hindu-crematorium-services

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Hindu Cremation Services in Bangalore with Reverence and Respect - Paramoksha Funeral Service

In the bustling city of Bangalore, Paramoksha Funeral Service emerges as a trusted provider of compassionate and comprehensive funeral services. From Hindu cremation services to the best funeral services, dead body transport services, ambulance services, and access to an electric crematorium in Peenya, Paramoksha ensures that families receive the support and care they need during their time of loss. For more details please visit here : https://paramokshafuneralservice.wordpress.com/2024/04/19/hindu-cremation-services-in-bangalore-with-reverence-and-respect-paramoksha-funeral-service/

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Ghats of Varanasi: Where History Meets Devotion

Varanasi, a city that has witnessed millennia of civilization, offers a spiritual and cultural journey like no other. The ghats of Varanasi are not just riverfront steps; they are the stages for life’s eternal play, where daily rituals, ancient traditions, and the essence of devotion unfold. Each ghat, with its unique backdrop and story, contributes to the tapestry of experiences that make Varanasi a pivotal destination for seekers and travelers alike. Let's explore some of the key ghats and discover the allure of staying close to these sacred spaces at Niraan-The Tent City,Varanasi.

A Journey Through the Ghats

The ghats of Varanasi are the city's soul, stretching along the western bank of the Ganges. They are more than just physical structures; they are spiritual arenas where life’s most profound rituals are performed openly, from the joyous celebrations of birth to the solemn rites of cremation. Each of the 80-plus ghats has its own story.The blend of architectural beauty and spiritual aura makes each ghat a gateway to enlightenment, offering a unique blend of tranquility and vibrancy.

Assi Ghat: The Gateway to Pilgrimage

Assi Ghat, where the Assi River meets the Ganges, serves as the southern gateway to the sacred city. It's a bustling point of departure and return for pilgrims who perform the Panchatirthi Yatra. Morning at Assi Ghat is alive with rituals, yoga, and devotional music, setting a serene start to the day.

Dashashwamedh Ghat: The Heart of Varanasi

Arguably the most vibrant ghat, Dashashwamedh Ghat is famous for its elaborate Ganga Aarti ceremony held every evening. The riot of colors, the choreographed lighting of lamps, and the rhythmic chants captivate both the devout and the curious, creating an unforgettable spectacle.

Manikarnika Ghat: The Sacred Crematorium

Manikarnika Ghat is where life and death intersect openly. As one of the holiest cremation grounds for Hindus, it’s a place where the eternal cycle of birth, death, and rebirth is a public observation, reminding onlookers of life's impermanent nature.

Tulsi Ghat: A Literary Landmark

Named after the revered poet-saint Tulsidas, Tulsi Ghat is steeped in literary and cultural history. It's believed to be the place where Tulsidas wrote the Hindi epic, Ramcharitmanas. The ghat hosts various cultural and spiritual activities, especially during festivals.

Stay Near Varanasi Ghat at Niraan-The Tent City,Varanasi

For those wishing to delve deeper into the spiritual heartbeat of Varanasi, Niraan-The Tent City,Varanasi offers an exceptional stay experience. It’s an oasis of comfort and tranquility, situated in the vicinity of the ghats, providing guests with an intimate connection to the soul of this ancient city.

Why Choose Niraan-The Tent City,Varanasi?

Proximity to the Ghats: Situated near the ghats, it provides easy access to the heart of Varanasi's spiritual life.

Luxury Amidst Spirituality: The tent city offers a blend of luxury and traditional aesthetics, ensuring a comfortable stay while keeping you connected to the city's spiritual vibe.

Cultural Experiences: Guests can enjoy a range of cultural activities and experiences, from Ganga Aarti viewings to guided heritage walks and yoga sessions by the river.

Authentic Cuisine: Savor the flavors of Varanasi with a culinary journey that respects traditional recipes and local ingredients.

The Eternal Dance of Varanasi

Varanasi’s ghats represent the unbroken continuity of human faith and cultural expressions. From the serene mornings at Assi Ghat to the divine evenings at Dashashwamedh Ghat, from the profound solemnity of Manikarnika Ghat to the historical depth of Tulsi Ghat, each step along these riverfronts reveals the multifaceted diamond that is Varanasi. Staying at Niraan-The Tent City,Varanasi enhances this experience, offering a sanctuary where the spiritual vibrancy of the ghats can be lived and breathed, making every moment spent in this eternal city an unforgettable journey of discovery.

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Ghazal singer Pankaj Udhas’ last rites to be held in Mumbai on February 27, confirms daughter Nayaab Udhas

The last rites will be conducted on February 27 in Mumbai.

Veteran ghazal singer Pankaj Udhas passed away at age 72. After a prolonged illness, the singer breathed his last on February 26, as confirmed by his daughter Nayaab Udhas. The singer was undergoing pancreatic cancer treatment. He died around 11 am at the Breach Candy Hospital on Monday. The last rites will be conducted on February 27 in Mumbai.

A statement shared by Udhas’ daughter Nayaab Udhas on her Instagram read, “In loving memory of Padmashri Pankaj Udhas. With a very heavy heart, we are saddened to inform you of his demise on the 26 of February 2024 due to a prolonged illness. The funeral will take place on Tuesday, February 27, from 3 to 5 pm. Venue: Hindu Crematorium. Worli (Mumbai) Landmark Opp. Four Seasons: Dr E Muses Rd. Worli. The Udhas Family.”

Known as one of the finest ghazal singers in India, Pankaj Udhas was born on May 17, 1951, in Gujarat. He was widely acclaimed for his ghazals and his soulful renditions. Udhas rose to prominence in the 1980s and 1990s and became one of the most popular ghazal singers in India. His rich, melodious voice and emotive performances have earned him a large and devoted fan base both in India and abroad.

Some of Pankaj Udhas' most famous ghazals include ‘Chitthi Aayi Hai’, ‘Aur Aahista Kijiye Baatein’, ‘Chandi Jaisa Rang Hai Tera’, and ‘Na Kajre Ki Dhar’ among others. He released numerous albums over the years and collaborated with other notable artists in the Indian music industry.

Udhas received several awards and accolades for his contributions to music, including the Padma Shri, one of India's highest civilian honours, awarded to him in 2006 for his achievements in the field of art.

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Mom

Hi Mom.

You died on Sunday.

I stood there in the ICU, by the foot of your bed, watching your chest rise and fall. You looked asleep like it was just another day, just another bed. If I leaned into your ears and whispered my name, would you wake up and smile at me? I tried, a few times; you were too soundly asleep. It was confusing in this place, to tell the difference between life and death, because the machines were doing an exceptional task of preserving the illusion of breathing. They even sounded like a low snore. Lies.

In a few minutes, they closed the curtains so we had some privacy, and asked me if I was ready. Would I ever be? I nodded. And they switched off the ventilator and pulled the breathing tube away. I was the only one there to witness it; I had adamantly asked for it. Dad and Sis had spent too much time in here already to bring themselves to see this. I held your hand, kissed your cheek, and told you I loved you and that you had been amazing. I cried the brief halting cry of a man who hadn't wept in a dozen years. You deserved more.

The nurse told me it could be an hour before your vitals flatlined. Maybe in the meantime, you are still in there, waiting to be spoken to. Maybe if I used the right words, spoke them loud enough, or said them often enough? Maybe if I had come sooner, prayed harder, had made more phone calls or visited more often, or hugged you more when I had all those chances?

And with one flick of a switch, you were gone.

We decided we will take you home for the evening. Back to that house that you loved, for one more night. You rested in a glass case, looking gorgeous in your beloved pink sari which your sisters had dressed you up in, adorned with flowers. You didn't seem to mind the raft of visitors, friends, family, relatives that leaned over and spoke to you or cried or eulogized, which was ironic because you were such a light sleeper.

All night the lights stayed on, and someone or the other pulled up a chair next to you and chatted away. I liked watching them and imagining how you would respond to this or that, knowing how your face could never quite hide what you really thought of something. No points for subtlety Mom!

Monday morning, the religious ceremony started, that final one that you shall be bothered with. I wore traditional Tamil white, was given a bath by the priest, chanted at and smeared with ash and vermilion. Downstairs, with the entire clan of your loved ones in attendance, you were given a full Hindu ritual service. You weren't fond of the spotlight but you have no choice in this one.

In the open hearse, I stood by you, intermittently welling up and smiling at some random memory while we rolled through traffic to the crematorium. Someone sat at the edge of the vehicle spraying flowers over the side, while everyone else followed in another van. I spoke to you all the way; I hope you heard it all in the din of that atrocious traffic - apologies, thankyous, iloveyous, promises.

And when after an elaborate cremation ceremony, I was handed the deep earthen pot with your ashes, my week of silent agony, mostly made of calm rational surrender, interrupted by short uncontrollable urges to fold and cry, converged. I felt utter loss. The pot. The woman that had created me was now in it, in a form that weighed nothing. Pure, truly irrecoverable.

Along with Dad and a few others, the pot balanced on my left shoulder, I walked the few minutes to the banks of the Kaveri. That big beautiful river. A calm steady current. Banks crowded with coconut trees. Grey skies, and cool breeze. A few other people around, a few children splashing. I walked in into the water, feet on sandy floor, until I was waist deep. I faced the direction of flowing waters, and gently let go of the pot behind me, and was asked not to look back.

The emotional catharsis I had been fervently hoping for, arrived when the pot sank. From every cell in my body, I felt the anguish drain out into the river, drawing with it all the pain, the loss, the scent of hospitals and funerals, leaving behind only your memories, and an overpowering relief. As if you had held my hands and led me into the waters yourself like an ancient goddess, cured your beloved son of desolation, bid goodbye by kissing my forehead, and dissolved away smiling into the waters.

Dad and everyone else watched but left my solitude undisturbed. Thank you. I looked around - currents, trees, bridge, rainclouds, splashes, sand - and tried to memorize that setting in detail. I sensed the beginnings of as beautiful peace.

I waded back to the sand, and hugged Dad. While the rest of the party walked on, Dad and I stood back on the sand banks, facing the quiet river one last time, arms on each other's shoulders.

I waved, 'Bye Mummy, I love you'.

Dad waved at you and said, 'Bye Bye Mummy kutty. I'll see you in my next life'.

And together, Dad and I walked out of that chapter of our stories where we still had you.

You were born here in this town, this little insignificant corner of the universe, and you traveled to the ends of the great Indian subcontinent, lived in mega cities, spoiled and were spoilt by a lovely husband, raised two grateful children, doted on two grandchildren, and imprinted on the hearts of so many. And then you returned to this same place for the final crossing.

You loved us. You were adored in return. You will be cherished forever.

Bye Mummy.

I miss you.

I hope I see you again someday in that other place.

[Aug 2019]

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Exploring Varieties: Different Types Of Cremation Services Offered In Sydney

Cremation has become an increasingly popular choice for end-of-life arrangements in Sydney due to its flexibility, cost-effectiveness, and adaptability to various preferences and beliefs. In Sydney, different types of cremation services cater to diverse cultural, religious, and personal needs, providing options that honor the departed while accommodating the wishes of the bereaved.

1. Traditional Cremation Services:

Traditional cremation services typically include a funeral or memorial ceremony before the cremation process. This may involve a viewing or visitation, religious or cultural rites, and a formal service at a place of worship or funeral home. After the ceremony, the body is cremated.

2. Direct Cremation:

Direct cremation is a simpler and more cost-effective option, omitting a formal ceremony or viewing. The deceased is cremated shortly after death without any additional services. Families can choose to hold a separate memorial service at a later date or in a location of their choosing.

3. Eco-Friendly or Green Cremation:

Eco-friendly or green cremation, also known as bio-cremation or aquamation, is an environmentally conscious alternative. This process uses water-based solutions and alkaline hydrolysis to break down the body, resulting in a more eco-friendly end result compared to traditional cremation.

4. Witnessed or Attended Cremation:

Some crematoriums in Sydney offer the option for family members or loved ones to witness or attend the cremation process. This intimate service allows individuals to be present during the cremation, providing a sense of closure and finality.

5. Religious or Cultural Variations:

Various religious and cultural practices influence cremation services in Sydney. For instance, Hindu cremation ceremonies often involve specific rituals and customs, including purification, prayers, and the scattering of ashes in a sacred body of water. Similarly, Buddhist and Sikh cremation rites may differ in their ceremonial aspects.

6. Scattering of Ashes:

After cremation, families may choose to scatter the ashes in meaningful locations or keep them in urns or keepsake containers. Some crematoriums offer scattering gardens or designated areas for scattering ashes, while others assist in arranging scattering ceremonies at specific locations.

7. Companion or Pet Cremation Services:

In addition to human cremation services, some facilities in Sydney also offer cremation services for pets. Companion animal cremation services provide pet owners with options for honoring their beloved animal companions in a dignified manner.

8. Memorialization Options:

Cremation allows for various memorialization options. Families can choose to keep the ashes in decorative urns, scatter them in nature, inter them in a cemetery, or opt for innovative options like creating memorial jewelry, planting memorial trees, or incorporating ashes into artwork.

9. Hybrid Options:

Some services combine elements of traditional burial and cremation. This includes options such as a cremation followed by the burial of ashes in a family plot or a biodegradable urn burial, blending aspects of both cremation and traditional burial practices.

10. Personalized and Customized Services:

Cremation services in Sydney can be highly personalized to reflect the individuality of the deceased. Families have the freedom to incorporate personal touches, music, readings, and rituals that hold significance to the departed and their loved ones.

In conclusion, the variety of cremation services available in Sydney cater to a spectrum of preferences, beliefs, and practical considerations. Understanding these diverse options empowers individuals and families to make informed choices that best honor the memory and legacy of their loved ones while respecting their wishes and beliefs. Whether opting for traditional ceremonies, eco-friendly alternatives, or personalized memorials, the range of cremation services in Sydney ensures that each farewell is unique and meaningful.

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Ivormadom Cremation Services

Ivormadom is owned by Krishna Prasad Warrier. Cremation is the final disposition of a dead body through burning. It serves as a post funeral rite and is an alternative to burial.